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This isn’t a Podcast
This isn’t a Podcast
67 episodes
5 days ago
Jess and Savanna are two best friends of 20 years. Leading totally different lifestyles, but who couldn’t be more in sync. Follow along as they dive into life’s most relatable topics. From marriage and motherhood, to heartbreaks and healing. With their unique perspective and witty banter, they aim to bring a refreshing and relatable take on these topics. Join them on their journey as they navigate through ups and downs of life, all while keeping their friendship at the core. Get ready for an honest and vulnerable conversation between two best friends on their new podcast-This isn’t a Podcast!
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Jess and Savanna are two best friends of 20 years. Leading totally different lifestyles, but who couldn’t be more in sync. Follow along as they dive into life’s most relatable topics. From marriage and motherhood, to heartbreaks and healing. With their unique perspective and witty banter, they aim to bring a refreshing and relatable take on these topics. Join them on their journey as they navigate through ups and downs of life, all while keeping their friendship at the core. Get ready for an honest and vulnerable conversation between two best friends on their new podcast-This isn’t a Podcast!
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This isn’t a Podcast
066: Taking a Summer Hiatus and Life Updates

In this episode, Sav and Jess discuss their plans for a summer break from the podcast, reflecting on their Fourth of July experiences and sharing personal updates. They celebrate the arrival of a new baby in their circle, delve into parenting challenges, and emphasize the importance of mental health awareness. The conversation also touches on navigating friendships, reality TV discussions, and the impact of current events on the community. As they wrap up, they share their summer plans and goals for the future, highlighting the need for self-care and organization.



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4 months ago
49 minutes 23 seconds

This isn’t a Podcast
065: Vet Bills, Student Loans, Love Island Re-cap, and The Tragic Case of Adriana Smith

Summary


In this episode, Jessica and Sav discuss a variety of personal experiences, including health issues like coughs and sunburns, the burden of student loans, and the challenges of pet care, particularly vet bills. They also dive into a recap of the latest episodes of Love Island, focusing on the dynamics of relationships and the drama surrounding Casa Amor. The conversation highlights the emotional toll of financial struggles and the importance of personal growth through life's challenges. The conversation delves into various themes surrounding reality TV, including character dynamics, toxic relationships, and the impact of social issues on personal experiences. The speakers analyze contestants' behaviors, discuss the ethics of reality TV, and reflect on their own experiences with advocacy and personal rights. They discuss the tragic case of Adriana Smith along with the Texas "Heartbeat Law" and the repercussions it continues to have on Adriana and her family. The dialogue is interspersed with humor and hypothetical scenarios, leading to a deeper exploration of cultural sensitivity and the importance of personal autonomy.



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4 months ago
1 hour 14 minutes 24 seconds

This isn’t a Podcast
064: Dead Birds, My Ex Tried To Match With Me On Bumble, And The Importance Of Adult Female Friendships

In this engaging conversation, Jessica and Sav explore the complexities of adult friendships, the challenges of parenting, and the humorous side of dating in the modern world. They discuss the importance of communication in relationships, share personal anecdotes about their families, and reflect on their experiences with dating apps. The conversation is filled with laughter, relatable moments, and insightful reflections on personal growth and health. In this engaging conversation, Sav and Jessica delve into the complexities of relationships, parenting, and self-discovery. They explore the impact of reality TV on self-image, the challenges of dating, and the importance of vulnerability in personal growth. The discussion also touches on the symbolism of change, the power of writing, and the significance of intimacy in relationships, all while sharing personal anecdotes and insights.


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4 months ago
59 minutes 10 seconds

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063: Human Rights Aren't Up For Debate, Headphones in Public, Self Defense and Empowerment, and What Does Your Bedside Table Look Like?



In this engaging conversation, Jessica and Sav explore various themes surrounding parenting, self-defense, and the challenges of raising teenagers. They discuss their personal experiences, reflections on community and church, and the importance of empowering young girls through self-defense training. The conversation also delves into the complexities of teenage life as portrayed in the show 'Ginny and Georgia', highlighting the struggles of balancing parental guidance with the need for independence. In this conversation, Sav and Jessica delve into various themes surrounding punishment, deportation, parenting, and the importance of empathy and human rights. They discuss the emotional impact of these issues on individuals and families, particularly in the context of immigration. The conversation also highlights the role of personal connections in fostering understanding and compassion, especially in the hairdressing profession, where stylists often serve as informal therapists. The discussion culminates in reflections on success, growth, and the joy found in meaningful relationships.



