“They Farrah’d me on the bus, my luggage wasn’t on the bus bro” “I’m gonna fall in love with a Southern man” “I don’t care about no London hoes”  “Women always think we are the exception”   ****Hypothetically Pod Brunch Ticket Giveaway****    On this episode, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss the recent Donald Trump shooting, the upcoming election, Quatley’s move to Houston, Essence Fest, Hurricane Beryl and much more.    The pod begins as the girls question the validity of the recent Trump shooting (7:00). Who are you voting for in November? (15:00). Quatley takes Houston! (22:00). Essence Fest Fest/New Orleans Recap (29:00). The Greyhound ride from hell (37:00). Are you willing to date a man with a questionable history (cheating, abuse)? (58:00). The pod ends as the girls talk about Tyler Perry’s new film “Divorce in Black” and other general relationship issues. 

“this is why I need to stop being a fat ass” “I don’t wanna feel like Im stuck with somebody” “Men are in their sassy era” “If you fall off, you might lose her”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Kevin. The two discuss black men and happiness, relationships, situationships, expectations and much more. The pod starts with a conversation around life in your thirties (6:00). Nothing really matters!? (12:00). Friends with Benefits vs Situationships (23:00). Women and unrealistic standards (36:00). Relationship rules and much more (44:00). Whats more important: Love or Money? (51:00). 

“What does a 39 year old and 22 year old have in common?” “God says you are worthy” “Love does exist, it truly does” “There’s beauty in safeguarding something for you”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Rebecca. The two discuss love, life, big moves, age gaps and much more.   The pod begins with a convo around the importance of positive energy and its impact on life (5:00) The girls discuss RED FLAGS (10:00) Healthy love after toxic love (18:00).  Moving to Texas:  The good, bad, & ugly??!! (30:00).  Appropriate dating age gaps (41:00).  The pod ends with keeping hope alive, the gift of friendship and much more!

Here's an ode to leaving toxicity in 2023.  “Dating sucked” “He want a box of chocolates” “Yall nxggas gon stop playing in my face” “Back of the roster”   On this year’s wrap up episode, Gernique is joined by James, Jean, and Pearls. They discuss personal evolution, doing away with toxicity, goals for the new year and much more.   The pod begins with a recap of 2023 (7:00). Saying goodbye to the TOXIC ERA: The conversation continues around creating new boundaries for 2024 (20:00). “I’m not allowing grey area nxggas around me”….The group self-reflects on their own toxic traits and things that need to be changed (37:00). The importance of therapy (50:00). The pod ends with a dating segment featuring Jean and James (74:00).   Well wishes & a prosperous new year! Thank you for listening... still.    #AllStarNeekend | February, 2024

“Today, I don’t want to get out of bed…” “You don’t gotta go get mugged to prove you’re not racist” “Paperwork is not proof” “I’ve dated a lot of men who need therapy”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by her friend, author & entrepreneur Shyla Miles. The two discuss the foundations of friendship, mental health, Cassie/Diddy, celebrity rape culture and much more.    The pod begins with a conversation about the effects of a changed environment (5:00) Shyla and Gernique discuss the evolution of their friendship (18:00) Shyla discusses her works and passions (24:00). The state of the creative market (33:00). The girls discuss mental health and Shyla’s journey with depression & anxiety (43:00). The pod ends with a conversation about Cassie, Diddy and the recent allegations (58:00).   #AllStarNeekend2024

“I Don’t Have Female Friends” “Move With Caution” "Mr. Don't Got A Job" “I Thought I Was Going to Pod For Like 2 Hours”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses her recent move to Houston, India Arie’s recent Essence Fest comments, cheating passes and more.   The podcast starts with a recap of the journey to Texas (3:00). Women with weird complexes (16:00). Essence Fest Drama (20:00). Annoying podcast questions (30:00).    

“I’m moving” “Fxck you podcasters” “Yo Jean what up”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Harry. The two discuss moving, boring podcasts, social media filters, plastic surgery and more.  The pod begins with a conversation about getting out of your comfort zone (6:00). Polo Classic recap (17:00).  Texting while podding/Barlos recap (29:00). Ms. JackyOh’s untimely death and plastic surgery (36:00). The pod ends with several conversations around death, family and the term "people of color". 

“Killing Someone…” “Predominantly white schools” “Mental health struggles” “Be kind to people”   This episode of This is Thirty is dedicated to the victims who were killed at the Covenant School in Nashville, Tennessee. Learning centers are safe havens for children and dying at school should never be a thing. On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses politics, school shootings, mental health, and much more from an educator’s perspective.

"Privacy vs Secrecy" "S/o to black men!" "You look good you feel good “20,000 pure listens” On this episode of This Is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They talk about staying “inside”, feminine vs masculine energy, concert price inflation, and much more. The pod begins with a conversation about concerts and music taste (9:00). The pod continues with a convo about the benefits of being “inside” (28:00). Female maintenance (34:00). How toxic relationships affect friendships (45:00). The pod ends with a convo about Johnathan Majors recent arrest, physical abuse and women exhibiting masculine energy (57:00).

“Outsourcing d*ck” “Some n*ggas don’t try” “You would smash a rock” “You are a mental manipulator” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo. The two have a discussion on parenthood, fighting for your kids, attraction-based friendship, McDonald’s advertising tactics and much more. The pod begins with a conversation about parenthood and the lengths parents should go to be in their children’s lives (5:00). How happy are you? (23:00). Can you become sincere friends with someone you were once heavily attracted to? (39:00). The pod ends with a serious conversation about SELF-WORTH and purpose (64:00).

