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The Secure Love Club Podcast

Mimi Watt

29 episodes

2 days ago

If you’ve ever felt afraid that once you really like someone, you’ll slip back into old habits… abandon yourself… and forget everything you worked so hard to heal—this episode is for you. After a long pattern of anxious dating, emotionally unavailable partners, and constantly losing myself in love, I decided to do something radically different: I took 12 months off dating completely. In this episode, I share what happened during that year—what I learned, how I reconnected with myself, and h...

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If you’ve ever felt afraid that once you really like someone, you’ll slip back into old habits… abandon yourself… and forget everything you worked so hard to heal—this episode is for you. After a long pattern of anxious dating, emotionally unavailable partners, and constantly losing myself in love, I decided to do something radically different: I took 12 months off dating completely. In this episode, I share what happened during that year—what I learned, how I reconnected with myself, and h...

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Episodes (20/29)

The Secure Love Club Podcast

Ep #29: The Secret to Not Losing Yourself in Dating or Giving Up the Woman You Fought to Become

If you’ve ever felt afraid that once you really like someone, you’ll slip back into old habits… abandon yourself… and forget everything you worked so hard to heal—this episode is for you. After a long pattern of anxious dating, emotionally unavailable partners, and constantly losing myself in love, I decided to do something radically different: I took 12 months off dating completely. In this episode, I share what happened during that year—what I learned, how I reconnected with myself, and h...

5 days ago

33 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast

Ep #28: Why Self-Aware Women Stay in Messy Relationships With Majo Torreli

If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling over a situationship, stuck in a cycle of "I know he’s not good for me, but I can’t walk away" - this episode is your medicine, my love. Today, I’m joined by the beautiful Majo Torreli - somatic coach, Oxford grad, and nervous system wizard - for a powerful convo on how your body (not your brain) holds the key to finally breaking your anxious dating patterns. Majo spent over a decade feeling small, powerless, and anxious in love, even while doing all t...

1 week ago

59 minutes

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Ep #27: Even the Confident Girls Get Social Anxiety (Here’s How I Handle It)

You know that moment where you get invited to something amazing — a room full of women you know you’d vibe with — but your body starts screaming, “Nope! Stay home, it’s safer on the couch”? Yeah… that was me last night. In this episode, I’m bringing you behind the scenes of a beautiful women’s networking dinner that totally cracked me open. What started as excitement quickly spiraled into social anxiety, fear of being judged, and a resurfacing of my teenage sisterhood wounds — you know the o...

2 weeks ago

37 minutes

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Ep #26: Secure Situationships Are a Thing - Here’s How to Have One

Can you actually date casually and feel emotionally safe, respected, and secure? Short answer: yes. But most people out here trying to be the “cool girl” in casual dating are actually just abandoning their needs and calling it chill. Let’s clean that up. In this episode, I break down what a secure casual dynamic actually looks like and how to stop treating situationships like a slot machine that might pay out if you just stay cool enough. You’ll learn: The four key ingredients for a secure c...

3 weeks ago

33 minutes

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Ep #25: The Questions Keeping You Anxious in Dating, and What to Ask Instead!

Today’s episode is for the over-thinkers, the self-doubters, and the “was it something I did?” spirallers. If you’ve ever felt triggered after a date and immediately asked “What did I do wrong?” Caught yourself on a mental hamster wheel wondering if you’re too much, not enough, or just cursed in love… Or tried to dissect someone’s texting patterns like it’s a code to crack…this episode is your wake-up call. We’re talking: - Why the questions you ask yourself are the key to your confidence -...

1 month ago

23 minutes

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Ep #24: The Self-Sabotage That Shows Up Right Before You Up-level & How To Overcome It

If you’ve ever hit a point in your healing where you thought, “Why is this happening again?” or “I thought I already worked through this!” this episode is your reminder that healing isn’t a straight line… but every challenge is an invitation to EVOLVE. We’re talking: - How to catch yourself before spiraling into victim mindset - What self-sabotage is really trying to protect you from - A deeply personal story about my most recent PA launch and the shadow it brought up - Why your challenges a...

1 month ago

30 minutes

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Ep #23: Coming Out Later in Life, Queer Dating & Anxious Attachment with Inez Bye

This episode is for every human who’s ever thought: “Am I actually into men… or am I just addicted to their validation?” 😳 …or “I think I might be queer, but I’m terrified of what that means.” Today I’m joined by the brilliant Inez Bye - queer content creator, business coach, and one of my real-life besties, for a no-holds-barred convo on coming out later in life, dating women for the first time, and how anxious attachment still finds a way to sneak in… even when you finally feel like yo...

1 month ago

1 hour 2 minutes

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Ep #22: Online Dating, First Dates & Ghosting: Let’s Talk About It All

Today’s episode is a full-on DATING DEBRIEF. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in dating burnout 🙃, ghosted someone because you weren’t sure how to say “I’m not feeling it,” got ghosted and spiraled hard, or stared at your phone thinking “Do I even want to be dating right now??” 😒 This episode is for you. We’re talking: Why online dating feels so bloody different to meeting someone IRLHow to tell if you actually want to date or if you’re just “should-ing” yourself into itFirst date ne...

1 month ago

40 minutes

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Ep #21: Are Your Dating Decisions Rooted in Scarcity or Abundance?

If your dating life feels like a never-ending loop of ghosting, confusion, and anxiety… you need this episode. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m breaking down the subtle, yet game-changing, difference between dating from scarcity vs. abundance. This conversation was sparked by a real-life moment from a 1:1 client session that I knew I had to share with you. If you’re sick of overthinking every text, afraid to speak your truth, or constantly worried you’re “too much”… then m...

