In this episode, I discuss the power of doing direct game. Chapters: (00:00) Don't approach like this (04:30) Why indirect game works (06:00) Using indirect game with the HOTTEST girls (08:40) Being man to woman? (10:00) Conversations to nowhere... (10:45) Intuitive? (11:30) Some more constraints... (15:00) Indirect opener masterclass (20:00) Delayed direct? (22:30) Todd's opening strategy! Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questi...

In this episode, I discuss the power of doing direct game. Chapters: (00:00) What is direct game? (01:45) Being natural and genuine (03:30) The biggest mistake guys make in game (08:00) Start by saying THIS (13:50) Downsides of direct game (23:00) Indirect ways of doing direct game Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I touch on a cornerstone of good game–how to be subtle. Chapters: (00:00) Nonchalance explained (03:30) Overdoing it (06:15) It's the little things... (07:15) Honest signals (10:30) Simply don't quit. (15:00) What's my honest reaction to this? (20:20) You are the prize. (24:30) A story... Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I break down everything you need to know about qualifying. Join me on a Bootcamp to learn game live from me.

In this episode, I break down everything you need to know about social circle game. Chapters: (00:00) Intro (01:30) The ADVANTAGES of social circle game (04:55) How to open in social circle game (10:00) How to create social proof in social circles (12:25) What to do if you've seen this girl before (14:15) How to open in social circle game (18:25) Best places to do social circle game (23:30) Indirect social circle game explained Here are links to th...

In this episode, I break down the repeatable thought process that I believe is the key to mastering game. A guy who develops the right mindset, routines, and learning process is guaranteed to succeed in game. By focusing on systematic self-evaluation, running small experiments, and refining my approach, I’ve always been confident in my ability to improve, and I'm going to show you how you can do the same. Chapters: 00:00 - Intro 01:15 - Having the right thought process 8:30 - Ask yourself th...

In this episode, I share some unconventional but insanely effective exercises to level up your game without even leaving the house. These drills are all about isolating key skills—like openers, push-pulls, and emotional spikes—so you can get sharper, faster, and more confident when it matters most.Chapters:00:00 - Magic Pill for Game01:27 - Interactive Game Exercises04:38 - Surprise Openers Drill09:37 - Day Game Dynamics17:39 - Question-Answer Tease ExerciseHere are links to the programs ment...

My advice on how to game without relying on alcohol.00:00 - Intro and Listener's Question 02:00 - The impact of alcohol on both self-improvement and dating06:00 - Personal experiences and strategies without alcohol10:00 - Navigating bars and social dynamics without drinking 14:00 - Final thoughts on balancing a healthy lifestyle and dating

In this episode of The Todd V Show, Todd tackles the question of whether "game" is sexist, reinforces traditional gender stereotypes, or is appropriate in today's society. He explores the biological basis for gender differences, addresses common criticisms, and encourages listeners to form their opinions through real-world experiences rather than media narratives.Chapters:00:00 - Listener question02:00 - Mother nature's thoughts on game...07:30 - Does game work in today's world?13:45 - My res...

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd explores the advantages of going out solo versus relying on a wingman. He shares his personal experiences and offers practical advice on how going out alone can build character, improve social skills, and accelerate learning in game.Chapters:00:00 - Introduction: Going Out Solo 00:26 - Learning Game Solo 01:40 - Preference for Solo Game 03:05 - Solo Game vs. Wingman 04:38 - Wingman Dependency Issues 06:12 - Wingman Limitat...

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd discusses the importance of asking the right questions to improve your game and avoid common pitfalls. He breaks down how to turn unhelpful, overly specific or broad questions into actionable insights that lead to real-world progress.Chapters:00:00 - Intro & Bootcamp Announcement01:10 - Importance of Asking the Right Questions03:00 - Learning Game as a Scientific Process05:15 - Types of Bad Questions: Specific & Theoretical**08:30 - The Problem...

Todays episode is about "pickup lines" -- exactly what to say to women. In particular, this is your chance to be a "fly on the wall" during a segment of one of my exclusive mentorship program calls. We do these kind of in-depth calls twice weekly, and if you were in the mentorship program during the call, you could ask your own follow up questions at any point.Timestamps0:00 – Introduction1:45 – Pickup Lines explained4:05 – The best way to tease6:15 – Subtlety…9:00 – The right frame in ...

In this episode, Todd interviews his most experienced coach, James, who gives some unique insights on opening, getting solid numbers, and how to communicate as a high-value man.Timestamps:0:00 – Introduction3:20 – A MASSIVE unlock for daygame…10:15 – Why you shouldn’t worry about bystanders in daygame13:45 – Qualifying Explained29:00 – Daygame MasterclassTo take get coaching with James go to: https://toddvdating.com/coachingAnd to take advantage of the sale on the Mentorship Program go to:&nb...

In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.Notes0:00 – Introduction0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges3:26 –...

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd shares insights from a recent coaching experience in Europe, discussing the importance of making the game fun, reducing outcome dependence, and techniques to handle frustration and approach anxiety. He also provides updates on his upcoming boot camps and practical strategies for improving game dynamics.Notes00:00 - Intro00:30 - Motivation for Today's Episode01:00 - Private Coaching Experience in Europe02:00 - Client's Frustration and Pressure03:00 - Im...

In this episode, I chat with three Online Dating Fast Track students as well as their two coaches, Kaitlin and Atlas. Notes00:00 - Intro01:50 - Coaches Background05:00 - Online archetype and narrative 16:30 - Being high-value online21:00 - Achieving abundance25:30 - Improving your messaging game27:00 - Paradigm shift31:30 - Todd's game insights40:00 - Physical escalation on dates46:50 - How to respond to every text50:20 - Answering deep questions over text51:30 - Maximize the lifesp...

In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example.Notes00:00 - Intro01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.Check out my comprehensive online dating course:https://toddoda.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to questions@toddvdating.comAsk questions on the...

00:00 - What is Bootcamp?01:40 - Student's experience prior to studying game03:55 - His massive game improvement09:05 - Most challenging bootcamp moment11:50 - His post-bootcamp experience15:30 - How he met his girlfriend19:00 - His advice to others on their journey in game21:20 - Being INTENTIONAL about gameIf you'd like to join me in person, my coaching schedule is at:https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to questions@toddvdating....

00:00 - State transference04:45 - How to kiss her (at the right time)06:30 - Bootcamp story16:30 - How to transfer sexuality to the girl20:00 - AMOG situationsCheck out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy, and highly effective:https://verbalgameacademy.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to questions@toddvdating.comAsk questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, a...