If you’re waiting to “feel ready,” here’s your wake-up call: confidence is a scam.
In this unfiltered TLMA deep dive, Fay burns down the myth that you need to believe in yourself before you act. Because confidence isn’t something you find — it’s something you build by surviving your own mess.
🔥 In this episode:
- Why “feeling ready” is a myth that keeps you stuck
- The neuroscience of fear and action
- How to build evidence-based confidence
- The 7-Day Confidence Reset Challenge
You don’t need confidence. You need momentum.
Too Late, My Ass™ — where reinvention has no expiration date.
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Think you’ve missed your shot? Science says otherwise.
In this episode, Fay Chapple dismantles the myth that “change gets harder with age.”
Spoiler: your brain never stops rewiring — and that means it’s *built* for reinvention.
Discover:
- The neuroscience of neuroplasticity — and how it keeps you adaptable for life
- Why midlife reinvention is actually peak cognitive evolution
- The “Use It or Rewire It” rule that can reshape your mindset in 30 days
- Real-life examples of people who rewrote their stories — not at 20, but at 50+
It’s not too late. It’s *perfect timing.*
Because your brain isn’t slowing down — it’s leveling up.
🎧 Listen now and grab the free **Comeback Kit** to kickstart your rewiring process.
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Everyone keeps telling you to “find balance.” Cute idea. Totally useless.
In this unapologetic reality check, Fay burns down the myth that you can “have it all” without losing your mind. Because balance isn’t real — it’s corporate gaslighting dressed in self-care quotes.
You don’t need balance; you need rhythm — a life that moves with your seasons, not against them. Fay breaks down exactly how to stop grading yourself by productivity, build a rhythm that actually fits your energy, and finally make peace with being gloriously imperfect.
✨ In this episode:
Why “balance” was never the goal
How the myth keeps you obedient and burnt out
The 3 types of rhythm you actually need
The 7-Day Rhythm Reset Challenge
If you’ve ever said “I just need to get it together,” this is your permission slip to stop.
Balance is cancelled. Rhythm’s in session.
🎧 Too Late, My Ass™ — where reinvention has no expiration date.
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The word “retirement” was invented to make you feel finished — convenient, right? Society sells it as the prize at the end of the race. But what if it’s actually the trap that keeps you small?
In this episode, Fay Chapple calls total BS on the idea that your most meaningful years end at 65. She dismantles the cultural myth of retirement — who created it, why it benefits corporations (not you), and how to reclaim this stage of life as your prime time, not your wind-down.
Forget shuffleboard and savings plans — this is about purpose, visibility, and refusing to fade out quietly. Because you’re not done. You’re just done pretending.
In this episode:
🔥 The real history of retirement (and how it was never meant for you)
💡 Why we confuse rest with invisibility
🎙️ What happens when you stop “retiring” and start reinventing
💥 How to rewire your identity after decades of playing by the rules
Listen now — and if anyone tells you it’s time to “slow down,” send them this episode and say, Too Late? My Ass.
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Motivation is a scam. There, I said it. If “just stay motivated” actually worked, we’d all be billionaires with six-packs by now. But motivation is nothing more than a sugar high — it spikes, it crashes, and it leaves you with guilt and excuses.
In this episode, I’m torching the motivation myth and giving you the truth: motivation isn’t what creates lasting change. Systems, discipline, micro-wins, and purpose do. I’ll show you why waiting to “feel like it” is killing your reinvention — and exactly what to do instead.
Because your Act II doesn’t need another Pinterest quote about hustle. It needs real, unsexy, effective action.
🎧 Hit play. Reinvent without waiting for motivation to show up.
For anyone who thought their moment had passed - your comeback starts now.
Download your FREE Comeback Kit:
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Think reinvention is just a new haircut and a vision board? Sit down. This week on Too Late, My Ass™, we’re torching the makeover myth and talking about what reinvention really takes: revolt. It’s messy, it pisses people off, and it will make you feel alive again. If you’re done with surface-level “glow-ups” and ready for a comeback that sticks, this is your permission slip.
Listen to all episodes and download your FREE Comeback Kit at: https://toolatemyass.com/
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Scrolling through everyone else’s highlight reel and thinking, “I’m so behind”? Too Late, My Ass. In this fiery episode, Fay rips apart the comparison trap and shows you how to blow up the false timelines that keep you stuck.
She dives into why traditional milestones (marriage, house, promotions, retirement dreams) were never designed with you in mind — and how to trade “I should have by now” for “watch what I build next.”
With her signature wit and unapologetic honesty, Fay lays out a no-BS framework for turning jealousy, regret, and shame into fuel for your comeback.
💥 If you’ve ever whispered, “I thought I’d be further ahead by now,” this is the episode you can’t afford to miss.
For anyone who thought their moment had passed — your comeback starts now. Download the Comeback Kit: https://toolatemyass.com/
Who decided the “dream life” was skydiving, bungee jumping, or sipping cocktails on a beach? Your bucket list is boring — and in this episode, Fay explains why those Instagram-friendly fantasies are distractions, not directions.
Instead, she’ll show you how to design a real reinvention map that feels electrifying in the day-to-day, not just “one day when.” This is about trading tired clichés for bold clarity: starting that business, finally getting visible, rebuilding your confidence, or daring to do the thing you’ve been talking yourself out of for decades.
✨ Warning: After this episode, you’ll never look at bucket lists the same way again.
For anyone who thought their moment had passed — your comeback starts now. Download the Comeback Kit: https://toolatemyass.com/
Think it’s “too late” to change careers, start over, or finally chase the thing that lights you up? That belief is total bullshit — and in this raw kickoff episode, Fay Chapple dismantles the myth of too late that keeps millions of people stuck in mediocrity.
From her own story of rebuilding after her husband’s life-altering stroke to the hidden cultural lies we’ve been sold about age, timing, and “having it all together” by 30 — Fay exposes why “too late” is the ultimate scam.
🔥 If you’ve ever felt behind, invisible, or secretly panicked that your shot has passed… buckle up. This episode is your permission slip to burn the old script and write Act II on your own terms.
For anyone who thought their moment had passed — your comeback starts now. Download the Comeback Kit: https://toolatemyass.com/
Forget midlife crisis. This is your midlife plot twist.
Hosted by Fay Chapple, Too Late, My Ass is the unapologetically bold podcast for anyone who refuses to fade quietly into the background. We call BS on “it’s too late” thinking, torch the rulebook that kept you small, and rewrite the damn story—your way.
Expect witty truth bombs, sarcastic pep talks, and zero sugarcoating as we dive into reinvention, burnout recovery, and building a life worth interrupting. If you’ve ever thought you missed your chance, think again—this is your comeback season.
🔥 Hit play. It’s not too late. It never was.
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