Parenting Together: 6 Practical Tips to Unite with Your SpouseHave you ever felt like you and your spouse are on opposite teams when it comes to parenting your kids? In this video, I share six practical suggestions to help you parent as a team and improve unity, communication, and consistency in your home. Hi, I'm Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author dedicated to helping couples strengthen their marriages. Join me to learn how to make united decisions, communicate with grace, and raise your kids from the same page. Don't miss out on tips like 'Don't Decide Alone' and 'Schedule Parenting Strategy Sessions'. Plus, get your free couple's communication guide by typing 'guide' in the comments. Let's create a calmer, more consistent home together.Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to parent together as a team? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video on How to Blend your Parenting Styles: https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFI00:00 Introduction: Parenting on Opposite Teams00:36 The Power of Team Parenting00:55 Meet Kelly DuPee01:18 Suggestion 1: Don't Decide Alone03:55 Suggestion 2: Schedule Parenting Strategy Sessions05:22 Suggestion 3: Practice Understanding First08:05 Suggestion 4: Aim for Win-Win Agreements10:19 Review and Final Suggestions13:08 Conclusion: Unity in Parenting
Parenting Harmony: Blending Grace and Truth in Your Parenting StylesIn this recording, I'm going to address the common tension that arises in marriages due to differing parenting styles. You'll learn how to blend grace and truth in your parenting approach to create a more peaceful and united home environment. Learn how to make united decisions without power struggles, affirm each other's strengths, establish shared parenting values, and discuss discipline strategies ahead of time. I'll share personal experiences and practical tips to help you and your spouse work together as a team, reflecting God's heart to your children. Additionally, I'm offering a free Couple's Communication Guide and a 30-minute strategy call to further assist you. Let's bring peace back into your parenting and strengthen your marriage.Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to parent together as a team? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video on How to Improve your Listening Skills - https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: Navigating Parenting Differences01:19 Understanding Grace and Truth in Parenting04:59 Recognizing and Balancing Your Parenting Style06:59 Affirming Your Spouse's Strengths08:05 Creating Shared Parenting Values09:05 Discussing Discipline Ahead of Time11:35 Seeking Wisdom Through Prayer12:23 Letting God Shape Both Parents14:00 Conclusion: Unified Parenting ApproachNavigating different parenting styles can be tough, especially when one parent is strict and the other is more lenient. Learn practical parenting advice to create harmony and address parenting issues without constant conflict. Discover the different types of parenting and how they impact family dynamics.
Do you feel like you and your spouse are more like roommates than a married couple? In this video, you're going to learn seven practical, Bible-based steps to deepen emotional and spiritual connections with your spouse and move from roommates to reconnected. Drawing upon my expertise as a marriage coach, I provide actionable advice on fostering gratitude, resolving conflicts, and making intentional efforts to reconnect. I emphasize the importance of turning towards each other, discussing emotions, scheduling quality time, praying together, and making your marriage a priority. Don't forget to use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!00:00 Introduction: Are You More Like Roommates?01:00 Understanding the Dimmer Switch in Marriage02:08 Step 1: Turn Towards Each Other03:40 Step 2: Talk About Feelings, Not Just Facts05:50 Step 3: Put Connection on Your Calendar08:12 Step 4: Practice Gratitude and Serve Each Other10:22 Step 5: Resolve What's Separating You12:28 Step 6: Pray Together and Invite God into Your Marriage14:01 Step 7: Make Your Marriage a Priority and Get Help16:00 Conclusion: Renew Your ConnectionHere's the links to videos mentioned in the recording:How to Confront: https://youtu.be/n_3gh9LyPFQHow to Apologize effectively: https://youtu.be/kKUgGgV2M9cHow to Invite God into your Marriage: https://youtu.be/AH41nBtWzW8Ready to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!
