Na kahin se door hain manzilein, na koi kareeb ki baat hai. Jise chaaha dar pe bula liya, jise chaaha apna bana liya; yeh bade karam ke hain faisle, yeh bade naseeb ki baat hai . . . __ https://soundcloud.com/braj-rasik-vinod-agarwal/sets/radha-naam
We all are hungry for love and seek it from the people around- mother, father, spouse, siblings, progeny, friends etc. However their affection is only a drop of what Lord has to offer us. In fact, His love is the source of all metaphorical love. For that reason devotees say that ‘You are my mother and my father, my friend, my brother, my learning, my wealth, my everything.’
On being sincerely called by a devotee, Lord surely comes but in His own way. Either He makes him feel His direct presence by showing that everything exists in Him only (all in one) or He makes him feel His absence. The sting of this absence keeps the devotee continually connected with Lord and disconnected from the world. Finally a point is reached when he is unable to feel anything else than his Idol (one in all). In Raso-upaasana, the psychological state of this 'effortless and unbroken connection' is called 'Divya unmaad'.
