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We're Dating the Same Guy
Madden Zappa
30 episodes
5 days ago
We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.
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We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.
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EP 16: Choosing Love vs Falling in Love: Real Couple's 7-Year Guide to Conscious Relationships
We're Dating the Same Guy
46 minutes 9 seconds
4 months ago
EP 16: Choosing Love vs Falling in Love: Real Couple's 7-Year Guide to Conscious Relationships

In this raw and intimate conversation, real couple Allison and Anthony share their 7-year journey from a casual Tinder meetup in a Costco parking lot to building a conscious, choice-based relationship. They open up about the difference between falling in love and choosing love daily, how they've navigated living in 5 different states together, and what it really takes to grow individually while building a partnership rooted in friendship and mutual respect.

This isn't your typical relationship advice episode - it's an honest look at what happens when two people commit to choosing each other over and over again, even when it's hard. From their unique approach to conflict resolution to their perspective on marriage and external pressures, Allison and Anthony offer practical wisdom for anyone ready to date differently.


EPISODE TIMELINE:

  • 00:00 - Introduction & Their Tinder Love Story
  • 08:15 - Six Months to Moving States Together
  • 12:30 - Falling vs Choosing Love: The Real Difference
  • 18:45 - Building Friendship as Your Foundation
  • 24:20 - Growing Together Without Growing Apart
  • 30:10 - How They Handle Conflict & Communication
  • 35:40 - External Pressures: Marriage & Family Opinions
  • 41:25 - One Piece of Advice to Date Differently


IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:

  • The difference between falling in love vs choosing to love every single day
  • Building friendship as your relationship foundation (even while dating)
  • How to fight constructively without damaging the relationship
  • Setting non-negotiables vs being flexible in your standards
  • Growing individually while growing together as a couple
  • Why your relationship should be about giving, not getting
  • How to handle external pressures about marriage and timelines

"A relationship is not a place where you go to get. It's a place that you go to give." - Anthony


CONNECT WITH ANTHONY AND ALLISON:

Allison and Anthony are a real couple who've been together for almost 7 years, having met when Allison was 18 and Anthony was 24. Through their journey across 5 different states, they've built a relationship foundation based on conscious choice, deep friendship, and mutual growth. Anthony brings insights from his Tony Robbins background and entrepreneurial mindset, while Allison shares her perspective on maintaining femininity and authenticity while building partnership.

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We're Dating the Same Guy
We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.