United Christian Marriage | Communication, Connection, Lonely Marriage, Young Wife, Newlywed, Building Trust, Biblical Wife,
Micaiah Gray | Christian Marriage Coach, Marriage Counseling and Marriage Therapy Alternative, Christian Wife Coach, Relationship Coach
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Feeling alone in your marriage? Struggling to communicate in your marriage? Feeling disconnected, or stuck in the same fights?
Marriage may feel hard right now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You may feel completely disconnected and withdrawn, but being UNITED is possible for your marriage!
I was married at 18, after having a baby, and had no family support while I navigated it all, yet I still was able to go from completely lost and broken, to thriving in my marriage, home and parenthood. How? Well this podcast is all about the first step on the journey, which is unifying your marriage.
In this podcast I will walk you through the biblical design for marriage, teach you how to be a biblical wife, and I bring my husband on occasionally so you can grab your husband and have a moment to be united as you listen to the show and grow together.
→ Welcome to The United Christian Marriage Podcast, where we teach you how to truly become ONE in your marriage. We talk about real life issues that are keeping you feeling lonely and divided in your marriage, and give you practical steps to overcome them so you can have the United Marriage of your dreams.
We do this by teaching self-coaching (communication) tools, biblical wisdom, and our real-life experience on how you can break unhealthy patterns, heal from past wounds, and build a Christ-centered home, by first starting with your marriage.
Hi, I’m Micaiah, a Christian (trauma-informed) marriage coach on a mission to help couples communicate better so they can stop repeating toxic cycles, reconnect with each other, and create a marriage that honors God.
Whether you’re asking “Is this normal?” or searching for marriage help, Christian marriage advice, or solutions for fighting with your spouse, you’re in the right place.
Here, we get practical about:
✅ How to communicate in your marriage
✅ Setting boundaries that protect your marriage & family
✅ Navigating different ideas & expectations with your spouse
✅ Healing trauma & breaking generational cycles
✅ Strengthening your marriage while healing from the past
✅ Overcoming anxiety, technology addiction, and stress in marriage
✅ Restoring intimacy & reconnecting after seasons of distance
✅ Raising children who embody Christ-like values
✅ Biblical submission, serving your spouse, & God’s design for marriage
If you’ve ever thought, “There has to be something better than this”—you’re right. You don’t have to figure this out alone. Healing starts here.
➡️ Join the conversation in the United Christian Marriage Facebook group: [https//bio.site/MicaiahGray]
Previously named: Reviving Christian Families
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Feeling alone in your marriage? Struggling to communicate in your marriage? Feeling disconnected, or stuck in the same fights?
Marriage may feel hard right now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You may feel completely disconnected and withdrawn, but being UNITED is possible for your marriage!
I was married at 18, after having a baby, and had no family support while I navigated it all, yet I still was able to go from completely lost and broken, to thriving in my marriage, home and parenthood. How? Well this podcast is all about the first step on the journey, which is unifying your marriage.
In this podcast I will walk you through the biblical design for marriage, teach you how to be a biblical wife, and I bring my husband on occasionally so you can grab your husband and have a moment to be united as you listen to the show and grow together.
→ Welcome to The United Christian Marriage Podcast, where we teach you how to truly become ONE in your marriage. We talk about real life issues that are keeping you feeling lonely and divided in your marriage, and give you practical steps to overcome them so you can have the United Marriage of your dreams.
We do this by teaching self-coaching (communication) tools, biblical wisdom, and our real-life experience on how you can break unhealthy patterns, heal from past wounds, and build a Christ-centered home, by first starting with your marriage.
Hi, I’m Micaiah, a Christian (trauma-informed) marriage coach on a mission to help couples communicate better so they can stop repeating toxic cycles, reconnect with each other, and create a marriage that honors God.
Whether you’re asking “Is this normal?” or searching for marriage help, Christian marriage advice, or solutions for fighting with your spouse, you’re in the right place.
Here, we get practical about:
✅ How to communicate in your marriage
✅ Setting boundaries that protect your marriage & family
✅ Navigating different ideas & expectations with your spouse
✅ Healing trauma & breaking generational cycles
✅ Strengthening your marriage while healing from the past
✅ Overcoming anxiety, technology addiction, and stress in marriage
✅ Restoring intimacy & reconnecting after seasons of distance
✅ Raising children who embody Christ-like values
✅ Biblical submission, serving your spouse, & God’s design for marriage
If you’ve ever thought, “There has to be something better than this”—you’re right. You don’t have to figure this out alone. Healing starts here.
