In today’s video, I share some thoughts on how men can increase attraction in relationships.



Read or watch below to learn strategies on how men can increase attraction in relationships.









Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’ll be talking about one of my favorite topics—tips for men to increase attraction in long-term relationships.



I’m Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve been helping people from all over the world overcome retroactive jealousy and strengthen their relationships.



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For those of you here for the first time, retroactive jealousy refers to unwanted, intrusive thoughts, often obsessive curiosity, and what I call mental movies about your partner’s past relationships.



As many of you know, retroactive jealousy can cause significant damage to relationships and negatively affect our partner’s attraction to us.



It can make our partner less attracted to us as men.



And just to clarify, this can happen regardless of gender or sexual orientation—whether you’re male, female, gay, or straight.



In any kind of relationship or configuration, this can happen.









But in this video, I want to share a couple of tips specifically for men in relationships with women.



One of the simplest, easiest, and quickest ways to increase attraction in your relationship is very simple—spend a little more time apart.



You know the story. Often, when we meet someone and enter into a new relationship…



Or sometimes, if we’ve been in a relationship for a long time, we fall into a pattern where instead of spending time with our friends or pursuing hobbies and passions outside of the relationship, we start blending our worlds together.



We end up spending almost every waking moment with our partner, rarely giving them the chance to miss us.



Because we’re always spending our free time together, she doesn’t even get the chance to miss us. We’re always like this, or at least most of the time.



So start spending more time apart.



Reconnect with your friends, who you might not have seen in a while.



Pursue your hobbies, passions, or any interests outside of your relationship.



Reconnect with family members, spend a bit more time at work, or take on a new business or project.



You could even pick up something you haven’t done in years, like reigniting an old passion, hobby, or interest.







Find a new project or learn something new.



The point is to start getting out of the house more.



Spend more time on your own or with other people, instead of spending most of your free time with your partner.



When you do this, and do it effectively, you’ll begin recharging your masculine presence a bit.



When a masculine presence and a feminine presence spend too much time together, a process called depolarization can happen.



She becomes a little more like you,