2 months ago

33 minutes

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Ep #20: How to Stop Spiraling After One Date: The Anti-Obsession Method

Ever caught yourself planning your wedding playlist after one flirty date? 👀 Already imagining what your couple selfies will look like before you even know their last name? You’re not alone, my love—and you’re not crazy. In today’s juicy episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m answering a question I get all the time: “How do I stop myself from spiraling into fantasy land and imagining my whole life with someone I barely know?!” If dating has you exhausted from mentally fast-forwardi...

2 months ago

24 minutes

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Ep #19: Europe Catch-Up + Stop Putting Your Life on Hold for a Relationship!!!

If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “I’ll be happy when…” — when I find my person, when I make more money, when I finally feel chosen — this episode is your wake-up call. Fresh from my Europe trip, I’m sharing the biggest shift I had around what it actually means to live fully — without waiting for the relationship, the job, or the external milestone to give you permission to enjoy your life. We dive into why so many women (especially those with anxious attachment) press pause on their joy,...

2 months ago

35 minutes

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Ep #18: You Don’t Want a Relationship… You Want Peace

You think you’re searching for a relationship, but what you’re really craving is relief. A break from the spiral of overthinking and the constant need to feel “enough.” In this episode, I’m sharing a truth I learned the hard way: When you haven’t learned how to regulate your own emotions, you’ll unconsciously make your partner responsible for doing it for you. And that, my love, is where anxious dating patterns are born. We’re diving deep into why love isn’t the fix you think it is—and how ch...

2 months ago

31 minutes

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Ep #17: Get Unstuck & Into Alignment Using Human Design With Hillary McVeigh

In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, I welcome special guest and Human Design expert, Hilary McVeigh. Hilary shares her journey from being a burnt-out lawyer to a guide helping people reconnect with their authentic selves through human design. We dive into what human design is, how it can help you understand yourself better, and how you can align your life and relationships with your true energy. Hilary opens up about her personal experiences with hitting rock bottom and the trans...

2 months ago

1 hour 19 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast

Ep #16: How Your Childhood Shaped Your Dating Patterns (Without You Realizing)

Ever wonder why you keep repeating the same patterns in dating — like chasing emotionally unavailable people, feeling like you’re “too much,” or constantly questioning your worth? In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, we’re going deeper than surface-level dating advice. Because often, what you’re experiencing in love today has everything to do with the environment you grew up in. You’ll learn: • How your nervous system was shaped by early attachment experiences • The link between ...

3 months ago

27 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast

Ep #15: Am I Anxiously Attached... or Just Really Into Them?

Have you ever met someone new and immediately felt hooked? Like one great date has your brain spiraling with “What if they’re the one?!” and then panicking when they take hours to reply? In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and confusing) experiences for anxiously attached daters: the difference between genuine excitement… and anxious attachment. You’ll learn: • How to tell the difference between real connection and nervous system activatio...

3 months ago

35 minutes

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Ep #14: Hot, Healed & High-Performing: The Power of Discipline, Devotion & Self-Leadership With Dijana Djukicc

My friends… this one is a soul shaker. If you’ve been waiting for a sign to stop tolerating the bare minimum — from yourself, your life, your relationships — and finally take radical ownership, this is it. Today I sat down with the powerhouse that is Dijana Djukicc, and you’re about to get your entire mindset rearranged in the best way. Dijana is a coach, personal trainer, nutrition practitioner, and the woman behind a multiple seven-figure business that helps women become hot, healed, and h...

3 months ago

1 hour 27 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast

Ep #13: Why You Keep Falling for Emotionally Unavailable People (And How to Break the Cycle)

Ever feel like you always fall for the person who sends mixed signals, keeps you guessing, and never fully commits? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, we’re diving deep into why emotionally unavailable people feel so magnetic—and why breaking this cycle feels nearly impossible. I’m sharing my own journey from anxious attachment to security, unpacking the real reasons you keep getting stuck in this pattern (spoiler: it’s not your fault!). We’ll talk about: how c...

3 months ago

28 minutes

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Ep #12: Friendship - A Personal Story About Losing Myself, Finding Myself & The Power of Real Connection

In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m sharing something really close to my heart—a live talk I gave recently at the On Purpose event in Melbourne. This one’s personal. I open up about parts of my journey I’ve never shared online—times where I lost myself, felt disconnected, and how the friendships I built (and let go of) played a huge role in coming back home to me. If you’ve ever questioned your place in a friendship, felt like you were too much (or not enough), or struggled t...

4 months ago

21 minutes

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Ep #11: Flirting 101: Micro Flirts, Rejection-Proof Confidence & Building Genuine Connection with The Flirt Coach, Benjamin Camras

Flirting isn’t just about romance—it’s about confidence, connection, and having fun in your own skin. In this episode of The Secure Love Club podcast, I sit down with Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, to break down how flirting can feel natural, effortless, and fun (yes, even if you’re shy or overthink every interaction). Benjamin shares his journey from socially anxious introvert to flirt expert and spills his best tips on building confidence, handling rejection without spiraling, and us...

4 months ago

59 minutes

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Ep #10: The Tug-of-War Between Desire & Discipline in Dating & How To Expand Your Capacity For Discomfort

If you’ve ever felt like your heart and your head are at war when it comes to dating - this episode is for you. In this juicy deep dive, I’m breaking down the tension between desire and discipline, especially for those of us with anxious attachment. Because let’s be real… when we want someone, it can feel impossible to slow down, stay grounded, and make choices that actually serve us. I’m sharing my own journey (yes, the messy bits too) and giving you real, actionable strategies to help you b...

4 months ago

30 minutes