Today’s guest is an absolute powerhouse of a mentor and a former 1:1 client of mine who I consider a friend by now. She is one of those women who embody what happens when you stop trying to shrink yourself into what the industry tells you to be – and instead go all in on who the fuck you actually are.
Mirjam Novy has built not just one, but TWO magnetic online brands over the past 7 years – and she did not do so by obsessing over trends and rules. Instead, she showed up as her bold, intense, messy, real self. Now she helps other women build their EMPOWERED EMPIRES by turning their “too muchness” into their biggest superpower.
We’re diving deep into all things identity shifts and stepping into the next level, stripping away the non-literal filter, showing up as your true self, the correlation between healing work and success, fears when entering a breakthrough, the importance of embodying health feminine and masculine energy, and so much more!
So babe, grab your cacao or matcha and a journal, because you’re going to want to take notes and implement these golden nuggets!
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What’s possible, you might wonder?
In Mirjam's words:
"The realization that I could finally SCALE once I learned how to balance my masculine and feminine energy was life-changing. I discovered that scaling doesn’t work if you’re hustling yourself to death, because it will never feel safe or fun. Now, for the first time, it feels safe to scale and I didn’t even realize before that it hadn’t felt safe. I think that’s such an important point to highlight, because I think a lot of women are unaware of this (like I was).
Another powerful piece is definitely how I transformed my love life. The love and appreciation I receive from the men in my life right now is iiiiinsane and I’m finally able to fully receive it."
In this episode, we discuss:
00:40 - Intro to today’s guest - a powerhouse mentor & former 1:1 client of mine, Mirjam Novy
03:40 - Mirjam’s journey and the identity shifts that allowed her to unlock her next level
20:15 - Stripping away the non-literal filter in order to show up as your true & authentic self
27:25 - The correlation between identity & healing work, and success in your career
36:35 - How to move through fear when entering a messy breakthrough season
40:30 - Why embodying healthy masculine and feminine energy is so life-changing
51:50 - How Mirjam flipped being feminine in her business and masculine in dating
59:45 - Mirjam’s top tip Unfuck Your Life that you can integrate ASAP
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Episode 112: Becoming a top 1% feminine leader and creating a balanced lifestyle with Corinne DeFilippis
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Connect with Mirjam:
Mirjam’s Website: https://mirjamnovy.com/
Mirjam’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ownitmirjamnovy/
German Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mirjam.novy/
Mirjam’s Podcast: Tune into OWNING WHO THE FUCK YOU ARE here!
Connect with Laura:
Laura’s Website: https://www.lauraherde.com/
Laura’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laura.herde/
Laura’s 1-1 Coaching: https://www.lauraherde.com/application-1-1
Laura’s Coaching Certification Course: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedcoachacademy/
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*FREE* HEAL YOUR FEMININE ENERGY GUIDE
*FREE* MASTERCLASS: THE ART OF ATTRACTION (MEN & MONEY)
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