EP 19: From the Guy Women Didn't Want to Date to Dating Coach: The Energetics and Strategy behind Smarter Dating

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We're Dating the Same Guy

Madden Zappa

30 episodes

5 days ago

We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.

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EP 19: From the Guy Women Didn't Want to Date to Dating Coach: The Energetics and Strategy behind Smarter Dating

We're Dating the Same Guy

45 minutes 43 seconds

3 months ago

EP 19: From the Guy Women Didn't Want to Date to Dating Coach: The Energetics and Strategy behind Smarter Dating

What happens when a man realizes he's the guy women don't want to date and completely transforms himself? In this raw conversation, dating and embodiment coach Tyler shares his journey from being disconnected and sabotaging intimacy to helping high-value women date differently.

EPISODE TIMELINE:

00:00 - Introduction: When men realize they're the problem
04:15 - Tyler's transformation story: From feminine to masculine energy
09:30 - Macro vs micro perspective in dating
14:20 - The three pillars: Mindset, energetics, strategy
19:45 - Common limiting beliefs that keep women stuck
26:15 - Masculine vs feminine energy: What it really means
32:40 - Strategic dating: Red flags and verification methods
38:20 - The ultimate relationship question: Would I want my child to be like them?
41:35 - Reflection on personal growth over 5 years
44:15 - Final advice: Changing thoughts, feelings, and actions

IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:

The macro vs micro approach to dating patterns
How to date from a regulated nervous system
The difference between masculine and feminine energy in dating
Strategic tools for identifying red flags early
Why "if it's meant to happen, it will" keeps you stuck
The three pillars: mindset, energetics, and strategy

"The version of you that you are today has created the life that you live right now. And so if you realize that, you also realize that by becoming more of who you are, you can change the reality that you're living right now." - Tyler

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Tyler is a dating and embodiment coach specializing in helping high-value women over 30 create aligned relationships. After struggling with his own relationship patterns and being the kind of man women didn't want to date, Tyler transformed himself through masculine work, men's groups, and deep personal development. He now combines strategic dating methods with energetic and mindset work, helping clients break cycles and attract conscious partnerships.

Tyler's Instagram: @tylerdudding

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