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To Be Single or Not to Be
Shaanah Montanna
127 episodes
5 hours ago
A podcast where we discuss navigating life with or without a partner and the cause and effects that come along with it. Are either all they’re really cracked up to be? Each episode will leave you with new info to decide if you’re to be single or not to be… that is the final question!
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A podcast where we discuss navigating life with or without a partner and the cause and effects that come along with it. Are either all they’re really cracked up to be? Each episode will leave you with new info to decide if you’re to be single or not to be… that is the final question!
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Episodes (20/127)
To Be Single or Not to Be
STATE OF THE UNION ADDRESS: THE STATE OF RELATIONSHIPS IN 2024

In this special and final episode of the Runnin' it Back Series, we take a deep dive into the state of relationships in 2024. It's a real, raw, and VERY necessary conversation that every woman seeking healthy and happy love needs to hear! Put those headphones on, get comfortable, and buckle up for a helluva meaningful ride that I promise you will be worth it! Shop the Shaanah Montanna Journal Collection: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/author/shaanahmontanna If would like to support & buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Shop Merch via the Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram & TikTok: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast - @tobesingleornottobe Shaanah Montanna Journal Collection - @smjournalcollection

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1 year ago
18 minutes 16 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Do You Even Know Who Raised That Man?

On this episode we take a deep dive into the role that family plays in your dating life when you think it does not! It's essential for you to ask yourself questions like, who raised that man, what kind of upbringing did he have, was he taught to respect and value women, does he hate his family? Too many times we sign up for a relationship with a man before knowing their background and sometimes this means we lose before we even had a chance to win! So, get to know your potential partner inside and out, through and through from his bloodline and you may just save yourself from a ton of heartache later!


Watch the full visual episode on Youtube now on the Shaanah Montanna Youtube Channel:

https://youtu.be/lXjsIuydqts?si=a7A4IdOirQbE8AzE

Shop the Shaanah Montanna Journal Collection: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/author/shaanah... If would like to support & buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Shop Merch via the Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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1 year ago
28 minutes 41 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Market Value is More Than a Pretty Face & Finances

On this episode we take a deep dive into the conversations around market value so we can lay it to rest! Market value is more than skin and pockets deep. Yet, it still lies in the hands of the beholder. Your value begins and ends in you and within you. So, how marketable are you and are you sure you have the right "things" on the market? Let's talk about!


FULL visual episode available now on YouTube!

https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna

Shop the Shaanah Montanna Journal Collection: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/author/shaanahmontanna If would like to support & buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Shop Merch via the Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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1 year ago
14 minutes 46 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Don't Commit to Your Next Relationship Before Reviewing This List!

On this episode we take a deep dive into the areas you need to make sure you fully tap into before you decide to commit to a new relationship! These are items that call for us to step out of the laziness that has led us to bad partner selection in the past and will force us to put in the work to determine if they are a good partner for us on the front end so we won't regret it on the back end if we find out they weren't.

FULL visual episode available now on YouTube!

https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna


Shop the new Shaanah Montanna Journal Collection:

https://www.amazon.com/author/shaanahmontanna

If would like to support & buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Shop Merch via the Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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1 year ago
30 minutes 52 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Stop Playing With Your Friendships!

On this episode we take a deep dive into what friendship really means and looks like in the digital age of premature dismissals. If they are really your friend and someone you say you care about, then watch this episode to continue moving forth in grace and accordingly! Platonic friendships deserve the same grace, time, attention, and energy that we give romantic partnerships. So, let's acknowledge and own that and started treating our friends as good as we say they deserve.


FULL visual episode available now on YouTube!

https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna


Shop the Shaanah Montanna Journal Collection:

https://www.amazon.com/author/shaanahmontanna

If would like to support & buy me a coffee, please visit ⁠https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB⁠

Shop Merch via the Website: ⁠https://shaanahmontanna.com/⁠ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast - @tobesingleornottobe

Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag ⁠#TBSONTB⁠ with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!



