Are you a single Christian girl wondering what the qualities of a good Christian man to marry are? In the realm of Christian dating, the quest to find a suitable life partner often revolves around identifying a man whose qualities align with biblical principles. As Christian singles navigate the challenging waters of dating, there are specific attributes they ought to seek, echoing the teachings and values of their faith. Here’s a guide to the qualities of a good man to […]

Many single Christians lack self control in their sex lives. Not a few have written us asking for help with their lack of self control in this area, and how to deal with the guilt over it. The top culprits of habitual masturbation, porn addiction and sex before marriage have disrupted their fellowship with the Lord. Self Control and Singles in the Bible It’s amazing how much God speaks about self control in the Bible, In fact, the Apostle Paul […]

Wondering how to meet Christian singles the right way without getting ghosted? Meeting Christian singles can be a meaningful and fulfilling experience, especially if you share the same values and beliefs. In a world where dating apps and casual encounters dominate the dating scene, finding a partner who shares your faith can be a challenge. However, with the right approach and a little guidance, you can connect with like-minded individuals who are also on the journey of faith and love. […]

When it comes to dating as a Christian, there’s one essential factor that holds it all together like duct tape on a leaky pipe: prayer. Yup, that’s right. We’re talking about bringing your relationship before God and asking for His guidance, wisdom, and maybe a little patience (especially when they keep leaving their socks on the floor). But why is prayer so important in a Christian singles dating relationship? Let’s dive into the role it plays and why it should […]

So just what are the traits of a good Christian man? As a single Christian woman interested in dating, it’s easy to get caught up in the world’s definitions of a “good man.” We hear so much about how he should look, what kind of job he should have, and how charming or charismatic he needs to be. But as believers, we know that the qualities that truly matter in a man run much deeper than surface-level attributes. They are […]

In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face a hidden obstacle that can hinder their path to finding a loving, God-centered relationship: imposter syndrome. This psychological phenomenon, characterized by persistent self-doubt and a fear of being exposed as a “fraud” despite evident success, can be particularly challenging in the sensitive context of dating. However, with faith as a cornerstone, Christian singles can navigate through these feelings, turning imposter syndrome from a roadblock into a stepping stone toward genuine connections […]

Looking for dating and life advice for 40-something Christian single women? Reaching your fabulous 40s as a single Christian woman can feel like stepping into a new chapter of life, one filled with fresh opportunities, deeper self-awareness, and a stronger connection with your faith. But let’s face it, this journey can also come with its share of challenges and moments of doubt. Fear not, dear sisters, for this stage of life is brimming with potential for joy, growth, and a […]

In a world that often places great emphasis on romantic relationships, being a Christian single can sometimes be perceived as a temporary state or even a social stigma. However, the truth is that being single can be a fulfilling and liberating experience for many individuals. Rather than viewing singleness as a void to be filled, embracing the single life can lead to personal growth, self-discovery, and a profound sense of contentment. In this article, we celebrate the joys and advantages […]

Whether you’re in the early stages of Christian dating or have been together for years, recognizing these red flags can save you from prolonged uncertainty. Drawing from Scripture and real-life insights, we’ll delve into each sign, offering practical advice to help you evaluate your relationship. Remember, God’s plan for your life includes peace and joy—don’t settle for less. 1. Lack of Spiritual Leadership: A Core Foundation Missing in Christian Relationships One of the most telling signs he’ll never marry you […]

In a world where sexual expression is often celebrated without restraint, Christian singles face a unique challenge — honoring God by surrendering their sex life to Him. Whether you’re navigating singleness by choice or circumstance or waiting for marriage, this journey requires intentionality, prayer, and reliance on God’s strength. Here’s a comprehensive guide on how to align your sexual desires with God’s purpose, finding peace and fulfillment along the way. 1. Understand God’s Design for Sexuality Sex is not just […]

Ah, dating in your 20s—a time of self-discovery, exploration, and apparently, for some Christian singles, a time of becoming a hermit with a Bible in one hand and a “Do Not Disturb” sign in the other. The topic of why Christian singles in their 20s avoid dating is a fascinating one, combining elements of faith, fear, and, yes, a bit of comedy. So, why are so many Christian 20-somethings and Gen Z singles opting for solo Netflix binges over candlelit […]

How to become a better listener? In the world of Christian dating, where values and beliefs play a pivotal role, the ability to listen effectively is more than a skill – it’s an expression of respect and understanding. Good listening can deepen connections, build trust, and foster a meaningful bond that aligns with Christian principles. This article explores the nuances of being a good listener in a Christian dating context, offering practical tips and insights for those seeking to nurture […]

Are you one of those 40-something Christian singles thinking about how life is passing you by? Navigating the world of 40-something Christian singles can be a unique and challenging journey. This phase often brings a mix of experiences – from the joy of independence to the complexities of loneliness and societal pressures. Many Christian singles in their forties find themselves grappling with questions of purpose, identity, and faith in the context of their singleness. In this comprehensive guide, we explore […]

Sexual purity is a difficult topic for Christian singles. It doesn’t matter if you are a single woman or man, or whether you believe in courtship or traditional dating. Yes, remaining sexually pure as a single Christian is a real battle, a tug-o-war between our raging hormones and desires, and our Lord’s plan for our lives in this area: “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn […]

There are a number of advantages of being single as a Christian single. For those of us living alone, we can sometimes forget. Also,  the constant barrage in the media communicates to single gals and single guys that they are somehow “missing out” because they are not hitched. In today’s society, where relationships are often seen as a marker of success, the Christian community, in particular, has unique insights into the value and benefits of being single. From fostering a […]

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So, you’ve realized you have an “addictive personality.” First off, welcome to the club—members are growing daily, and while we don’t have snacks (we’d eat them too quickly), we do have grace and a game plan. Whether it’s binge-watching 17 episodes of your favorite Christian drama in one sitting, obsessively scrolling dating apps to find “The One,” or inhaling that gallon of double-churned ice cream while contemplating your singleness, addictive tendencies can feel like a mountain you’re perpetually circling. But […]

Falling in love is often described as a magical experience. Falling out of love is pure hell.   If you find yourself falling out of love with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend, it can be a confusing and painful process. As a Christian single, navigating this situation requires wisdom, compassion, and a deep understanding of biblical principles. Understanding Why We Fall Out of Love Relationships are dynamic, constantly evolving entities. The initial passion and excitement that characterize the early stages of […]

Do you know the signs of an unfaithful Christian girlfriend?  As a Christian single, understanding the foundation of a faithful and loving relationship is crucial. However, in a world where values and commitments can be complex, it’s essential to be aware of the signs that may indicate a partner’s infidelity. This article seeks to explore those signs, not from a place of judgment or paranoia, but from a standpoint of wisdom and discernment, which are deeply rooted in Christian beliefs. […]

Need long-distance Christian single dating tips for a long-distance relationship?  These long-distance relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long-distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long-distance dating relationships. Many single men and single women feel dating in a long-distance relationship is a losing proposition. However, there are […]