You know that moment when you're crushing it at work, checking all the boxes, doing ALL the right things... and then that sneaky little voice in your head whispers "but what if you're not good enough?"
Yeah, that voice. The one that shows up uninvited, like that relative who always has an opinion about your life choices.
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In this week's episode, we're diving into something that might just blow your mind: what if those thoughts aren't even yours? What if, like an old computer running Windows 95, your brain is just operating on an outdated system someone else installed?
Pamela shares a personal story about a recent "aha moment" that completely changed how she thinks about success (spoiler alert: it involves cold coffee and a sunset, and it's not what you'd expect).
You'll discover:
Why working harder isn't always the answer (and what actually is)
A mind-bending question that instantly reveals which thoughts are holding you back
The surprising truth about what successful people actually think about all day
A practical tool you can use next time that voice shows up (no meditation required!)
Fair warning: This episode might make you question everything you thought you knew about success. But in the best possible way.
Ready to upgrade your mental operating system? Hit play now. Your future self will thank you.
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About the host:
Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.
This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.
I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.