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1 year ago
29 minutes 53 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Is She Too Independent or Is That Man Not Doing Enough?

On this episode we revisit my views on what it really means to be independent and is there a such thing as too independent in a society that say women want to be masculine anyway! It's much deeper than taking out the trash when a man is in close proximity. Listen to the episode and let me know what you think! If would like to support & buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Shop Merch via the Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna The To Be Single or Not To Be - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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2 years ago
18 minutes 55 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
They Cheated. Do I Stay or Pay Them Dust?

On this episode we revisit my views on cheating, how you define what cheating is to you personally, the hand social media plays in cheating present day, and how you navigate it if it happens to you (whether you should leave or stay). Listen to the episode and let me know what you think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna The To Be Single or Not To Be - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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2 years ago
16 minutes 1 second

To Be Single or Not to Be
That Man Does Not Need More Time. That Man Does Not Like You

On this episode we revisit my views on timelines in relationships and dating and why they are not as necessary as I once thought. It's more so about what you are doing with the time you are giving over how much time has gone by! Listen to the episode and let me know what you think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna The To Be Single or Not To Be - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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2 years ago
20 minutes 17 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
How to End Generational Curses Immediately!

On this episode we revisit my views and the truth about GENERATIONAL CURSES! They are more than only building financial wealth. There are actually FEELINGS involved, too! Listen to the episode and let me know what you think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna The To Be Single or Not To Be - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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2 years ago
30 minutes 17 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
The Hard Truth About Breakups...NOW WHAT?

On this episode we revisit my views the HARD truth about breakups, why they happen, what you can possibly do to prevent them, and how to navigate them if you run into their murky waters! Tune in for the deets and let me know what you really think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna The To Be Single or Not To Be - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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2 years ago
27 minutes 54 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Stop Negotiating Your NON-Negotiables!

On this episode we revisit my views on non-negotiables because it's time for us to discuss WHY do we even have them if we are not going to ever stick beside 'em? Tune in for the deets and let me know what you really think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna The To Be Single or Not To Be - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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2 years ago
27 minutes

To Be Single or Not to Be
Why Would a Woman Go Half on Anything With a Man?

On this episode we revisit my views on the financial perspective of a relationship! Should women go half, should they never consider it, or is it still up for debate? Tune in for the deets and let me know what you really think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com Website: https://shaanahmontanna.com/ Social Media Info: Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna The To Be Single or Not To Be - @tobesingleornottobe Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna Be sure to hashtag #TBSONTB with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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2 years ago
27 minutes 54 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Why Women Really Want a Husband!

On this episode we revisit my views on why women really want a husband! Is it for love, is it for money, or is it for reasons that have nothing to do with that at all! Tune in for the deets and let me know what you really think! If would like to buy me a coffee, please visit ⁠https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB⁠ To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit ⁠patreon.com/shaanahmontanna⁠ To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit ⁠https://youtu.be/FgwKPHICbjU⁠ Have an inspiring relationship story or advice you want to share on The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast? Please submit your story at tobesingleornottobe@gmail.com  Website & shop for merch:⁠ ⁠https://shaanahmontanna.com/⁠ Social Media Info:  Instagram: Shaanah Montanna - @shaanahmontanna The To Be Single or Not To Be - @tobesingleornottobe  Twitter: Shaanahmontanna - @shaanahmontanna   Be sure to hashtag ⁠#TBSONTB⁠ with any comments about the show and be sure to give the episode a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!