➡️ Join the conversation in the United Christian Marriage Facebook group: [https//bio.site/MicaiahGray]
Previously named: Reviving Christian Families
How to overcome resentment in a Christian marriage: 3 biblical healing steps to restore peace. Resentment in marriage is like a slow leak — it drains the love, joy, and peace out of your relationship without you even realizing it. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. In this episode, I’m sharing 3 Biblical, Holy Spirit-led steps to process your emotions, understand the event that caused the hurt, and finally walk in true forgiveness. Whether you’re dealing with anger, betrayal, disappointment, or years of built-up bitterness, you’ll learn practical tools and scriptural encouragement to heal your heart and move forward with your spouse in unity. Resources & Links Mentioned: 📥 Free Emotion Words Download → https://reviving-christian-families.kit.com/emotion-words-downloadable-list 📞 Book A Marriage Coaching Call → https://calendar.app.google/z7nDYjay4e8RAyCDA 📖 Book: The Charisma Myth 📖 Book: The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson Let’s Connect: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19BUb3jZcg/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BeABiblicalWife
Got The Tools, Now What? In Day Five of the Joyful and Peaceful Wife Challenge, we’re bringing it all together — the tools, the mindset shifts, and the habits that will actually last. You’ll learn how to combine what you’ve learned into a realistic lifestyle change, why accountability is non-negotiable, and how to let the Holy Spirit guide your daily rhythms.
Whether your marriage is thriving, struggling, or somewhere in between, this episode will give you the encouragement and practical steps you need to move forward with joy, peace, and purpose.
If you’re ready to build a joyful, peaceful marriage one small step at a time — this episode is for you.
Links & Resources Mentioned:
Join the Free Community Group
Learn about the Save Your Marriage Blueprint 1:1 coaching
Book an a la carte coaching session
Waitlist for the Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program
Let’s Connect:
Subscribe on YouTube
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Are you ready to learn how to write scriptures on your heart and have them come to mind just when you need them? Learn How to Write Scripture on Your Heart AND in Your Home (Day 4 of the Joyful Wife Challenge)We hear the phrase “write it on your heart” all the time… but what does that actually look like in your daily life — in your kitchen, your bathroom, your laundry room? In Day 4 of the Joyful and Peaceful Wife Challenge, I’ll show you how to start memorizing scripture in a way that’s doable, location-based, and surprisingly powerful.
🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned:
👉 Join the Facebook Group + Post Your Homework
💬 Want personal feedback on your marriage journey? Book a Coaching Call
Are you a Christian entrepreneur or ministry leader who wants to improve your marriage so you can serve better in your vocational calling? Then this is the perfect next step for you:
💛 Apply To Join The Save Your Marriage Blueprint
🙌 Love the Challenge So Far?
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Why Practicing Is the Secret Weapon for Christian Wives
Welcome to Day 3, and girl — we’re going there. 👏No more skipping this wildly underrated step in becoming the wife God is calling you to be.Today’s challenge? Learning how to practice joy and peace so that your actions and reactions finally align with your heart’s desire.
🚨 Plus: If you're not in the Facebook group yet, go join and post your homework! Not only will it help you remember what you're learning, but you might just win a full day of Voxer coaching with me.
💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why “practice makes progress” is more biblical (and realistic!) than “perfect”
The three types of practice that actually transform your marriage
How to rewire your brain to respond instead of react — even in hard moments
The real reason many Christian wives skip celebrating small wins—and how that’s holding them back
🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned:
👉 Join the Facebook Group + Post Your Homework
💬 Want personal feedback on your marriage journey? Book a Coaching Call
Are you a Christian entrepreneur or ministry leader who wants to improve your marriage so you can serve better in your vocational calling? Then this is the perfect next step for you:
💛 Apply To Join The Save Your Marriage Blueprint
🙌 Love the Challenge So Far?
If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend or tag me on Instagram!And if you're loving the series, leave a quick review — it helps other Christian wives find the support they need.
Joyful & Peaceful Wife Challenge – Day 2: The Mindset Shift You Have to Make
You can’t create a peaceful home with a chaotic mind.Day 2 of our Joyful Wife Challenge goes deep — but it’s going to change everything.
In this episode, I walk you through:
How your thoughts are quietly shaping your marriage.
