What does it mean to be a man in today’s world, when the old maps no longer work, and the new ones haven’t yet been drawn?
In this episode, I sit down with Craig Makhosi Charnock, a men’s work facilitator, to explore masculinity in its raw, real, and healing forms. We discuss the absence of male role models, the quiet epidemic of isolation many men face, and the cultural cost of losing rites of passage.
Craig shares his story, from training as a Sangoma to stepping into his purpose of guiding men through transformation. Together, we question the lone wolf myth, honour the power of brotherhood, and speak to the importance of community, expression, and ceremonial thresholds.
Whether you’re a man on the edge of becoming, someone raising sons, or simply curious about the evolution of masculinity, this one’s for you.
Craig Makhosi is a men’s work coach and facilitator dedicated to helping men reconnect with purpose, power, and emotional integrity.
He offers one-on-one coaching, consultations, group programs, retreats and free content to support men on the path of personal growth and mission-driven living.
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Disclaimer:
This conversation is based on personal experiences and opinions. We’re not claiming to have all the answers – just sharing stories, perspectives, and thoughts that might spark something in you. Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and always do what feels right for you.