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2 years ago
25 minutes 27 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
One Night Only: The Tell All Interview with Shaanah Montanna - Ep. 111
This is the season finale of the To Be Single or Not To Be podcast and we are so excited to be here! This episode is exclusively on YouTube and is one you do not want to miss! We sit down with the Creator and Host of the podcast for a one night only special where she "TELLS ALL" about aspects of her relationship life! She dives into what love looks like, what makes her feel safe, what would be her grade in "relationship class" personally, and so much more! So, be sure to head over to YouTube to view this visual only episode on the Shaanah Montanna channel now!
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3 years ago
4 minutes 14 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Let's Talk About Labels...AGAIN! - Ep. 110

On this episode, we take another dive into a conversation around labels and the necessity of them since it seems many people are unclear about this said thing! Whether a label is to make sure all parties know they are in a relationship or to clarify that you are not in one, they are needed across the board! This allows you to avoid confusion, heartache, and some pain when the tables don't turn how you desire or you are with someone who refuses to take a seat at the label table to give you what you heart truly desires! Take a seat at the table as we dive into this convo, for what I am sure, will not be the last time!

Special guests: Tori. A & Durriyyah of the podcast "Sweet Tea with Dee"


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3 years ago
47 minutes 49 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
The Value of Sisterhood - Ep. 109

On this episode, we take a deep dive into the sometimes overlooked value of sisterhood! In this day and age of social media relationship goals, women being focused on getting the ring by any means necessary, and some people never having the experience of what genuine sisterhood looks like, it was mandatory that we had this conversation as a beautiful reminder of the power sisterhood holds! Join us for a conversation between girlfriends of almost 20 years and why we landed here, why we work to maintain our sisterhood, and the joy it brings to us all!

Special guests: Heather C. & Kandice M.

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3 years ago
1 hour 1 minute 33 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Non Monogamy & Polyamorous Relationships - Ep. 108

On this episode, we take a deep dive into what non monogamous and polyamorous relationships truly look like, inside and out! Many people will say those who choose this lifestyle are just greedy or afraid of commitment and there may be some truth to that. However, after this episode gives you insight to what the lifestyles are really like, what life looks like in one of these partnerships, and how one must maintain their composure at all times to remain in one, we think you will walk away with a newfound perspective on these lifestyles and if they are really all they seem to be!

Special guest: Flo Oliveira

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3 years ago
38 minutes 51 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Relationship Accountability: What Does it Really Mean - Ep. 107

On this episode we take a deep dive into the feared and almighty meaning of the word, "ACCOUNTABILITY"! It is wild how one word has so much power; yet, so many people fear stepping into the action of what it really means consistently. On this episode, we have a seat at the table with Mr. Accountability himself to discuss why people struggle so much with this term, what it looks like to really hold you and your partner accountable, and why every successful relationship must make sure it is present!

Special Guest: Chad Scott The Accountability Coach

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3 years ago
54 minutes 16 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Relationship Gridlock - We Are Stuck and Want to Move Forward - Ep. 106
On this episode, we take a dive into the sometimes harsh reality that relationship gridlock happens. However, it's all about what you do after that! Relationship gridlock is inevitable at some point in a relationship, but, that does not mean it has to last forever. Dive into this conversation as two therapists walk us through what relationship gridlock really looks and feels like, how you navigate through it (if you want to), and how to come out on the other side of it successfully and hand in hand with your partner if all parties involved are on board! Special guests: Maryam A. & Dyamond W. Instagram: www.instagram.com/tobesingleornottobe
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3 years ago
1 hour 4 minutes 50 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
Breaking Toxic Relationship Cycles - Ep. 105

On this episode, we take a deep dive into what breaking a toxic relationships looks like! In the world of Futures and Kevin Samuels #RIP, we have to determine where the largest problem lies, how this problem started, and why we cannot seem to move past it in this day and age! Toxicity relies on the people entangled within it to keep it going. So, on this episode, we help you understand the ACTION that must take place NOW to move on from it today and for generations to come after.

Special guests: Amani M. & James B. of Mind of a Man Podcast

Instagram: www.instagram.com/tobesingleornottobe

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3 years ago
1 hour 17 minutes 49 seconds

To Be Single or Not to Be
A podcast where we discuss navigating life with or without a partner and the cause and effects that come along with it. Are either all they’re really cracked up to be? Each episode will leave you with new info to decide if you’re to be single or not to be… that is the final question!