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5 months ago
1 hour 15 minutes 14 seconds

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062: Background Checking Everyone, Inside Our Purses, and Birds Aren't Real

In this conversation, Savanna and Jessica delve into the complexities of modern dating, sharing personal anecdotes about awkward encounters and red flags. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, the safety concerns associated with online dating, and the impact of relationships on family dynamics. The conversation also touches on the challenges of motherhood, particularly in raising daughters, and the significance of honesty and communication in relationships. In this engaging conversation, Jessica and Sav explore various themes including shifting family dynamics, advocacy in social justice, pop culture trials, media recommendations, health and wellness, parenting challenges, and societal norms. They share personal anecdotes, discuss current events, and provide insights into their lives, creating a relatable and entertaining dialogue.



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5 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes 7 seconds

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061: Awkward Dates, Falling Through Fences, Marriage Is a Mirror, and Being Your Kids' First Bully

In this episode, Jess and Savanna explore various themes surrounding personal growth, relationships, and parenting. They discuss their experiences with dating, marriage, the importance of communication, and the challenges of parenting. The conversation highlights the significance of self-awareness and the need to balance personal needs with those of loved ones. Additionally, they touch on the playful side of podcasting and the exciting developments in their journey.



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5 months ago
1 hour 39 minutes 18 seconds

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060: Mormon Wives, Having the Sex Talk, and Fear Based Faith in Religion

In this engaging conversation, Sav and Jessica navigate through various themes including technical difficulties, personal updates, the impact of reality TV, friendship dynamics, self-perception, beauty standards, cultural identity, and the influence of social media. They reflect on their experiences and insights, providing a candid look at their lives and the complexities of modern relationships. In this conversation, Sav and Jessica delve into their experiences with education, upbringing, and the impact of fear-based religious teachings. They reflect on their childhoods, the challenges of parenting, and the importance of open communication with children. The discussion transitions into the complexities of preparing for the sex talk with kids, emphasizing the need for a supportive environment and the role of trusted adults in guiding young people through these conversations. Ultimately, they highlight the significance of self-awareness and the desire to break generational trauma while fostering healthy relationships.



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5 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes 38 seconds

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EP 059: Mom Moments, Dating Non-Negotiables, and Dildos in the Mail

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Summary

In this conversation, Jessica and Sav explore the complexities of motherhood, parenting challenges, and the dynamics of personal relationships. They discuss the emotional toll of raising strong-willed children, the importance of communication in relationships, and the struggle for self-respect and boundaries. The dialogue highlights the impact of past experiences on current relationships and the journey of personal growth through adversity. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for mutual effort in relationships and the importance of recognizing one's self-worth. In this conversation, Sav and Jessica delve into the complexities of relationships and dating, exploring themes of emotional resilience, the challenges of modern dating, and the importance of self-reflection. They discuss the non-negotiables in relationships, the impact of expectations versus reality in life, and the journey towards finding stability and creating a home. The dialogue is rich with personal anecdotes and insights, highlighting the struggles and triumphs of navigating personal connections in today's world. In this conversation, Sav and Jessica explore themes of personal growth, the challenges of streaming services, the complexities of adulthood, and the joys of subscription boxes. They reflect on transformative experiences, the burdens of financial responsibilities, and the lightheartedness of discussing hair and identity. The dialogue flows through various topics, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and the shared experiences of navigating life’s ups and downs. In this lively conversation, Jessica and Sav explore a variety of topics ranging from personal style and the challenges of wearing sunglasses to the world of PR packages and influencer culture. They share humorous anecdotes about parenting, the accumulation of unexpected gifts, and the nostalgia of shared musical experiences, particularly the excitement of attending concerts with their children. The discussion highlights the intersection of fashion, functionality, and the evolving dynamics of parenting in a digital age.



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5 months ago
1 hour 18 minutes 21 seconds

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EP 058: Compromise in Parenting and Marriage, Self-Reflection, and Having an Anxious Attatchment Style

Summary


In this conversation, Sav shares her experiences navigating personal challenges, particularly in her relationships and emotional health. The discussion delves into the impact of hormonal changes on emotions, the search for a new home, and the complexities of attachment styles in relationships. Jessica reflects on her feelings of vulnerability, fear of abandonment, and the importance of communication in managing conflicts. The episode also touches on the emotional weight of recent events in her life and concludes with a discussion on the latest episode of 'The Last of Us'. In this conversation, Jessica and Sav explore various themes surrounding relationships, including trust, personal growth, communication challenges, and the importance of therapy. Sav reflects on her own experiences with anxious attachment and the need for self-soothing, while also discussing the dynamics of openness and boundaries in new relationships. The conversation delves into disagreements on parenting and the role of compromise, as well as the impact of trauma on intimacy. Ultimately, it highlights the complexities of navigating relationships in the context of personal development and emotional well-being.