The journaling practice that will expose what’s really holding you back.
How to ask better questions so your brain gives you better answers.
One self-coaching tool that I teach all my clients (and you can start using today!)
How to gently challenge the lie, “My husband doesn’t care…”
BONUS: How to win a free day of Voxer coaching with me!
👇 Links + Resources 🗂 Join the free Facebook Group📞 Apply for 1:1 coaching 📩 Get email encouragement🕊️ Loved this episode? Share it with another Christian wife who wants to rebuild joy in her marriage — and leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this encouragement.
Feeling stuck in negative patterns as a wife?If you've found yourself overwhelmed, easily irritated, or emotionally exhausted in your marriage, you're not alone—and this challenge is for you. Day 1 of the Joyful and Peaceful Wife Challenge kicks off with one simple tool that will literally rewire your brain and help you start seeing your husband—and yourself—through a completely different lens.
Let’s stop the spiral of anxiety, anger, and discouragement… and learn how to renew our minds with God’s help. And yes, I’m doing this challenge right alongside you. 💛
In today’s episode, we cover:
Why it’s so easy to focus on everything going wrong
How your brain is wired to confirm your beliefs (even the toxic ones)
A dead-simple tool that will help you feel better and show up better in your marriage
How to pair prayer and gratitude to supercharge your day
Encouragement to start fresh, right where you are
Resources & Links Mentioned:
Joyful and Peaceful Wife Challenge Playlist
Biblical Wife Coaching Call
Join the Facebook Group
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Are you struggling now to snap at your husband? Does your marriage feel like one long miscommunication? Do you ever snap and then feel crushed by guilt? This episode is for the Christian wife who wants to love her husband well, but keeps defaulting to frustration, nagging, or emotional shutdowns. You’ll walk away with 5 deeply practical, biblically grounded communication tips that will shift the way you show up in your marriage starting today. Whether you're overwhelmed, overstimulated, or over it... there is hope. Let’s talk about how to heal your marriage communication—without shame, without fluff, and always with Jesus at the center. 🎧 Listen now and take the first small step toward the communication breakthrough your marriage needs. Resources & Links Mentioned: 💬 Book a 1-on-1 coaching call with Micaiah 🧠 Join the waitlist for the marriage coaching program💕 Join the Facebook communityIf you loved this episode: 🕊️ Help us get this message into more hurting marriages!🌟 Please leave a 5-star review 📲 Screenshot and share this episode to your Instagram stories
If you've ever wondered what it really means to be a biblical wife—without losing yourself in the process—this episode is for you.
I’m sharing the raw truth behind the stereotypes, the tears I cried trying to live up to a “perfect wife” image, and what Scripture actually teaches about being a godly woman in marriage.
This isn’t about being a Stepford wife or living like it’s 1950. It’s about strength, wisdom, Holy Spirit-led love, and learning to honor God in your role—without abandoning your voice.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What the Bible truly says about being a biblical wife
The common misconceptions that hurt Christian marriages
How to be submissive without being silent
Why meek doesn’t mean weak—and how to spot that survival-mode mindset
The moment I realized I had no clue what respect really looked like
How the entire Bible—not just a few verses—transformed my marriage
💡 Whether you're newly married or five years in, this episode will give you practical hope and clarity.
🎧 Ready to ditch the pressure and embrace peace in your role as a wife? Let’s dive in!
Resources & Links Mentioned:
📞 Book a coaching call with Micaiah
💬 Join The Facebook Group To Connect With Other Wives
✨ Leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review & share this episode on your stories!
Follow Along on the Be A Biblical Wife Youtube Channel
Want personalized help working through marriage struggles or reconnecting as a couple?Book a coaching call today—spots are limited and prices will increase soon!
In this episode, I am interceding for your marriage through a guided prayer, as well as discussing what it really means to be a godly wife (and How Prayer Can Actually Change Your Marriage)
If you've ever prayed for your husband and felt like nothing changed… if you've ever felt emotionally exhausted trying to be a "good Christian wife"... if you've ever wondered, "Am I doing this right?"—this episode is for you.
In this power-packed and prayer-led message, I intercede for your marriage, share personal stories from my own hard beginnings as a wife, and walk you through the real heart of being a biblical wife—not from a place of shame, but from truth, healing, and power.