4 Steps to Effectively Change Your Marriage Without ConflictHave you ever wanted to change something in your marriage without starting an argument? I'm Kelly Dupee, pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach. In this video, I teach you a four-step progression to bring up changes in your marriage that build connection instead of conflict. Learn how to make a suggestion, express a wish, make a request, and set a healthy boundary. Watch till the end for specific instructions on how to implement these strategies in your marriage right away. Timeline: 0:00 - Introduction and purpose of the video 1:12 - Step 1: Making a suggestion 2:32 - Step 2: Expressing a wish 4:15 - Step 3: Making a request 6:20 - Step 4: Setting a boundary 12:03 - Biblical references for effective communication 14:05 - Exercise for the week 15:32 - Conclusion and final thoughts Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to the video on How to Calm Down: https://youtu.be/hQrselw-zcAHere's the link to the video on How to Make a Request: https://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCg
6 Biblical Ways to Show Respect to Your Husband: Combat Disrespect in MarriageHave you ever wondered why a simple question or suggestion to your husband can sometimes lead to an unexpectedly hostile or distant reaction? In this video, I explain why men often equate respect with trust and how a perceived lack of trust can deeply hurt them. I share six biblical strategies for effectively communicating respect to your husband, helping build a stronger, more loving marriage. These strategies include watching your tone, expressing confidence, and making requests instead of accusations. Join me, Kelly Dupee, as I delve into ways to improve your marital relationship through respect, trust, and understanding. Plus, explore an offer for a free strategy call and download a couple's communication guide.Here's the link to my free couples communication guide that will help you connect with your spouse better. https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Understanding the Issue00:24 The Root of Disrespect: Lack of Trust02:19 Biblical Insights on Love and Respect03:40 Six Biblical Ways to Show Respect03:48 1. Watch Your Tone04:51 2. Express Your Confidence06:08 3. Let Your Husband Help You07:59 4. Make Requests, Not Accusations09:44 5. Give Him the Freedom to Do It His Way11:53 6. Pray, Don't Push14:23 Conclusion: Building a Respectful Marriage15:41 Final Thoughts and ResourcesReady to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my videos on How to Respect your Husband: https://youtu.be/LBTNols1P3M andhttps://youtu.be/tqdy5FzGrOE
Be the Spouse Your Spouse NeedsIn this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee discusses the transformative power of focusing on becoming the spouse your partner needs you to be, rather than trying to change them. Emphasizing the importance of a prayer asking God to help one become the best spouse, Kelly shares five Bible-based steps to improve your marriage. He addresses common relationship challenges, such as assumptions and defensiveness, and offers actionable advice, including asking curious questions, listening without defending, paying attention to stress points, learning your spouse's love language, and staying flexible. The video encourages couples to focus on their own growth and improvement, reflecting the love and grace of Jesus in their marriages. Kelly also offers a couple's communication guide for further support.Here's the link to my free couples communication guide that will help you connect with your spouse better. https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Key to Transforming Your Marriage00:40 The Power of Self-Change in Marriage00:51 Meet Kelly Dupee: Your Marriage Coach01:07 The Problem with Trying to Change Your Spouse01:28 Biblical Insights on Marriage02:22 Understanding Your Spouse's Needs02:53 Step 1: Ask with Curiosity03:57 Step 2: Listen Without Defending04:39 Step 3: Pay Attention to Stress Points05:46 Step 4: Learn Their Love Language06:36 Step 5: Stay Flexible07:25 Conclusion: Reflecting the Love of Jesus in Your MarriageReady to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video that will help you change how you pray for your spouse: https://youtu.be/w4K3Qw7sKIY
Navigating Marriage Through Grief and Loss: Bible-Based GuidanceHave you ever wondered how your marriage would be affected by a major loss? In this video, I discuss how loss can change a marriage and provide Bible-based steps to help you and your spouse navigate grief together. From giving each other space and grieving together to guarding your connection from resentment and focusing on the hope in Jesus Christ, I offer practical advice and spiritual guidance to strengthen your relationship during challenging times. Don't forget to request your free couple's communication guide to improve your relationship. Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideWould you like a free 30 minute strategy call to strengthen your relationship? Call or text 626-804-1731 or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to my video how to support your grieving spouse: https://youtu.be/GGlIbKYMwqc00:00 Introduction: Facing Loss in Marriage00:35 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide Through Grief01:08 A Real-Life Example of Grieving Together01:49 Understanding Grief: Emotions and Reactions02:16 Healthy Grieving: Embrace and Express02:31 Communication and Support in Grief03:15 Practical Steps to Navigate Marriage After Loss04:57 Guarding Against Resentment06:13 Finding Hope in Jesus Christ08:36 Conclusion: Strengthening Your Bond Through Grief09:08 Final Words and Prayer
5 Biblical Steps to Transform Your Marriage CommunicationHave you ever felt disconnected from your spouse, like you're speaking different languages? In this video, you'll learn why communication is challenging for couples today and five Bible-based steps to improve it. Learn the importance of listening to understand, speaking carefully, walking in humility, being present, and practicing grace. Improve your marriage communication with these actionable tips Join me on this journey to create a life, love, and lasting connection in your marriage.Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideWould you like a free 30 minute strategy call to strengthen your relationship? Call or text 626-804-1731 or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to my video - Improving Your Listening Skills can Strengthen your Marriage. https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: The Communication Gap in Marriages00:50 Why Communication is Challenging Today01:29 Step 1: Listen to Understand, Not to Respond02:37 Step 2: Speak Carefully, Not Carelessly03:22 Step 3: Walk in Humility, Not Pride04:39 Step 4: Be Present, Not Distracted05:44 Step 5: Practice Grace, Not Score Keeping06:30 Conclusion: Building a Marriage with Effective CommunicationDo you ever feel like you and your spouse are speaking different languages, leading to constant miscommunication? It's common for couples to experience this in their marriage, where simple conversations turn into frustrating relationship problems. Understanding these barriers is the first step to improving your relationships and offering effective relationship advice.