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6 months ago
52 minutes

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EP 057: Family Matters, Initiating Intimacy, Elderly Care, and Losing It Over Last of Us



In this episode, Sav and Jessica share personal stories about their week, touching on themes of family dynamics, caregiving, and the challenges of navigating assisted living for elderly relatives. They reflect on the importance of quality time in relationships, discuss personal health issues, and explore the complexities of dating and intimacy. The conversation is filled with humor, vulnerability, and insights into the emotional struggles of balancing personal lives with family responsibilities. In this engaging conversation, Jessica and Sav explore the complexities of relationships, personal growth, and the challenges of navigating intimacy and communication. They discuss the importance of understanding each other's perspectives, especially in the context of ADHD, and reflect on the dynamics of dating and expectations. The conversation also touches on coping with unexpected life challenges and the impact of pop culture on their lives, particularly through the lens of 'The Last of Us'. Ultimately, they emphasize the significance of connection and communication in fostering healthy relationships.



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6 months ago
56 minutes 27 seconds

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EP 056: Travel Tales and Irish Weddings, an IVF Legal Nightmare, and Is There a Serial Killer on the Loose in RI?!

Summary


In this episode, Jess and Savanna share their experiences from a recent trip, including a wedding that provided cultural insights and personal reflections. They discuss the challenges of travel, the dynamics of friendships and relationships, and the importance of communication in navigating new connections. The conversation also touches on family dynamics and future concerns, highlighting the emotional aspects of personal growth and relationships. In this engaging conversation, Jessica Durand discusses various themes ranging from family dynamics and cultural identity to controversial school surveys and parental rights. The dialogue also touches on ethical dilemmas surrounding fertility clinics, conspiracy theories in pop culture, and personal reflections on work-life balance. Parenting challenges and future aspirations are explored, highlighting the importance of personal growth and happiness in life decisions.



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6 months ago
59 minutes 26 seconds

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EP:055-Couples Therapy with Jess & Tim, Alien or merman, Have you cheated on me & the sour cream moment!

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Summary

This week while Sav finishes her Ireland trip, Tim fills in for a couples episode. Tim and Jessica discuss their week, touching on personal reflections, parenting challenges, and family dynamics. They share humorous anecdotes about their children, the struggles of managing family life, and the complexities of shared streaming services. The conversation also delves into the emotional rollercoaster of motherhood, highlighting both the joys and frustrations that come with it.

They discuss the emotional toll of online comments, the importance of in-law relationships, and how they navigate misunderstandings as a couple. Throughout the dialogue, they express appreciation for each other's qualities and the efforts they make to support one another. They talk about their first impressions of each other, the dynamics of making the first move, and the unique 'couple's thing' they share. They also discuss the challenges of parenting, the things they would change about each other, and how their differing personalities influence their relationship. The conversation is filled with humor, insights, and relatable moments that many couples can identify with.

Jessica and Tim discuss how they navigate trust in relationships, the emotional challenges faced during pregnancy, and the cultural connections fostered through music. Their light-hearted banter and personal anecdotes create a relatable and entertaining dialogue, culminating in a warm farewell to their listeners.



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6 months ago
1 hour 1 minute 21 seconds

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EP:054- Bizarre news stories, Elopements, Marriage on social media, Holding space for your kids experiences & feelings, and getting arrested in Mexico!

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Summary

In this episode, Jess and Sav take some time to catch up before Sav’s big trip to Ireland! They talk about health challenges, travel preparations, and the complexities of relationships. They share anecdotes about past travel mishaps, particularly a legal scare in Mexico with our best friend’s Ex, and delve into the dynamics of marriage and the impact of social media on public perception. 

Tax season. They talk about Jess’s irrational fear of being audited by the IRS & the overall challenges of managing finances in general! 

Jess shares about family dynamics, teenage experiences, the complexities of maternal relationships, and holding space for her kids & the childhood they’re experiencing. While Sav shares humorous and poignant stories about her nephew's first date, her mother's impulsive elopement, and the challenges of navigating a relationship with a parent who exhibits manic behavior. 