✨ We cover:
What Scripture really says about being a godly wife
How spiritual warfare affects your marriage (and how to pray strategically)
Why emotional regulation might be the missing piece in your connection
What to do if your husband isn’t walking with God
How to stop trying to control and start surrendering in power
Grab your earbuds, your journal, and maybe some tissues. This one is raw, real, and filled with hope. ❤️
🔥 Resources Mentioned:
Free Guide for Wives
The Path Method Podcast Episode (Emotional Regulation)
Book a Coaching Call
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😬 Struggling with Submission? You’re Not Alone, Sis!
Submission is one of the most misunderstood concepts in Christian marriage, especially for newlywed wives trying to find their voice and follow biblical principles. In today’s episode, I’m sharing real-life stories (yep, even the wardrobe battles), vulnerable moments, and practical biblical truth to help you understand submission through a lens of grace, partnership, and growth.
If you've ever asked, "Can I still be a strong woman and submit biblically?" — this episode is for you.
Grab your coffee and journal, because this one is deep, real, and full of grace.
💡 What You'll Learn:
The areas I really struggled to submit as a newlywed wife
What helped me move from “don’t tell me what to wear” to dressing with peace and purpose
How I used to bulldoze our routines—and what changed everything
The difference between leading with your husband vs. leading over him
5 powerful results we’ve seen in our home from learning biblical submission
❤️ Want Support?
➡️ Book a free marriage coaching call with me before prices go up!Let’s discuss your real-life situation and create a custom, Spirit-led action plan tailored to you.
➡️ Want to go deeper? Apply for my group coaching program where I teach healthy marriage mindsets, biblical frameworks for submission and communication, and how to partner with your spouse and the Lord to restore connection.
📚 Related podcast episodes:
“Do You Feel Lonely? How to Deal With a Distant Husband”
“What If My Husband Isn’t Interested in Working on Our Marriage?”
“Do You Feel Like You're Doing All The Work And He Doesn't Notice? 5 Steps To Get The Support You Need.”
Godly Marriage Advice For Newlyweds: 3 Things You Need To Know For A Healthy Christian Marriage
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Do you feel emotionally disconnected from your spouse? Like you’re living in the same house, but your hearts are miles apart? In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to reconnect emotionally in your Christian marriage. Whether you're struggling to communicate, feeling distant, or missing the deep intimacy you once had, I’m sharing a few simple shifts that helped me go from extremely lonely to feeling seen, heard, and valued in my marriage.👇 In this episode, you’ll hear: - Why emotional disconnection often starts in our thoughts
- The difference between men and women’s internal narratives during conflict
- How I handled a moment of deep loneliness—and how God met me there
- A real-life story of how playfulness restored intimacy in our home
- The power of using systems to protect emotional connection
- What to do when your spouse triggers you (and how mine handled it like a champ)
- Encouragement to fantasize, play, and create joy inside your marriage
- How to start reconnecting without forcing or manipulating your spouse 💬 If you’ve been stuck in a place where connection feels impossible, this episode will help you see new hope—and new tools—to get back on the same page. 👉 Resources & Links Mentioned: 💬 Join the free Facebook group📞 Book your free marriage coaching call: Schedule here 🎧 Listen to more episodes: Browse all episodes ⭐️ Leave a review & share! If this episode blessed you, please leave a 5-star review and a quick comment to help other Christian couples find the show. Screenshot and tag me in your stories so we can spread the mission of healing families through Christ!
