In this engaging podcast episode, host Joe interviews Tony Thomson, a seasoned veteran with a rich military and police background. As they delve into Tony's journey from a promising student in Cardiff to a successful career in the RAF and later the British Transport Police, listeners gain valuable insights into the challenges of transitioning from military to civilian life. Tony shares his experiences of overcoming obstacles, the importance of resilience, and the transferable skills gained from his time in the military. He emphasises the significance of active listening, asking the right questions, and maintaining a positive outlook. The conversation also highlights the value of mentorship and networking, providing practical advice for veterans seeking to navigate their post-military careers successfully. KEY TAKEAWAYS Active Listening and Questioning: Engaging in active listening and asking insightful questions are crucial skills that facilitate effective communication and understanding in both military and civilian contexts. Resilience and Determination: Overcoming setbacks, such as not being accepted for a commission or facing challenges in transitioning to civilian life, requires resilience and a determination to keep pushing forward despite obstacles. Transferable Skills: Skills developed in the military, such as discipline, teamwork, and communication, are highly transferable to civilian roles. These skills can significantly enhance employability and effectiveness in various industries. Importance of Feedback: Seeking feedback after interviews or promotions is essential for personal growth. Understanding areas for improvement can help individuals refine their skills and increase their chances of success in future opportunities. Building a Support Network: Establishing a strong network of mentors, colleagues, and friends is vital for navigating challenges and seeking guidance. This support system can provide valuable insights and encouragement during difficult times. BEST MOMENTS  "I thought, well, I will find another way and I will, you know, I will get and do something and be successful." "It's about trying to develop your confidence to be able to ask the question or say yes and say no." "All skills are transferable, everything. They might not be immediately, but things like working with people, whatever your job is, you're gonna be talking with people." "The one thing that I found interesting that has quite often stopped them from achieving something is because they're being limited by someone else's self-limiting beliefs."   VALUABLE RESOURCES https://www.linkedin.com/in/itsjoeoconnor/ https://www.facebook.com/The1Transformer https://www.instagram.com/the1transformer/ HOST BIO Joe O'Connor is a resilient business entrepreneur and Financial Adviser dedicated to supporting business owners and veterans in their transition to civilian life. Despite facing life-threatening challenges at a young age, Joe defied the odds and embarked on a remarkable journey. From excelling as a Combat Engineer and Physical Training Instructor in the Royal Engineers to starting his own business as a Financial Adviser, Joe has displayed unwavering determination. After rejoining the Army as a reservist in the Bomb Disposal Unit, Joe reached the rank of Sergeant before transferring to the SAS, where he endured a severe injury and was medically discharged. Undeterred, he resumed his role as an IFA and founded a charity that aids injured veterans and their families. Joe's charity is currently finalizing plans for a training center and 23 Lodges, aiming to provide vital support for veterans transitioning to civilian life while addressing stress, anxiety, and PTSD. Today, Joe's mission is to unite business owners and veterans, helping them unleash their full potential for success.