Welcome to The Relationship Talker where we help age 13-29 years navigate the phase of catching feelings, desiring a relationship, making mistakes, being judged and criticized through the inspiration of the Holy-Spirit and personal experience.
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Welcome to The Relationship Talker where we help age 13-29 years navigate the phase of catching feelings, desiring a relationship, making mistakes, being judged and criticized through the inspiration of the Holy-Spirit and personal experience.
If you are crushing on someone. You are normal! as a teenager, if you tend you like someone of the opposite sex at this stage of your life, there is no crime in it, in fact, you haven’t done anything bad likesome persons make you feel. It only becomes bad when you allow your emotions make you compromise instead of using wisdom. Like the scriptures says wisdom is profitable to direct. Ecclesiastes 10:10BDo you know that having a crush is not bad but if not handled properly, it can be distracting? Especially to you as a teenager.So, this topic of having a crush as a teenager really is an interesting one on its own. The strange thing that usually happen, not 100 percent anyways is that the person you are crushing on sometimes do not even know you exist, or knows you but doesn’t like you. That can be so discouraging and itcan make you think you aren’t fine enough or good enough or whatever. When you begin to feel this way as a teenager, you tend to lose yourself or worth in the process, you begin to do things that doesn’t glorify God because you want to satisfy the person you are crushing on, thereby dishonoring God, sometimes you tend to regret your actions, you look back in years’ time and you begin to pinch yourself and criticizing yourself on why you ever crushed on this person, because people evolve, they change for either the good or bad, he or she might not be attractive to you anymore.How do you then navigate this stage when you tend to crush on someone as a teen?Firstly,You need to understand what emotion isGuarding your heartsHonoring GodManaging disappointmentPraying and Seeking GuidanceAsk yourself; what do I stand to gain if I satisfy myfeelings?Get occupiedEmbrace God’s love
The Relationship Talker (T.R.T)
Welcome to The Relationship Talker where we help age 13-29 years navigate the phase of catching feelings, desiring a relationship, making mistakes, being judged and criticized through the inspiration of the Holy-Spirit and personal experience.