In this powerful and unscripted episode of the Weaponized Marriage Podcast, Dr. Ryan and Kendra Hewitt open up about a life-changing week marked by bold decisions, divine downloads, and radical relational healing. From putting a cabin under contract on pure trust to celebrating new friendships, and diving deep into a transformative plant medicine journey, this episode captures what it looks like to live from your heart, not your head. The Hewitts share raw insight about emotional safety, the freedom of truth-telling, and the power of mutual ownership in marriage.
For the first time, Kendra describes what it felt like to hear Dr. Ryan share the story of his past affair publicly; without shame, fear, or pain. Together, they unpack what makes emotional safety possible, why your “mess becomes your message,” and how plant medicine played a surprising role in helping them process guilt and step into deeper connection. If you're ready for a marriage built on radical honesty, mutual respect, and heart-led growth, this one’s for you.
Key Takeaways:
Trust isn’t just spoken; it’s lived. Kendra signed for a cabin Ryan hadn’t even seen.Friendship loneliness in adulthood is real and deserves attention.
Emotional safety makes it possible to share the hardest truths without fear.
Your “mess” can actually become the pathway to deeper purpose.
Healing is a process that requires honesty, not perfection.
“What if every freaking mess in your life was actually part of the plan?”
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