Are your kids witnessing a love worth repeating, or a legacy you never meant to leave behind? In today’s episode, Dr. Ryan and Kendra Hewitt pull back the curtain on the quiet but powerful ways we model marriage and parenting to our kids. What began as a conversation with the father of the bride at a wedding unfolds into a passionate, vulnerable discussion about admiration, generational patterns, and the hard truth that every moment, good or bad, is teaching your kids something.
Dr. Ryan shares how his own childhood shaped what he didn’t want in marriage and how, even after intentionally making different choices, those early patterns kept showing up. Kendra opens up about the emotional weight of parenting, sharing a powerful story of losing patience with their daughter and the realization it sparked. From old wounds to fresh awareness, they challenge listeners to stop “playing house” and start consciously creating homes built on love, clarity, and respect.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why admiration in marriage isn’t optional, it’s foundational
How “staying together for the kids” might hurt more than help
The unconscious ways we pass down broken patterns
How to identify and shift from default mode to intentional leadership
Why “clear is kind” should be your new parenting mantra
“What I wouldn’t give to sit at a bar next to my dad and just have a coffee… that’s how powerful modeling is.” – Kendra Hewitt
CALL TO ACTION: If this episode stirred something in you, share it with your spouse or a fellow parent. Journal one way you want to model love more intentionally this week. And don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Weaponized Marriage Podcast. Let’s break generational curses, together.
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Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website: https://www.drryanhewitt.com/