The discussion also touches on the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships and the differences in parenting styles across generations, culminating in a light-hearted look at bizarre news stories that reflect societal issues.


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7 months ago
1 hour 12 minutes 29 seconds

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EP 053: New Tooth Goofin', Online Hate, Nostalgic Crushes and Heartthrobs, and Listener Questions

In this conversation, Jessica and Sav discuss various personal experiences, including Sav's recent dental surgery and recovery, their dating lives, and the challenges of parenting. They also delve into the impact of social media on personal relationships and perceptions, as well as the complexities of attraction and emotional connections in relationships. The conversation highlights the importance of personal growth and the evolving dynamics of family and friendships. In this conversation, Sav and Jessica delve into the complexities of past relationships, emotional trauma, and personal growth. They discuss the impact of gaslighting, the importance of therapy, and the challenges of making significant life decisions, such as pregnancy, within the context of a relationship. The dialogue emphasizes accountability, healing, and the journey of self-discovery, highlighting the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals.



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7 months ago
1 hour 4 minutes 17 seconds

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EP:052- The clearance rack that is the dating pool, OnlyFans, Fembots, Karen Read, and Is Hell even real?

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Jess & Sav have Jen on for some rambling girl chat! They talk about the intriguing world of financial dominance, the rise of AI and fembots, the phenomenon of OnlyFans, and the challenges of dating in the modern age. 


They delve into the impact of social media on relationships, the importance of self-reflection and personal growth, and the role of AI in creative fields. The discussion also touches on the complexities of modern parenting in a technology-driven world, highlighting the challenges and anxieties faced by the younger generation. The conversation then shifts to a deep dive into the Karen Read case, exploring themes of police corruption and wrongful accusations. The discussion also touches on fears of being wrongfully accused and the philosophical idea of multiple life dimensions, suggesting that there are various paths one could take in life that could lead to happiness. 


Other topics included soulmates, reincarnation, and the afterlife, exploring the connections we have with others and the energy that persists beyond physical existence. The discussion transitions into the nature of grief and loss, emphasizing the importance of feeling connected to those we've lost. The conversation also questions traditional religious beliefs, advocating for a more personal understanding of spirituality and faith. Ultimately, it reflects on the journey of self-discovery and the quest for meaning in life.


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7 months ago
1 hour 14 minutes 51 seconds

This isn’t a Podcast
EP 051: No One Wants to See a Grown Man's Bare Chin, Alternate Dimensions, and Genuine vs. Performative Apologies

Summary


In this engaging conversation, Sav and Jess celebrate St. Patrick's Day while discussing their favorite drinks and catching up on life updates, including Jess's daughter Amari's new preschool journey. They reflect on the challenges and milestones of parenting, the emotional complexities of motherhood, and the concept of alternate lives. The discussion shifts to mental health, anxiety, and the impact of dreams on their well-being. They also touch on work-life balance and the importance of taking mental health days. The conversation concludes with a discussion on accountability, particularly in relation to the Ruby Franke case, and the responses to their recent episodes. In this conversation, Sav and Jess delve into the complexities of accountability, personal experiences, and the challenges of navigating relationships. They discuss the importance of genuine apologies, the impact of past relationships on current dynamics, and the struggles of dating in a modern context. The conversation also touches on the intersection of anxiety and relationships, exploring how self-doubt can manifest in personal connections. Throughout, they emphasize the need for honest communication and the significance of taking responsibility for one's actions.



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7 months ago
1 hour 16 minutes 50 seconds

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EP 050: PT 2- Breaking the Silence and Exposing Abuse with Liz Peterson

In part 2 of this episode, Liz shares her harrowing story of abuse, detailing her experiences with a trusted authority figure during her teenage years. The conversation explores the psychological impact of such trauma, the importance of support systems, and the challenges faced when coming forward. The discussion also highlights the institutional response to the allegations and the community's reaction, emphasizing the need for accountability and healing. In this conversation, Liz shares her harrowing experiences with abuse and the subsequent trauma that followed. The discussion delves into the responsibilities of institutions, the silence surrounding abuse, and the complexities of relationships affected by trauma. Liz emphasizes the importance of accountability, questioning authority, and the power of truth in healing. The conversation also touches on personal growth and the ongoing struggle to navigate life after trauma, highlighting the need for open dialogue and support.



