Send us a text What happens when you ask your partner for reassurance, comfort, or safety — and instead of bringing you closer, it pushes them away? In this episode, I take you deeper into the classic question from Ep 130, “Is It Me or Them?” We’ll explore why our nervous system reverts to child–parent dynamics in moments of fear, how to recognize when a younger wounded part is activated, and what it looks like to hold yourself instead of making your partner responsible for your sense o...
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Send us a text What happens when you ask your partner for reassurance, comfort, or safety — and instead of bringing you closer, it pushes them away? In this episode, I take you deeper into the classic question from Ep 130, “Is It Me or Them?” We’ll explore why our nervous system reverts to child–parent dynamics in moments of fear, how to recognize when a younger wounded part is activated, and what it looks like to hold yourself instead of making your partner responsible for your sense o...
Ep 179: How to safely move through conflict (for avoiders and instigators)
The Uncover YOU podcast
47 minutes
9 months ago
Ep 179: How to safely move through conflict (for avoiders and instigators)
Send us a text We often have this idea that healing means we’re NOT having conflict. That the lack of conflict is a sign of a successful relationship or life. When we actually need to get more comfortable BEING in and moving through conflict in a way that heals and has us grow. If you’re avoiding conflict (scared of how it will make you feel) or creating conflict (a survival response that has kept you safe) - you need to learn how conflict can open doors to more intimacy and connection. In ...
The Uncover YOU podcast
Send us a text What happens when you ask your partner for reassurance, comfort, or safety — and instead of bringing you closer, it pushes them away? In this episode, I take you deeper into the classic question from Ep 130, “Is It Me or Them?” We’ll explore why our nervous system reverts to child–parent dynamics in moments of fear, how to recognize when a younger wounded part is activated, and what it looks like to hold yourself instead of making your partner responsible for your sense o...