Who needs a pricey lawyer when you’ve got a pen, paper, and a little backbone? We’re diving into the world of DIY divorce—how to write your own decree, skip the courtroom drama, and sign your way to freedom (with way less $$$). Think of it as crafting, but instead of a Pinterest project, you’re designing your brand-new single life—complete with fresh starts, fewer legal bills, and maybe even a cheeky toast to yourself when it’s done.
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Who needs a pricey lawyer when you’ve got a pen, paper, and a little backbone? We’re diving into the world of DIY divorce—how to write your own decree, skip the courtroom drama, and sign your way to freedom (with way less $$$). Think of it as crafting, but instead of a Pinterest project, you’re designing your brand-new single life—complete with fresh starts, fewer legal bills, and maybe even a cheeky toast to yourself when it’s done.
Who needs a pricey lawyer when you’ve got a pen, paper, and a little backbone? We’re diving into the world of DIY divorce—how to write your own decree, skip the courtroom drama, and sign your way to freedom (with way less $$$). Think of it as crafting, but instead of a Pinterest project, you’re designing your brand-new single life—complete with fresh starts, fewer legal bills, and maybe even a cheeky toast to yourself when it’s done.
Sometimes the best love stories start in the most unexpected places… like your new favorite hobby. In this episode, we talk with Kristin from Kristin Lia Restoration and dive into how picking up a new passion not only sparked joy and creativity, but also led to meeting the love of a lifetime. Get ready for laughs, swoons, and a little proof that doing what you love might just lead to who you love.
Ever wonder why you react the way you do in relationships—whether it’s with your partner, your boss, or your bestie? It all comes down to attachment styles. In this episode, we break down what attachment styles are, how they shape the way you connect with others, and why knowing yours can totally change the game. From navigating love to leveling up at work and deepening your friendships, understanding your attachment style might just be the key to healthier, happier connections in every corne...
We’ve all heard about the “Let Them Theory”—the calm, zen approach to just letting people do whatever they’re gonna do. But what happens when you’re over being zen and ready to channel your inner boundary-setting queen? Enter: Keltie Knight’s “F Them Theory.” In this episode, we’re breaking down what it really means, why it’s resonating online, and how to know when to let things slide… and when to say, “nah, F that.” We’ll swap stories, get real about petty revenge vs. healthy boundaries, and...
Thinking about selling the house—or kicking him out and keeping the good throw pillows? In this episode, we sit down with a savvy realtor , Charlie Brown, who’s seen it all when it comes to divorce and real estate. Whether you're untangling your finances, wondering if you should sell or stay, or just need to know what the heck “equity” even means, we’ve got you covered. Because when the marriage ends, the mortgage questions begin. Let’s break it down, room by room.
Hey friend, it’s been a minute—and you know we’ve got updates. Is Raechal dipping a toe (or cannonballing) back into the dating pool? What’s going on with Melissa’s love life? We’re catching you up on all things co-parenting, single mom survival, the work grind, and what real life has been looking like behind the scenes. It’s honest, a little chaotic, and totally unfiltered—just the way we like it. Let’s catch up!
This week, we're getting intentional—literally. ✨ We’re diving into the magic of writing intentions, building dreamy dream boards, and embracing the chaos of junk journals. Plus, we spill the cosmic tea on when to actually set those intentions (spoiler: the new moon is your bestie). Whether you're manifesting a new phase or just trying to get your life together, this episode has you covered.
It felt like the universe had us on its personal hit list. Cue the meltdowns, ugly cries, and dramatic spirals. But somewhere between the chaos and the tissues, we found a friend, took a breath, and figured out how to keep going. In this episode, we’re sharing what we do when it all feels like too much—and how to come out swinging (or at least standing).
We got married before we even knew who we were—cute, right? Now we're on a mission to find the best version of ourselves (spoiler: she’s somewhere between a goal tracker and a gratitude list). We're talking peace, purpose, and the real reason a habit tracker hits harder post-divorce. Plus, our fave self-discovery tools and why creativity might just be the new self-care.
One of us DIY’d her divorce with a pen and a prayer, the other was ready to throw hands in court. Spoiler alert... did you know you can do both? That right there's no one size fits all divorce! Whether you're lawyering up or flying solo, we’ve got your back. Special guest Gene Sallows from Sallows Family Law is here to spill the legal tea—what to do when you’re served or ready to serve some papers of your own.
Dating after divorce? It's like riding a bike… if the bike ghosted you mid-ride, then liked your selfie a month later. We're talking red flags, green flags, and all the weird in-between. From cringe-worthy first dates to unexpected sparks, we're diving into the chaos, the chemistry, and why—despite it all—it’s still totally worth the swipe (or at least a free drink).
Here comes your life raft. Feeling lost in your current phase? Been there. We’re talking about the resources, tools, and tips we wish we had when life flipped the script. From divorce downloads to self-care musts, this is your go-to guide for when you don’t even know what you need—yet.
Life doesn’t always go as planned… and honestly, we’re not mad about it. In this episode, Melissa and Raechal get real about where they are now after each walking away from 20-year marriages. From rebuilding their lives to rediscovering themselves, they’re sharing the messy, unexpected, and sometimes hilarious realities of their current phase—and why it might just be their favorite one yet.
Meet Melissa and Raechal—two women who were living that married-for-20-years life… until they weren’t. In this episode, we spill the backstory: how we went from neighbors to suddenly single moms navigating divorce, chaos, and career pivots—with a mic in one hand and coffee (or wine) in the other.
We met as neighbors and after being married 20 years in 2022 they suddenly became single Moms. They're sharing their story as they navigated new uncharted phases of life, including a DIY Divorce, Infidelity, Mental Health, Single Parenting, New Careers, Dating, and more, to make your new uncharted phase easier. Let’s talk about it!
Who needs a pricey lawyer when you’ve got a pen, paper, and a little backbone? We’re diving into the world of DIY divorce—how to write your own decree, skip the courtroom drama, and sign your way to freedom (with way less $$$). Think of it as crafting, but instead of a Pinterest project, you’re designing your brand-new single life—complete with fresh starts, fewer legal bills, and maybe even a cheeky toast to yourself when it’s done.