The Secret to a 50-Year Marriage - Revealed by Harvard ResearchersWhat if the key to a long-term marriage isn't about finding your perfect match? Join me, as I reveal surprising insights from a Harvard study that followed 724 couples for decades. Discover the one trait that keeps marriages strong, why trying to fix your partner can destroy intimacy, and learn practical strategies for transforming conflicts into deeper connections. Plus, find out what the most successful couples do when they feel like quitting. I also have a free couple's communication guide to help you enhance your relationship. Type 'guide' in the comments to get your free copy or go to https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideReady to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!00:00 The Secret to a 50-Year Marriage01:01 Introduction 01:23 Harvard's Surprising Findings01:36 The Power of Tolerance02:43 The Importance of Quick Recovery03:39 Facing Challenges Together04:23 The Power of Patience04:57 Four Commitments for a Strong Marriage07:38 Invitation for Personal Help08:08 Final Thoughts and BlessingsWant a marriage that embodies "love that lasts"? This video reveals the surprising key to a "strong marriage" discovered by Harvard researchers. It's not about finding the perfect match, but understanding the "marriage secrets" to "longevity" and fostering a "happy marriage." Watch this to get "relationship advice" and "marriage tips"!
Godly Sorrow vs. Worldly Sorrow: The Key to Healing Your RelationshipIn this recording, I explore the crucial difference between Godly sorrow and worldly sorrow and how understanding this can transform your marriage or relationship. If you find yourself stuck in a painful cycle of hurting your spouse, it’s essential to recognize the type of sorrow you’re experiencing. Are you genuinely remorseful for the pain you’ve caused, or just upset about the negative consequences? I'll share insights from my experience as a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, and explain why true, long-lasting change only comes from a heart aligned with God’s. Join me to learn how to identify and cultivate Godly sorrow, and why it's key to achieving real transformation and healing in your relationship.00:00 Introduction: The Painful Cycle of Hurt00:27 Understanding the Two Types of Sorrow01:50 Worldly Sorrow vs. Godly Sorrow04:31 Recognizing Godly Sorrow in Your Heart05:06 Identifying Your Partner's Sorrow05:35 The Transformative Power of Godly Sorrow06:14 A Prayer for a Changed Heart06:54 Conclusion: Embrace Godly SorrowDid you hurt your spouse? Are you sorry that you hurt them, or are you just sorry about the negative consequences? This video highlights the importance of a sincere apology and owning your mistakes in relationships. It's time for some serious relationship advice!Learn how to apologize effectively. Watch the 5 R's of an Apology and Why They Matter. https://youtu.be/kKUgGgV2M9cReady to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours! #relationshipadvice #apology #howtoapologizeeffectively #makingmistakesinarelationship #sincereapology
Transform Your Marriage: The Prayer that Changed EverythingIf you want to have a strong and healthy marriage, this video is for you. Discover a simple change in the way you pray that can transform your relationship. I share my personal journey with you, revealing what I used to pray for regarding my marriage and what I pray for now. Learn why praying for God to change your spouse might be the biggest obstacle to healing your marriage and how shifting your prayers to 'Lord, change me' can lead to powerful transformation. Follow my three simple steps: ask God to search your heart, receive and give forgiveness, and ask for God's love to flow through you. Embrace this shift for 30 days, and watch what God does. Here's the link to my free couples communication guide that will help you connect with your spouse better. https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Transform Your Marriage Through Prayer01:16 Personal Experience: How I Used to Pray01:58 The Problem with Praying for Your Spouse's Change03:15 The Solution: Praying for Personal Change04:10 Steps to Pray for Personal Transformation08:22 Challenge: Embrace the Shift in Prayer08:58 Conclusion and Call to Action09:27 Final Prayer and BlessingReady to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!