Did You Imagine Marriage Would Make You Feel More Loved And Connected? Ever Wondered Why You Feel So Alone Even Though You're Married? 💬 Feeling lonely in your Christian marriage? You’re not alone—literally. In today’s episode, we’re discussing the emotional isolation that many Christian wives silently carry and how to begin the journey back to deep connection. Whether you’re constantly asking, “Why do I feel so alone in my marriage?” or secretly Googling things like “lonely but married,” this episode is for you. I share my own story of loneliness, trauma, and how God led me through healing, plus research-backed truths and biblical wisdom that will encourage and equip you to reconnect—first with yourself and God, and then with your spouse. 📣 Ready for real change? If emotional loneliness has become your normal and you want a new story, I’d love to help. Book a free coaching call or apply for the Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program below. Book your FREE call with Micaiah Apply To: The Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program🙏 If you loved this episode, don’t forget to: Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review Share it to your stories and tag me so I can thank you personally! Remember: Healthy marriages create healthy homes—and healthy homes change generations. You are not alone. I’m praying for you!Follow me on IG and Facebook: https://bio.site/MicaiahGray
Am I being disrespectful when I disagree with him? Is speaking up unbiblical? What does submission actually look like in a healthy, Christ-centered marriage? This episode is for YOU. We’re busting the myth that submission equals silence — and leaning into what Scripture actually says about communication and being a biblical wife. 👑 Inside this episode: - The surprising root of combativeness in marriage (and how Micaiah overcame it) - The real meaning of a quiet and gentle spirit (spoiler: it’s not about being silent or small) - Why your tone matters more than your words — and how to practice a respectful one - How to check your heart posture before you speak 3 biblical examples of godly confrontation (Abigail, Esther, and even Jesus!) - 5 practical communication tips to speak up with love (even about hard things) 💡 You’ll walk away knowing:
How to honor God without losing your voice
Why submission doesn’t mean shrinking
What the Bible actually says about wives speaking truth in love 🎯
Resources & Links Mentioned: - Book a free marriage coaching session (for both spouses)
- Book a free biblical wife coaching session (with Micaiah & you)
- Download the free guide for wives
Scriptures for further study: • Ephesians 5:22–24 • 1 Peter 3:1–4 • Proverbs 27:6, 12:4, 31:10–12, 21:9 • 1 Samuel 25 (Abigail) • Matthew 16:23 (Jesus & Peter) • Book of Esther Mentioned Book: Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
❤️ Ready to take the next right step in your marriage? I’d love to help you get personal clarity on how to walk this out in your home. Book a free marriage coaching call — limited spots available! If this episode encouraged you, would you take 30 seconds to leave a review? Or share this with a friend who needs it? It helps more than you know.
Do you feel guilty for being unhappy in your marriage? Do you feel ashamed of the state of your marriage, and stuck in keeping it a secret? Are you searching for Christian marriage help? Thinking and praying about how to save your Christian marriage? Feeling stuck in your marriage? Maybe you have considered a Christian marriage coach, marriage help books, or podcasts on Christian marriage restoration.
You’re not alone! In this episode, I’ll walk you through how to overcome guilt and be radically honest about your needs without triggering a defensive shutdown from your spouse 🩵. Whether you're feeling distant or downright disappointed, there's a better way to speak up—and invite healing. 🌱
✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to gently bring up hard things without starting an argument
Why the phrase “we need to talk” shuts him down—and what to say instead
A simple script for when you're feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or disappointed
The power of speaking life over your husband (even when you're upset!)
Why hiding your hurt doesn’t make you holy—and what God says about honesty
A journaling prompt and prayer reflection to help you get real with God
🎧 Listen in now and learn:
How to create honest, healing conversations in your marriage without guilt, blame, or manipulation. You don’t have to keep quiet—and you don’t have to go to war. Let’s talk about a better way 💬✝️
🧠 Resources & Links Mentioned:
Free Marriage Coaching Call
Grab The Free Guide For Wives
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What To Do When Your Husband Pulls Away Emotionally (4 Christ-Centered Tools That Actually Work)
Is your husband pulling away, and you don’t know how to fix it? 💔You're not alone—and you’re not powerless. Today, we're diving into 4 practical, faith-rooted ways to respond when your husband emotionally shuts down. If you're tired of the emotional distance and ready for a REAL connection, this episode is for you. 🙏
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why your husband might be withdrawing—and what’s really behind it✔️ How to respond with wisdom instead of desperation✔️ The power of speaking life over your marriage✔️ Why emotional safety starts with your own calm presence✔️ How your childhood wounds might be repeating themselves in your marriage✔️ A faith-based mindset shift that will change your prayers (and your marriage!)✔️ What to do today to start healing emotional distance
🎧 Listen in now if you're ready to:→ Feel more connected with your husband, even when he's shutting down→ Learn how to create safety and calm in your marriage (without losing yourself)→ Invite God into the deepest, loneliest parts of your relationship→ Get equipped with Christ-centered tools that work in real life
Resources & Links Mentioned:💍 Book a free marriage coaching call with me📘 Deeply Connected Marriage Program📚 Book mentioned: The Circle Maker by Mark BattersonDevotional mentioned: Tend What You Can Reach
Leave a Review:If this episode encouraged you, please take 30 seconds to rate and review the podcast ⭐️. It helps us reach more Christian couples who are ready to heal. Screenshot it and tag me @unitedchristianmarriage to share!
