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Turns Out I'm Into It!
Harley Rabbit
93 episodes
1 day ago
Send us a text Ever wondered what makes a great flogger—and how to actually use one? In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by local kink maker Chainwire, the man behind Hurty World’s handcrafted floggers, to explore the artistry, technique, and sensation behind one of kink’s most versatile toys. We dive into: The craftsmanship of floggers—from leather selection to balance and weightWhat to look for when buying a floggerTechniques for play: thuddy vs stingy, warm-up vs intensity...
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Send us a text Ever wondered what makes a great flogger—and how to actually use one? In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by local kink maker Chainwire, the man behind Hurty World’s handcrafted floggers, to explore the artistry, technique, and sensation behind one of kink’s most versatile toys. We dive into: The craftsmanship of floggers—from leather selection to balance and weightWhat to look for when buying a floggerTechniques for play: thuddy vs stingy, warm-up vs intensity...
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Sexuality
Education,
Self-Improvement,
Health & Fitness,
Mental Health
Episodes (20/93)
Turns Out I'm Into It!
#86: How Old Do You Feel in the Bedroom?
Send us a text What happens when your birthday brings up more than cake and candles? In this raw and personal episode, Harley opens up about what it’s like to navigate aging as a sexual woman in a culture obsessed with youth. From noticing lines in the mirror to feeling like time is running out for certain fantasies, this episode is a vulnerable look at the internal stories we carry—and how kink can help us rewrite them. You’ll hear: Why the sex Harley has now is so much better than what she ...
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6 days ago
37 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#85: I’m Not Ashamed to Love Masculine Men
Send us a text In this episode, I explore the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity—and why I’m tired of pretending that being attracted to masculine men is something to be ashamed of. Inspired by a scene in Beastars (an anime on Netflix), I unpack what it means to celebrate masculine power without excusing harm. We talk about violence, tenderness, emotional maturity, and why the sexiest men are often the ones who could fight—but don’t need to. From MMA rings to Formula One tra...
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1 week ago
40 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#84: What Turns You On—and What Turns You Off! Understanding Your Sexual Brakes and Accelerators
Send us a text Do you ever feel like your body just isn’t showing up for sex—even when your mind is totally on board? Maybe you want to feel turned on, but nothing’s happening down there. Or maybe you feel ashamed, confused, or frustrated when your desire doesn’t match what your partner (or you!) expect. In this episode, Harley Rabbit introduces the dual control model, a powerful framework from the world of sexology that could change the way you think about arousal forever. You’ll learn how y...
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3 weeks ago
28 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#83: What If You Could Be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas
Send us a text Ever felt too self-conscious to fully enjoy sex? Maybe you struggle to switch off from life stress, or you find yourself stuck in your head during intimate moments. In this episode, Harley Rabbit shares a powerful technique for breaking free from insecurity and fully immersing yourself in pleasure—by stepping into a kink persona. A kink persona isn’t just roleplay—it’s a way to tap into different aspects of yourself, experiment with new fantasies, and unleash parts of your sexu...
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1 month ago
33 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#82: Sub or Bottom? Exploring the Many Flavours of Submission
Send us a text When you first explore submission, it’s easy to get caught up in labels and stereotypes—but what if those don’t quite fit? Do you have to love obedience, service, or degradation to be a sub? Or maybe you’re drawn to pain or bondage, but don’t feel like surrendering control? In this episode, Harley Rabbit helps you untangle your submissive identity, exploring the many ways submission can look. Whether you’re a good sub, brat, masochist, or rope bunny, this episode will guide you...
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1 month ago
36 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#81: Am I Kinky Enough? Breaking Free from Stereotypes
Send us a text Have you ever wondered if you're kinky enough to belong in the kink community? Maybe you feel like you don’t fit the stereotypical Dominant/submissive (D/s) mold or that your desires aren’t “intense” enough to count. In this episode, Harley Rabbit dives into the many ways people explore kink—whether through full-time dynamics, occasional play, private fantasies, or even solo experiences. Kink doesn’t have to look one way, and there’s no test you need to pass to belong. We'll al...
