Sometimes it’s not toxic. It’s not dramatic. It’s not catastrophic.
It’s just… not it.
In this episode, I’m sharing something personal—a recent relationship ending that grew me in all the right ways. One that taught me how far I’ve come, how securely I stand now, and how much I’ve outgrown the urge to save, fix, or rescue!
We’re unpacking:
What happens when you become more secure but the other is stuck in an anxious-avoidant pattern
Why love isn’t enough if two people aren’t BOTH able or willing to take accountability
How living by your values means saying the hard things—and how that is love
Why “trying to help” is sometimes just enabling (and betraying yourself in the process)
And what it looks like to honour your capacity, your truth, and your needs—without guilt
This is for the woman who’s tired of holding it all together. For the one who loves deeply but won’t abandon herself to keep someone else comfortable. For the one who’s learning that leaving can be love.
Because when you know it’s not it—no matter how good it almost was—that’s your moment of power!
If you’re breaking patterns, then this “ending”, might just be the beginning of you choosing you—fully!
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~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne