Ever feel stuck in the same emotional loop, initial excitement followed by frustrating fights? This episode tackles the question: Why do so many marriages never move past the honeymoon phase? Discover where your relationship really is, and how to level up.
Hosts Kendra and Dr. Ryan Hewitt break down the five transformative stages of romantic relationships, adapted from a thought-provoking Instagram-inspired framework. They explore why most couples stall in the honeymoon or power‑struggle stages, and what it takes to move into acceptance and deeper commitment. With personal stories and real-life examples, they guide listeners through identifying their own stage and recognizing whether it's time to lead, grow, or walk away.
You’ll learn:
How the honeymoon phase creates blind spots
Why power struggles happen, and what they really represent
How acceptance can either lead to growth or complacency
What genuine commitment looks like, and why it matters
By the end, you'll have a clear path forward: either to strengthen what’s real, or to courageously redefine your next step.
Key Takeaways:
Honeymoon Phase: Intoxicating chemistry can blind you to red flags.
Power Struggle: Conflicts arise as deeper values and expectations surface.
Acceptance: Recognizing each other’s flaws is important, but only if paired with personal work.
Commitment Redefined: True commitment involves aligned standards, values, and joint effort.
Clear Boundaries: Setting non‑negotiables around health, parenting, finances, and mutual growth is essential.
“Most people never get past level one and two, so honeymoon and power struggle, and they just repeat the cycle over and over.”
Call to Action:If this episode challenges you to think deeper, share it with your partner or a friend. Then, journal or talk together about which of the five stages you feel stuck in, and what the next step toward growth would be. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss a conversation that strengthens your marriage.
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