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1 month ago
30 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#80: Rope Mastery & Mind Games: A Shibari Masterclass – with Miss Gen
Send us a text In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Miss Gen—Shibari educator, performer, and rope sadist. As head of Evil Girls HQ in Brisbane and a Shihan (Master Instructor) in Kazami Ryu Shibari, she has 25+ years of experience training with top rope masters and performing in Japan. We explore: 🔹 Miss Gen’s journey into rope – From self-tying as a child to discovering her dominant side. 🔹 The psychology of rope play – How energy, connection, and ant...
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2 months ago
1 hour 56 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#79: How to Play with Gender in BDSM
Send us a text Most people don’t realise just how much gender shapes the way we play in BDSM. Whether we’re leaning into traditional roles—like masculine dominance and feminine submission—or subverting them entirely, gender dynamics influence kink in ways we often don’t even notice. In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, we dive into: 🔹 How gender roles show up in BDSM 🔹 Masculine dominance vs. feminine submission – Why it turns us on 🔹 Subverting gender norms – Femdom, feminisation, and s...
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2 months ago
29 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#78: Religious Shame, BDSM, and the Psychology of Power – With Shelby Devlin
Send us a text In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Shelby Devlin, a sex and intimacy coach with nearly a decade of experience specializing in BDSM and kink. With a master's degree in sexuality studies and a role as an advanced instructor at the Somatica Institute, Shelby brings a wealth of knowledge to our conversation. We dive into two powerful topics: 🔹 Religious shame & sexuality – How religious conditioning shapes our sexual identities, and how to re...
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2 months ago
1 hour 4 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#77: How to Tell Your Partner What You're Really Into... (Even If It Feels Super Scary)
Send us a text Sharing your sexual fantasies with a partner can feel incredibly vulnerable... maybe even terrifying! In this episode, Harley Rabbit dives deep into why it’s so hard to open up about our desires and offers practical, no-pressure strategies to help you navigate these conversations with confidence and curiosity. Whether you're hoping to act on your fantasies or simply share them for deeper intimacy, this episode will equip you with the tools to hopefully make it a positive experi...
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3 months ago
40 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#76: Are my Sexual Fantasies Normal? Here's What Science Says
Send us a text Episode Summary: In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit dives deep into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies, exploring why so many of us feel shame about them and how science challenges the idea of “normal” fantasies. Harley breaks down a landmark study, “What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?”, which surveyed over 1,500 people to determine which fantasies are rare, unusual, common, or typical. Along the way, Harley shares personal insights, busts myt...
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3 months ago
35 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#75: Santa's Little Helpers: Naughty Sex Toy Secrets Revealed - with Wendy Setless
Send us a text It’s time to add a little extra joy to your holiday season! In this special Christmas episode, I’m joined by the fabulous Wendy Setless, a Somatica-trained sexual health, pleasure, and relationship coach, and the resident sexologist at her local adult store. Wendy brings her infectious enthusiasm and deep knowledge to help us navigate the world of adult toys—from vibrators and strokers to kegel balls and vibrating cock rings. Whether you’re looking to explore solo or spice thin...
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4 months ago
1 hour 19 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#74: My Secret "Cock Worship" Fantasy: How Fantasies Unlock Better Sex
Send us a text In this week’s episode, Harley Rabbit takes a deep dive into the world of sexual fantasies and reveals one of her most provocative ones—a cock worship scenario rooted in her submissive desires. Harley discusses how fantasies can unlock deeper arousal, help you connect with your core desires, and transform your sex life—whether you're indulging solo or with a partner. She explores why fantasising is healthy, how it doesn’t reflect your real-life values, and how to incorporate yo...
