EP 12: The Law of Attraction & Releasing Control: The 4 Lies we Tell Ourselves in Dating

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We're Dating the Same Guy

Madden Zappa

31 episodes

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We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.

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EP 12: The Law of Attraction & Releasing Control: The 4 Lies we Tell Ourselves in Dating

We're Dating the Same Guy

23 minutes 44 seconds

5 months ago

EP 12: The Law of Attraction & Releasing Control: The 4 Lies we Tell Ourselves in Dating

Tired of dating the same type of guys over and over? Your mindset might be the problem. In this episode, we dive deep into how the law of attraction shapes your dating life and explore the 4 toxic beliefs that keep you stuck in negative dating patterns.

EPISODE TIMELINE:

00:00 - Intro: Why We Keep Dating the Same Guy
01:45 - The Law of Attraction SparkNotes: Like Attracts Like
03:30 - The Infinity Loop: How to Manifest Without Obsessing
06:00 - The Helicopter Parent Analogy: Why Control Kills Manifestation
08:15 - The 99% vs 1% Rule: What You Actually Control in Dating
10:30 - Belief #1: "There Are No Good Men Left"
12:45 - Belief #2: Love Must Happen on a Certain Timeline
15:00 - Belief #3: "I'm Better Off Single Than Getting Hurt"
17:30 - Belief #4: "If I Take a Break, I'll Miss My Chance"
20:00 - Your Energy is Everything: Dating from Excitement vs Frustration
22:30 - Challenge: Rewriting Your Limiting Beliefs

IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:

How your energy directly attracts (or repels) your ideal partner
The infinity loop technique for manifesting love without desperation
4 subconscious beliefs that sabotage your dating success
Why surrendering control actually makes you more magnetic
How to shift from dating with fear to dating with excitement

"We spent so much of our time trying to control things that are truly out of our hands: the timeline, the who, the how. When really our only job is to be in alignment and embody the best version of ourselves. 99% of our lives are really up to God, universe, source, whatever it is you believe in. We are only in charge of 1%."

- Madden

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