How to Get Your Husband on Board Without Pushing Him Away
Are you craving support for your marriage—but your husband’s just not there yet? This episode is for every wife who’s feeling stuck, doing the work alone, and praying her husband will say yes to coaching, counseling, or support.
➡️ Inside this episode, I’ll show you how to invite your husband into the process without nagging, pressuring, or making him feel like the villain. You’ll learn:
Why curiosity is your superpower (and how to use it biblically)
The exact questions to ask that lower his defenses and open his heart
What to say when you don’t agree with him but still want to stay connected
How to share your growth without sounding preachy or pushy
The secret to letting him see the fruit of your transformation
How to reframe coaching as a tool—not a threat
The spiritual mindset shift that will strengthen your faith and your marriage
If you've been trying to carry this burden alone, take a deep breath. You don’t have to do it all perfectly—and you don’t have to wait for your husband to take the first step.
✨ You can honor your husband and still ask for help.
🎧 Tune in now and be encouraged, equipped, and reminded that your marriage is not stuck—it's just waiting for the right strategy and Spirit-led guidance.
Resources & Links Mentioned:
Grab Our Free Guide For Wives
Book a free coaching call with Micaiah
Apply For The Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program
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Why Peace in Marriage Doesn’t Always Mean You Have A Deeply Connected Marriage.In this episode, we break down what emotional distance really looks and feels like. I share a personal story from my own marriage to show you what it was like for me and reassure you that you are not alone in feeling this way.You will also find some loving, biblical encouragement and some practical steps that you can begin taking to improve your connection. If you are tired of feeling lonely in your Christian marriage and you keep wondering how to create a deeper connection to your spouse, then this is the episode for you!Links & Resources:Grab My Free Guide For WivesGrab A Free Coaching Call With MicaiahApply To Join The Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program
Feel like you're the only one trying to heal your marriage? Here’s how to move forward spiritually and emotionally—before your spouse ever decides to join you.
If your husband isn’t ready to lead, change, or even talk about it—here’s what you can do (and why it matters more than you think). You’ll leave this episode with biblical encouragement, practical action steps, and renewed hope for what God can do… even if it feels like you're doing it alone right now.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why focusing on your own habits and healing is the most powerful first step
How to invite your spouse in without pressure or manipulation
The surprising power of serving during seasons of waiting
Why "I statements" and soft starts can completely shift your conversations
What Scripture says about wives winning over their husbands—without a word
How to spiritually fast, even if your husband won’t join you
📌 Don’t forget:Your behavior rooted in purity, prayer, and reverence has eternal impact. Even if he’s not on board yet, God is already moving.
✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
Book a Free Coaching Call With Me
Join Our Free Facebook Group
Apply To Join The Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program
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Are you a Christian wife longing for your husband to step into spiritual leadership—but feeling discouraged, disconnected, or even resentful that he won’t? What directions does scripture give to wives of husbands who don't lead spiritually? Looking for Bible Scriptures as a Wife? Wondering what the husband's spiritual leader's verses say?In this episode, we explore what it means to be a biblical wife according to 1 Peter 3 and how God invites us to honor Him even when our marriage doesn’t look like we imagined.
Micaiah walks through a powerful 1 Peter 3 commentary, revealing what the Bible really says about submission, respect, and spiritual influence in marriage. Whether you're a newlywed seeking Christian marriage advice for newlyweds or you've been walking through years of emotional distance, this conversation offers real, biblical hope.
This episode is especially for the wife who’s asking:
Where is marriage in the Bible?
What does the Bible say about a quarrelsome wife?
How can I respect my husband when he isn’t leading?
What does a godly wife in the Bible actually do when she feels alone?
We unpack what it looks like to live out your biblical wife role, including the bible verse "wife respect your husband", and the deeper meaning of a gentle and quiet spirit. You’ll also learn why trying to take over your husband's role can sabotage your connection—and how stepping back into your God-given place can restore Christian marriage intimacy and trust.
If you’ve ever wondered what the Christian wife duties really are or how to embody the biblical wife characteristics modeled by the virtuous woman in Proverbs, this episode is for you.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
What the Bible says about a wife’s role in marriage
The connection between a wife’s respect and her husband’s spiritual growth
What it truly means to submit to your husband (biblically—not culturally!)
Why Christian marriage emotional abuse must never be justified by Scripture, but how it might actually just be a lack of respect and a presence of fleshly pride in your marriage.