Identify the True Enemy: Winning the Spiritual Battle in Your MarriageIn this video, I explore the common conflicts in marriages, emphasizing that you and your spouse are not each other's enemies. The real enemy, Satan, aims to divide and conquer your marriage through lies, temptations, and unresolved anger. I offer three practical, Biblically-based steps to shift your perspective from fighting each other to fighting for your marriage. These steps include identifying the enemy's tactics, using confrontation, repentance, and forgiveness, and leveraging the power of praying together. I also offer a free downloadable Couple's Communication Guide to help you build a strong spiritual battle plan for your marriage.Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 The Recurring Fight: A Common Struggle00:27 Identifying the Real Enemy01:43 The Spiritual Perspective on Marriage Conflict05:00 Practical Steps to Strengthen Your Marriage08:52 The Power of Prayer in Marriage11:40 Final Thoughts and a Prayer for Couples12:18 Subscribe for More Marriage TipsHere's the link to the 5 R's of an Apology and why they matter: https://youtu.be/kKUgGgV2M9cIf you'd like prayer for your marriage or relationship, call or text me at 626-804-1731 and let's schedule a call.
How to be a More Considerate SpouseIn this video, I delve into seven powerful Bible-based habits that can help you become a more considerate spouse and transform your marriage. From active undivided listening and speaking with kindness, to selfless service and praying together, these habits are designed to reignite connection and consideration in your marriage. Learn how daily acts of love and thoughtfulness can build a thriving relationship that reflects God's love. Here's the link to get your free couple's communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Strain on Modern Marriages01:20 Habit 1: Active, Undivided Listening02:40 Habit 2: Speak with Kindness and Gentleness03:58 Habit 3: Daily Specific Appreciation05:18 Habit 4: Selfless Service06:31 Mid-Video Check-In and Subscription Reminder06:57 Habit 5: Pray Together08:40 Habit 6: Apologizing and Forgiving Quickly10:04 Habit 7: Scheduled Uninterrupted Times to Connect11:27 Conclusion: Building a Stronger MarriageCheck out my video on How to Invite God into your Marriage. Here's the link: https://youtu.be/xgTEbnGZT8M🔗 Need support? Use the link in my profile to connect
Are you tired of hearing "I'm sorry" with no real change? Or maybe you’ve been on the other side—frustrated and hurt when your heartfelt apology wasn’t accepted by the person you offended. In this video, I break down the difference between just saying “I’m sorry” and true Biblical repentance—and why learning to truly repent can transform your marriage and all your relationships.As a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, I’ve seen firsthand how repentance—not just saying “I’m sorry”—brings real healing. If you’re ready to move beyond empty words and experience genuine restoration, this is for you.👇 TIMELINE:00:00 – Introduction: Why “I’m sorry” isn’t enough00:25 – The difference between just saying “I’m sorry” and repentance00:46 – Who I am & why I care about repentance in marriage01:05 – Two common scenarios: The cycle of empty apologies02:07 – What the Bible says about repentance (metanoia)02:50 – Repentance vs. just saying “I’m sorry”: Practical examples04:58 – Five Biblical steps to truly repent and restore your relationship05:03 – Step 1: Confess and repent to God first05:41 – Step 2: Acknowledge the specific sin06:29 – Step 3: Take full responsibility—no excuses07:02 – Step 4: Express heartfelt remorse07:33 – Step 5: Commit to specific change08:29 – How to respond when your spouse truly repents10:55 – Final encouragement: Repentance brings hope and healingIf you want to break free from destructive patterns and see real change, it’s time to repent—not just say “I’m sorry.” Repentance means turning away from old habits and aligning your heart with God’s. It’s not about using the word “repent” as a magic fix, but about living it out through your actions.💡 Download my free Couples Communication Guide—just type “guide” in the comments or use the link below!If this message on repentance helped you, please like, comment, and subscribe for more Biblical marriage coaching. And check out my video on the Five Rs of an Apology for even more practical help.repent #marriage #christianmarriage #relationshipadvice #restoration🔗Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide🔗 Five Rs of an Apology - https://youtu.be/kKUgGgV2M9cMay God bless you and your relationships!