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4 months ago
35 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#73: 4 Common Beliefs About Women’s Sexuality You’re Probably Getting Wrong
Send us a text In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit takes on some of the most stubborn myths and misconceptions about women’s sexuality. Whether you’re a woman navigating these expectations or a man eager to understand your partner better, this episode is for you. Harley shares her personal experiences and insights from studying sexology, conversations with clients and friends, and challenges commonly held beliefs that might be holding you back from a more fulfilling sex li...
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5 months ago
28 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#72: Permission to be Sexy! Lessons from a Burlesque Class
Send us a text In this empowering episode, Harley Rabbit dives into the topic of sex positivity and overcoming shame around sexuality. Sharing personal stories, including a formative memory from high school and a transformative recent experience in a burlesque dance class, Harley explores how societal messages shape our views on expressing sexuality. Harley reflects on reclaiming self-confidence and finding permission to be authentically sexy in a world that often discourages it. Referenced i...
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5 months ago
35 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#71: Overcoming Old Stories - How Kink Helped me get my First Tattoo!
Send us a text In this episode, Harley Rabbit opens up about finally getting her first tattoo—a significant milestone that stirred up childhood memories and beliefs. Harley reflects on how her journey into kink and pain play has reshaped her understanding of resilience, pain, and bravery. Sharing stories about childhood fears, needle phobias, and reclaiming agency through kink, Harley discusses how these experiences helped overcome lifelong limiting beliefs. Tune in for an honest, empowering ...
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5 months ago
42 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#70: Harley Ruins Your Favorite Love Songs - Teddy Swims, Sia, Bruno Mars
Send us a text In this episode, Harley dives into a fun yet insightful analysis of three popular love songs that might make you rethink your playlist: I Lose Control by Teddy Swims, Elastic Heart by Sia, and Grenade by Bruno Mars. Taking on the role of a relationship coach, Harley imagines these song lyrics as if they were clients sitting in a therapy session, sharing their romantic struggles. Harley explores how these songs, while catchy and romantic on the surface, often glorify toxic behav...
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6 months ago
33 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#69: How Men Can Safely Explore CNC- Interview with Dotch
Send us a text CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) is often discussed from a woman’s perspective, but what about men? In this episode, I’m joined by Dotch, a Somatica® practitioner who once saw CNC as a hard limit but has since learned to enjoy facilitating these fantasies. Dotch shares his journey, from initial discomfort to embracing CNC in a way that feels safe, consensual, and exciting. We discuss the challenges men face, including shame and the fear of crossing boundaries, and offer insights on...
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6 months ago
1 hour 11 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#68: Romance vs BDSM - Which is More Intimate?
Send us a text In this episode, Harley Rabbit delves into the concept of intimacy within the kink and BDSM communities, challenging common misconceptions that equate kink with violence and degradation. Harley emphasizes that true intimacy in kink is built on trust, vulnerability, and open communication. The discussion explores various forms of intimacy that can arise in kink, including the exploration of personal limits and the importance of aftercare. Harley also shares personal experiences ...
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7 months ago
31 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
#67: My Schoolgirl Fantasy - Exploring Middlespace
Send us a text I got up to some exciting kinky shenanigans this weekend and I can’t wait to share! Slade and I did our most elaborate roleplay yet, which was a CNC schoolgirl fantasy. This has been a fantasy of mine for a long time, and was also my first time exploring middlespace. In this episode I share the details of the roleplay and what I learned, as well as how it felt to explore a more complicated for of ageplay where I was actually getting to sooth some old wounds using the repetition...
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7 months ago
52 minutes

Turns Out I'm Into It!
Send us a text Ever wondered what makes a great flogger—and how to actually use one? In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by local kink maker Chainwire, the man behind Hurty World’s handcrafted floggers, to explore the artistry, technique, and sensation behind one of kink’s most versatile toys. We dive into: The craftsmanship of floggers—from leather selection to balance and weightWhat to look for when buying a floggerTechniques for play: thuddy vs stingy, warm-up vs intensity...