“Growing up is not for the weak” “Dont abuse God’s grace” “I don’t want that stuff inside of me” Thank you to everyone who came and/or supported This is Thirty Live! The podcast begins with a conversation about the highs and lows of celebrating birthdays (9:00). Overcoming depressive states (19:00). The power of the energy you radiate! (26:00). Bullying vs Adolescent Sparring: Michael B. Jordan vs. Lore’l ?! (39:00).

"You stood me up” “I got you on the backend” “I’m fat and I love myself” “I look like I’m 7 months pregnant” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo and Quatley. They talk about disappointment in dating, date-day etiquette, Lizzo’s never-ending rants, trauma, and much more. The convo starts around ‘date day’ etiquette (8:00). Equality amongst genders (20:00). Social media and some of the redundancies that grapple us (30:00) What matters most when it comes to choosing an employer (60:00)? The podcast closes as they discuss Lizzo’s recent comments about body image (79:00).

***APOLOGIES FOR SOUND QUALITY, TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES BEYOND MY CONTROL RESULTED IN SOUND BLENDING*** “I wanna be respectful but I wanna be honest” “Am I weird for being attracted to a little person?” “Breaking this wall of procrastination” “What is a BDB?” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls, Jean, and Mr. James Bony. They discuss relationships, disappointments, bisexual double standards, and much more. Rate your year on a scale of 1 -10 (10:00). What do you plan to be intentional about in 2023 (21:00)? Money, credit & plans for the future (35:00). Why can’t men be bisexual (53:00)? Can relationships that start on shaky grounds truly last in the long run (side chick turned wife, violation of others, situation-ships turned official) (73:00)? Imaginary Relationships (82:00). Episode closes with a conversation surrounding Megan the Stallion and Tory Lanez verdict.

“You gotta judge a man by his principles” “Nxggas gon nxg” “He is an embarrassment to society” “I really love my black men, but yall gotta do better”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The conversation starts with a discussion around Diddy announcing his new baby (7:00). REBOUNDING: The good, the bad, the ugly (20:00). Summer Walker’s recent comments about married women being “miserable” (47:00). The rest of the podcast focuses on Christmas shopping and several random topics. Enjoy!

**Spoiler Alert** Beware this episode contains spoilers, if you haven’t seen Black Panther 2: Wakanda Forever.. listen at your own discretion.   “Wakanda Forever was trash” “WTF am I doing with my life?” “The journey is extremely beautiful, if we allow it to be...” “Student loan debt don’t count”   The episode starts with a review on the new Black Panther movie (4:00) Navigating loss, family drama and happiness during the holidays (17:00). Painful experience or blessing?! When what you hoped for isn’t quite what you hoped for?! (29:00) Inspiration vs. Influence: The art of not letting the success of your peers rush your process.

“ricardo, ricardo, ricardo” “to be cheated on hurts so bad” “and she got me for $6,000” “some people thrive in chaos” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo aka Mr. International. The two discuss the celebration of Halloween, Kanye West's recent cancellation, gratitude, dating protocol, age gaps, Black Panther 2 and much more.  The podcast begins with a discussion surrounding corporations and their recent disconnections from  Kanye West and his brands (15:00). Ricardo and Gernique discuss Black Panther 2 (40:00). Black people, abandonment, generational trauma and much more (50:00).  The podcast ends with a conversation about dating (Irv Gotti & Ashanti continued): age gaps, coercion, persistence, dating colleagues, #metoo validity, etc (68:00).

“Kill yall selves” “When you don’t know something, just be quiet” “Some teaching is too close to begging” “Phone Number vs Socials” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Sherley. The two discuss parental trauma, racism, Kanye West’s antics, and much more. The pod begins with a convo about “White Live Matters” and BLM (6:00). Hispanics using the N-word: yay or nay (12:00)? Dealing with parental pain and trauma (20:00). Parental traits that you want to correct with your kids (32:00). Social media safety (40:00) Shooting your shot (60:00).

#HappyBirthdayZorah “Why is black twitter so crazy?” “Nobody asked you anything” “Some people are weird” “This person is married....” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss haters (5:00), pharmaceutical agendas (31:00), upgrading your life (42:00), and favorites (55:00). White People Music Appreciation (61:00).

“Don’t Say Feet” “I Got a Crush” “Her Grass is Greener” “I’m Not A Flirtatious Person”  On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Doodley aka @_Tattedpapii. They discuss fatherhood, prior jail time, Ashanti & Irv Gotti, dating and much more The pod begins around a convo about fatherhood (4:00). Doodley explains his love and interest for podcasting (17:00). The two deep dive into Irv Gotti's recent comments about Ashanti (22:00). Fast Round: This or That? (29:00) Growing Pains: They discuss coping with the loss of a parent (34:00). The podcast concludes with a conversation about the current state of dating (42:00).

“Why are we shooting for dead when we are unsure of the threat, over and over and over again?” “With my black husbands and my black a** kids” “Services need to be rendered” “Would you fly out for the d*ck?” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo. The two discuss Brittney Griner, race relations, serving your country, cheating, sex tourism / prostitution and much more. The podcast begins with  a conversation about Brittney Griner and Ricardo’s background (10:00).  A conversation about preferences turns into a racial debate about treatment, music, and much more (22:00). Dating outside of your race (31:00). Raising mixed children (42:00). The INTENSE RACIAL DEBATE BEGINS (50:00).  Fly out expectations ?! (84:00).