Benefit of the Doubt in Marriage: 6 Biblical Strategies for a Stronger RelationshipAre you ready to transform your marriage by learning how to give your spouse the benefit of the doubt? Hi, I’m Kelly DuPee—pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author of "Turn It Up: How to Have the Lifelong Marriage That You Really Want." In this video, I’ll show you how the biblical principle of giving the benefit of the doubt can change your relationship, prevent misunderstandings, and help you build a marriage that reflects God’s love.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Why we jump to conclusions in marriage00:47 – What does it mean to give your spouse the benefit of the doubt?01:58 – Why it’s hard to give the benefit of the doubt03:12 – The negative cycle of assuming the worst03:36 – God’s example: How He gives us the ultimate benefit of the doubt04:41 – 6 Biblical Strategies to Give Your Spouse the Benefit of the Doubt05:08 – Strategy 1: Pause and Pray05:25 – Strategy 2: Ask Questions05:46 – Strategy 3: Share Your Feelings Without Attributing Motives06:11 – Strategy 4: Consider Alternate Explanations06:27 – Strategy 5: Make a Request, Not a Demand06:55 – Strategy 6: Remember Your Own Humanity07:18 – What if there’s a pattern of hurtful behavior?08:01 – The power of believing the best about your spouse08:24 – Your assignment: Practice giving the benefit of the doubt08:55 – Free Gift: The Couples Communication Guide09:00 – Next steps and recommended videoKey Takeaways:Giving your spouse the benefit of the doubt is a biblical principle rooted in grace, love, and understanding.Learn six practical, faith-based strategies to apply this principle in your daily life.Discover how to break negative cycles and create emotional safety in your marriage.Find out what to do when there are real issues that need to be addressed.Free Resource:Get my free ebook, "The Couples Communication Guide"! Click this link: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide or type “guide” in the comments and I’ll send it to you.Related Video:What Happens When You Assume the Worst – Watch here https://youtu.be/lhfbMFxDhhULet’s Connect:If this video helped you, please give it a thumbs up, subscribe for more biblical marriage content, and share your experiences in the comments below. Remember—with God’s help, your marriage can be a beautiful picture of His love for the world.Call or text me at 626-804-1731 to schedule a free strategy session or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callbenefitofthedoubt #marriageadvice #christianmarriage #relationshipgoals #biblicalmarriage #kellydupee
Overcoming 'I Forgot': 5 Biblical Steps to Strengthen Your MarriageHave you ever found yourself saying, 'I forgot' to your spouse more often than you'd like to admit? Join me, Kelly DuPee, as I dive deep into the implications of forgetting important things your spouse requests. In this video, I uncover why 'I forgot' signifies deeper issues in your marriage, such as priorities, communication breakdowns, and lack of systems. I share five Biblical action steps to help you move past this habit, foster intentionality, and build a healthy, thriving relationship. Download my free Couple's Communication Guide and learn how to remember what matters to your spouse through ownership, systems, active listening, follow-through, and gratitude. Don't let 'I forgot' erode your marriage - tune in to start making a positive change today.Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Forgetting in Marriage01:10 Understanding the Deeper Issues01:52 The Consequences of Forgetting04:16 Biblical Action Steps to Overcome Forgetting04:41 Action Step 1: Own the Impact05:19 Action Step 2: Create Supportive Systems06:30 Action Step 3: Practice Active Listening07:10 Action Step 4: Follow Through07:41 Action Step 5: Connect Remembering to Gratitude08:40 Conclusion: The Power of IntentionalityFor more on this, check out this video - How to Ask your Spouse for what you Really want and Needhttps://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCgCall or text me at 626-804-1731 for a free, no obligation Strategy call or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call
Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage: Make and Keep PromisesIn this powerful episode, I address couples who are experiencing a breach in trust within their marriage. I delve into the issue of broken promises and how they can erode trust between spouses. Through actionable steps grounded in biblical principles, I guide you on how to prioritize your spouse's needs, communicate effectively, and honor your commitments. The process involves selecting one task to focus on, setting a realistic deadline, and following through with integrity. Additionally, I encourage examining internal resistance and embracing a servant-hearted approach through prayer. This episode includes a free couples communication guide and tips for asking your spouse for what you truly need. Join me as we work together to restore trust and strengthen your marriage.Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Pain of Broken Trust00:36 Hope and Restoration in Marriage01:18 Understanding the Deeper Issues02:32 The Power of Promises and Requests03:02 Step-by-Step Guide to Rebuilding Trust04:35 The Importance of Accountability07:20 Examining Your Heart and Praying for Perspective09:07 Final Encouragement and Prayer09:54 Next Steps and Additional ResourcesFor more on this, check out this video - How to Ask your Spouse for what you Really want and Needhttps://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCgCall or text me at 626-804-1731 for a free, no obligation Strategy call or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-callIs your relationship struggling with broken trust? This video provides vital relationship advice for couples navigating difficult seasons. Learn how to rebuild broken trust and prioritize your partner's needs. Discover practical steps to build trust and foster a stronger connection.
