It’s a question that stirs up a lot of feelings in the community — so we’re diving in, transparently. In this episode, we unpack the stereotypes, privileges, and challenges that shape trans men’s and trans women’s experiences. No competition, just conversation. Join us as we talk nuance, share personal stories, and remind everyone that we’re stronger when we lift each other up.

It’s spooky season, and we’re getting transparent in the dark! Join us for a Halloween special full of ghost stories, giggles, and maybe a few goosebumps. From classic hauntings to personal chills, we’re sharing tales that blur the line between the seen and unseen — all with our signature honesty and humor. Grab your blanket and tune in… if you dare.

This week on Trans and Transparent, we’re swapping stories about what it’s really like living together — the funny moments, the little annoyances, and everything in between. From late-night laughs to awkward roommate situations, we’re keeping it real and a little ridiculous.

In this episode, we’re diving deep (and laughing hard) as we scroll through some of the wildest, sweetest, and most relatable trans stories Reddit has to offer. From chaotic coming-out moments to unexpected allies, we react, reflect, and unpack what these stories say about trans life online and in the real world. Expect a mix of empathy and giggles about hilarious stories.

In this episode, we dive into the practical side of gender expression: packing and tucking. Whether you're exploring gender-affirming tools for the first time, curious about safe methods, or just looking for tips to feel more comfortable in your body, this guide covers the essentials. We talk about different options, the do’s and don’ts for safety, and how these practices can impact confidence and self-expression. Plus, we share personal insights and resources to help you navigate what feels right for you. Benji's favorite soft packers: https://www.ackoboms.com/products/ackobom-ftm-2-in-1-big-glans-le03a?ref=BENJAMINASTROM (code: BENJI) https://www.mormeprosthetics.com/products/morme-soft-packer-uncut?aff=58 Benji’s favorite prosthetic for play (code BENJI10): https://peecockproducts.com/inflatable-peecock-7inch.html?tracking=68be5b6129160 Packing Underwear: https://clothingstarboy.com/products/packing-boxers-x3 https://www.dys4ick.com/product-page/transform-packing-boxers   Hunter's Favorite Tucking Panties  https://tuckituppp.com/?ref=HUNTIRO (Use Code Huntiro) https://tcomfifits.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorgF0rTPKVa7mqDk-Vxy16oPCiGKEg2KIazZNX7KPDtbgjHnjk-      

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In this episode of Trans and Transparent, we get real about anxiety and how it shows up in daily life, especially while navigating transition. We talk through the ups and downs of being on different hormone timelines, the progress we’ve noticed, and the challenges that come with change happening at its own pace. To lighten things up, we wrap up with a hilarious segment where Hunter plays a round of Fuck, Marry, Kill! Things get unexpectedly chaotic! 

This week we are joined by Eliah Reber for a fun and honest conversation about the changes that come with testosterone. From voice drops to body hair, Benji and Eliah build a tier list of their favorite (and least favorite) changes, sharing laughs, stories, and personal perspectives along the way. Instagram @eliah.rbr 

In this episode we cover two conversations. First we talk about the realities of being trans content creators, from finding a voice online to handling visibility and vulnerability. Then we turn to toxic masculinity, how it shows up in our lives, how it affects relationships, and what it takes to push back against it. 

This week Benji finally tries the wig!! We also talk about what it really means to stay present during sex when anxiety keeps showing up. From overthinking and performance pressure to the ups and downs of dating and learning to trust people, we open up about how these struggles shape intimacy and connection. Honest, unpolished, and very real! 

In this episode, we dive into the world of ballroom! It's a space built on creativity, competition, and community. We’ll talk about how ballroom started, what happens at a ball, and why it’s such an important part of LGBTQ+ culture. From houses to categories to voguing, this is an introduction to the energy and history that make ballroom unforgettable. Featuring Swedish Princess Samantha Angels and Chicago Angels.  Instagram @_sammy_angels @chicago.castillo Beat at the end - Flute HA by Esengo Angels 

So… how do you actually know if you’re trans? In this episode, we get real about the big, messy, exciting, and sometimes scary process of figuring out your gender. We’ll talk about the little signs you might notice, what gender euphoria feels like, and why there’s no one “right” way to be trans. Whether you’re questioning, already out, or just starting to wonder, this is a safe space to sort through those “what ifs” and maybe find a little clarity along the way.

This week we’re shaking things up with a grab bag of fun, random questions that have absolutely nothing to do with transness. Just pure curiosity and laughter. From quirky hypotheticals to everyday mysteries you did not know you cared about, we are letting the conversation wander wherever it wants. Think of it as a brain snack buffet, surprising, silly, and just the right amount of weird.

Benji’s just back from celebrating Pride in Berlin, and this episode has it all: birthday chaos, club adventures, and his first (unsuccessful) attempt at using the urinals. Hunter shares how she ended up with free drinks at the club, and we talk about what it’s like being misgendered in public (plus how we both correct people).

This week we're eacting to some of the wildest, weirdest, and most unhinged transphobic comments we've gotten. Expect sarcasm, shade, and lots of laughing at people who clearly have way too much time on their hands. :) Heads up, no video this week (tech fail, sorry!), so it’s audio-only. But trust us, the chaos still comes through loud and clear.

In this episode, we dive into the complex and sometimes contradictory feelings around gender envy, what it means, where it comes from, and how it can actually guide us toward a more authentic version of ourselves. We also explore passing: practical tips for those who want to shift how they’re perceived, without compromising who they are. 

In this episode of Trans & Transparent we talk about our experiences with gender affirming surgeries including the emotional and physical impact of both top and bottom procedures. We also discuss how hair, whether it's a buzzcut, a wig, or something in between, plays a powerful role in how we express and affirm our gender. It's an honest look at transition, identity, and what it means to feel at home in your body.  

Join us as Samantha Angels shares their experience of being non-binary versus binary trans and dives into the world of ballroom and voguing. We explore how ballroom culture empowers trans and queer communities, and what it means to live beyond the binary.

This episode is all about sex — the good, the awkward, the confusing, and the awesome — from a trans perspective. We’re talking pleasure, bodies, dysphoria, euphoria, and figuring out what actually works for us. It’s honest, funny, and maybe a little messy! 

In this episode of Trans & Transparent, we talk about what it’s like attending a wedding as a trans person and the pressure to pass in gendered spaces. We share some funny and eye-opening dating stories, and explore the frustrating reality of how trans women are often seen as side pieces rather than real relationship material. We also reflect on what it means to feel desirable and how to build confidence in yourself.