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8 months ago
1 hour 38 minutes 14 seconds

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EP 049: PT 1-Breaking the Silence and Exposing Abuse with Liz Peterson

In this 2 part episode, Jess and Sav welcome Liz Peterson, who shares her harrowing journey of trauma and healing after experiencing sexual abuse as a child. The conversation delves into the complexities of navigating life after trauma, the impact of grooming and manipulation, and the importance of community support. Liz emphasizes the need for awareness and vigilance in protecting children, while also discussing her experiences as a mother and the challenges of breaking generational cycles of trauma. This candid discussion aims to empower listeners and shed light on the often-taboo topics surrounding abuse and recovery. This conversation delves into the complex themes of trauma, authority, and personal growth, focusing on the experiences of individuals who faced abuse in a school setting. The discussion highlights the grooming behaviors of authority figures, the impact of sexual abuse on identity, and the coping mechanisms employed by survivors. It also addresses the complicity of the community and the dynamics that allowed such abuse to occur, emphasizing the need for awareness and change.



Chapters


00:00 Trigger Warnings and Heavy Topics

05:10 Introduction and Setting the Stage

05:15 Navigating Motherhood and Parenting Challenges

05:24 Life Transitions and Personal Growth

06:50 The Complexities of Emotional Regulation

07:43 Reparenting and Healing from Trauma

12:52 Unpacking the Past: Experiences of Abuse

19:11 The Grooming Process: Recognizing Red Flags

21:51 Unpacking Past Experiences of Inappropriate Behavior

24:47 The Impact of Teacher-Student Dynamics

01:00:44 Reflections on Power Dynamics in Education





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8 months ago
1 hour 1 minute 7 seconds

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EP 048: Christian School Chronicles and the Trauma it Caused, At Home Haircuts, and Getting Ghosted

In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics ranging from personal health and wellness to parenting challenges and dating experiences. They share humorous anecdotes about their lives, including struggles with diet, technology in parenting, and the complexities of modern dating. The conversation flows naturally, touching on the ups and downs of being a woman, the challenges of maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and the often awkward world of online dating. They explore the complexities of modern dating, including the challenges of ghosting and the idea of setting up dating profiles for friends. They share personal anecdotes about relationships, haircuts, and creative outlets, while also reflecting on their experiences with reality TV shows. The discussion highlights the ups and downs of dating, the importance of friendship, and the joy of culinary adventures. 


In this conversation, Jess and Sav delve into various themes, including their experiences with true crime media, the evolution of streaming services, and their reflections on their school experiences, particularly focusing on the troubling history of GBCA, their childhood school where they met. They discuss the impact of these experiences on their understanding of trust and safety in educational environments, highlighting the importance of sharing personal stories to inform others. They reflected on their childhood experiences, particularly focusing on the impact of their religious upbringing and the shortcomings of their education. They discuss the complexities of accountability within religious institutions, the lack of grace shown to individuals who have made mistakes, and the importance of advocating for those who have suffered. The conversation also sets the stage for an upcoming episode featuring a guest who will share her own experiences from the troubling school.



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8 months ago
1 hour 16 minutes

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EP 047: How do you take your taco? Turkeys on the roof, and Hairy Situations



Jen is in the house!! In this conversation, sav, Jen, and Jess explore various themes related to their experiences in the hairdressing industry, including client relationships, financial struggles, and personal grooming. They share humorous and challenging client stories, discuss the importance of empathy in their work, and touch on heavy topics such as abuse and recovery. The conversation also delves into moral dilemmas presented in documentaries and the complexities of family loyalty. In this conversation, Jess, Sav and Jen explore a range of topics from sibling dynamics and family secrets to the harsh realities of sexual assault statistics. They discuss parenting fears, the importance of therapy in processing trauma, and the challenges of raising children in today's world. The conversation also touches on personal growth, reflections on adolescence, and the humorous yet insightful discussion about taco preferences as a reflection of personality. Finally, they delve into the world of reality TV, discussing the implications of participating in such shows and the boundaries that come with it.

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8 months ago
1 hour 25 minutes 10 seconds

This isn’t a Podcast
Jess and Savanna are two best friends of 20 years. Leading totally different lifestyles, but who couldn’t be more in sync. Follow along as they dive into life’s most relatable topics. From marriage and motherhood, to heartbreaks and healing. With their unique perspective and witty banter, they aim to bring a refreshing and relatable take on these topics. Join them on their journey as they navigate through ups and downs of life, all while keeping their friendship at the core. Get ready for an honest and vulnerable conversation between two best friends on their new podcast-This isn’t a Podcast!