The stories we create about our partner's actions can significantly impact our relationships. Jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst can breed unnecessary problems such as resentment. Cultivating better communication skills is crucial for understanding and addressing concerns effectively, ultimately strengthening the bond and fostering healthier relationships.In this video, I address one of the most destructive patterns in relationships—false narratives. As an experienced pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, I explain how these false stories formed in our minds can erode trust and weaken marriages. I offer a five-part Biblical solution called the PAUSE principle to help couples break free from this toxic habit. The steps include pausing to reassess assumptions, asking questions, understanding your spouse's perspective, speaking the truth in love, and extending grace and forgiveness. Watch till the end for a life-changing practical solution and a special offer!Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Power of Narratives in Relationships01:27 Understanding False Narratives03:19 The Three Reasons We Create False Narratives04:51 The Biblical Solution: The Pause Principle09:44 Applying the Pause Principle11:55 Conclusion: Transform Your MarriageFor more on this, check out this video - How to Ask your Spouse for what you Really want and Needhttps://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCgCall or text me at 626-804-1731 for a free, no obligation Strategy call or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call
How and Why to Forgive by Kelly DuPee - Pastor, Police Chaplain, Christian Marriage Coach
In this video, I discuss the important topic of forgiveness and its role in healing from deep hurt caused by others. I explain why forgiveness is essential for followers of Jesus and provide five compelling reasons to embrace it. I also outline actionable steps to help you forgive those who have wronged you, even when it feels impossible. By following these steps, you can find freedom from the prison of hurt and bitterness, and improve your relationships with others and with God. Want to improve the communication in your marriage? Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Facing Life's Devastating Blows00:37 Understanding Hurt and God's Healing01:22 The Power of Forgiveness02:01 Five Reasons to Forgive05:35 Steps to Forgive08:54 Conclusion: Embracing ForgivenessFor more on this, check out this video - The 5 R's of an Apology and Why they Matter. Here's the link: https://youtu.be/kKUgGgV2M9cCall or text me at 626-804-1731 for a free, no obligation Strategy call or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call
Reignite Your Marriage: The Power of a One Night GetawayFeeling like your marriage needs a boost? A one-night getaway can be a surprisingly effective way to recharge your connection. Prioritizing that time for your relationship advice and intimacy can help you reconnect amidst the chaos. Consider this simple but powerful way to save your marriage. 🙏In this episode, Pastor, Police Chaplain, and Christian Marriage Coach Kelly DuPee shares his secret to recharging your marriage—a simple one night getaway. Kelly discusses how taking a short break with your spouse can refocus your energy on each other, reprioritize your marriage, and help you reconnect. He also provides practical steps to plan and execute this refreshing escape. Join Kelly as he explains the importance of balancing life commitments and making room for quality time with your spouse, even on a tight schedule.Want to improve the communication in your marriage? Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideFor more on this, check out this video - The Five R's of an Apology and why they matterhttps://youtu.be/kKUgGgV2M9cCall or text Kelly at 626-804-1731 for a free, no obligation Strategy call or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call00:00 Introduction: Recharge Your Marriage00:29 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide00:39 The Power of a One-Night Getaway03:37 Steps to Plan Your Getaway: P-L-A-N03:45 Prioritize Your Marriage04:04 Logistics: Making It Happen05:36 Take Action: Book and Budget06:20 Enjoy Your Time Together06:45 Final Tips and Resources