How to live out the 'honor your husband' Bible verses and not lose yourself
How to become the best Christian wife you can be without shame or striving
Why biblical woman characteristics are not weakness, but spiritual strength
What to do when your husband is spiritually distant, passive, or unbelieving
Resources & Support:
📖 Ready to renew your mind and rebuild your marriage God’s way? Apply now for the Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program
📞 Want to talk it through first? Book a free clarity call with Micaiah
📚 Recommended reading: Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
📔 Looking for a Christian marriage devotional? Start With Our Free Guide For Wives
Coming Soon: Grab our list of 101 ways to respect your husband, filled with encouragement, Scripture, and practical action steps to help you walk in your God-given calling as a wife.
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Is Pride Quietly Sabotaging Your Christian Marriage?
Have you been wondering what the Bible says about marriage problems? Ever find yourself stuck in frustration, negativity, or even resentment, and not sure why? You’re not alone. These moments can quietly chip away at connection, and often, pride is at the root.
In this episode, we’re getting real about the sneaky signs of pride in a Christian marriage, how it might be affecting the emotional intimacy in your relationship, and what you can do to change it—starting today.
This isn’t about shame. It’s about healing. And it’s rooted in Scripture, spiritual insight, and real-life growth from someone who’s walked through it, too.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
How your posture and body language may reveal deeper emotional disconnection
What your facial expressions are communicating—and how they affect your husband
The surprising connection between humility and healing in marriage
A simple mind-body tool to reset your attitude
The truth about the role of a wife in a Christian marriage—and why humility isn’t weakness
A powerful Christian marriage prayer to help you release pride and reconnect
Why living out the “respect your husband” Bible verse is actually about surrender
Whether you're looking for Christian marriage counseling questions, prayers for a failing marriage, or just a deeper understanding of how to be a godly wife, this episode offers truth, grace, and practical help for every season.
Don’t forget: Save this episode so you can replay the prayer anytime you need a reminder to lay pride down and pick up humility. Resources & Links Mentioned: 📞 Book a free marriage coaching call🎁 Grab The Free Secure Marriage Method Workbook For Wives📝 Apply For Our Marriage Coaching Program (even if you're just curious!)🩵 If this episode encouraged you, leave a quick review or share it on your stories. You never know who else might need this reminder that God’s design for marriage brings healing, not shame.
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Feeling alone in your marriage? Struggling to communicate in your marriage? Feeling disconnected, or stuck in the same fights?
Marriage may feel hard right now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You may feel completely disconnected and withdrawn, but being UNITED is possible for your marriage!
I was married at 18, after having a baby, and had no family support while I navigated it all, yet I still was able to go from completely lost and broken, to thriving in my marriage, home and parenthood. How? Well this podcast is all about the first step on the journey, which is unifying your marriage.
In this podcast I will walk you through the biblical design for marriage, teach you how to be a biblical wife, and I bring my husband on occasionally so you can grab your husband and have a moment to be united as you listen to the show and grow together.
→ Welcome to The United Christian Marriage Podcast, where we teach you how to truly become ONE in your marriage. We talk about real life issues that are keeping you feeling lonely and divided in your marriage, and give you practical steps to overcome them so you can have the United Marriage of your dreams.
We do this by teaching self-coaching (communication) tools, biblical wisdom, and our real-life experience on how you can break unhealthy patterns, heal from past wounds, and build a Christ-centered home, by first starting with your marriage.
Hi, I’m Micaiah, a Christian (trauma-informed) marriage coach on a mission to help couples communicate better so they can stop repeating toxic cycles, reconnect with each other, and create a marriage that honors God.
Whether you’re asking “Is this normal?” or searching for marriage help, Christian marriage advice, or solutions for fighting with your spouse, you’re in the right place.
Here, we get practical about:
✅ How to communicate in your marriage
✅ Setting boundaries that protect your marriage & family
✅ Navigating different ideas & expectations with your spouse
✅ Healing trauma & breaking generational cycles
✅ Strengthening your marriage while healing from the past
✅ Overcoming anxiety, technology addiction, and stress in marriage
✅ Restoring intimacy & reconnecting after seasons of distance
✅ Raising children who embody Christ-like values
✅ Biblical submission, serving your spouse, & God’s design for marriage
If you’ve ever thought, “There has to be something better than this”—you’re right. You don’t have to figure this out alone. Healing starts here.
➡️ Join the conversation in the United Christian Marriage Facebook group: [https//bio.site/MicaiahGray]
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