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The Relational Intelligence Podcast
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68 episodes
3 months ago
In this week's episode we consider how emotional neglect in childhood may be interpreted and later show up in adult relationships. We highlight 5 ways people may be impacted: 1. They may have difficulty processing their emotions 2. They may feel overly responsible for other people's emotions 3. They may seem withdrawn or disconnected 4. They may lean heavily into escapism 5. They may have advanced emotional intelligence And new this week, we're dropping a question at the end of each episode t...
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In this week's episode we consider how emotional neglect in childhood may be interpreted and later show up in adult relationships. We highlight 5 ways people may be impacted: 1. They may have difficulty processing their emotions 2. They may feel overly responsible for other people's emotions 3. They may seem withdrawn or disconnected 4. They may lean heavily into escapism 5. They may have advanced emotional intelligence And new this week, we're dropping a question at the end of each episode t...
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Relationships
Education,
Religion & Spirituality,
Society & Culture,
Christianity,
Self-Improvement
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The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 68: How Emotional Neglect During Childhood Impacts Adult Relationships
In this week's episode we consider how emotional neglect in childhood may be interpreted and later show up in adult relationships. We highlight 5 ways people may be impacted: 1. They may have difficulty processing their emotions 2. They may feel overly responsible for other people's emotions 3. They may seem withdrawn or disconnected 4. They may lean heavily into escapism 5. They may have advanced emotional intelligence And new this week, we're dropping a question at the end of each episode t...
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3 months ago
33 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 67: How Building Walls Can Keep You Hidden
In this week's episode we navigate the complex balance between keeping ourselves safe from relational harm and opening ourselves up to experience fulfilling connections. While the walls we've built can keep us safe, they can also keep us hidden. We're called to guard our hearts and yet open ourselves up to community. How does that work though? Are the walls we've build truly keeping us safe or are they keeping us hidden? Scripture references in this episode: Proverbs 4:23, 1 Peter 5:8, Psalm ...
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3 months ago
33 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 66: Should I Stay In This Relationship?
In this week's episode we discuss the dilemma we often face when looking to determine if a relationship is worth nurturing, maintaining, or releasing. While there is no guidebook to tell us exactly what to do, we can leverage biblical principles and our discernment to determine our steps. We share 6 things we can focus on to determine if we should stay in the relationship: 1. Focus on their heart (1 Samuel 6:17) - is this a person of integrity? Do I trust them? 2. Be equally yoked (2 Corinthi...
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3 months ago
33 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 65: Humble Enough to Grow
In this week's episode we dive into Matthew 7:3 that says, "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?" We're called to live a life of humility, and that heart posture enables us to continually grow in love with the freedom to make mistakes. A happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship cannot be nurtured with the presence of pride and absence of self-reflection. We're encouraged to refrain from maximizing the mistakes of our pee...
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4 months ago
30 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 64: We're Back!
4 months ago
25 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 63: When Your Tank Is On E
In this week's episode we discuss how to navigate moments, periods, and seasons when our emotional, mental, or spiritual tanks are empty and we have little to give to our relationships.
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1 year ago
18 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 62: The Art of Communication (w/ Terré Thomas)
1 year ago
40 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 61: What Motherhood Has Taught Me (w/ Velma McCormack)
1 year ago
44 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 60: Characteristics of a Good Friend
1 year ago
25 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 59: The Most Valuable Lesson You've Learned So Far
1 year ago
30 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 58: Rest
1 year ago
26 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 57: Fight Right
In this week's episode we talk through a few findings from the book Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection by Dr. John and Dr. Julie Gottman and a casual conversation between my colleagues and I about those findings on a random Tuesday. We discuss three conflict styles highlighted in the book (Avoidant, Validating, Volatile) and keys the authors shared about things to avoid during conflict and things to aim for in order to create connection. If you're interested i...
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1 year ago
29 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 56: How Family Shapes Us
In this week's episode we discuss how our upbringings plays a pivotal role in how we view the world, how we communicate, and how we interact with the environment around us.
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1 year ago
29 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 55: Self-Acceptance
In this week's episode we review some common patterns of rejection towards ourselves, such as: Being overly critical of oneselfBeing uncomfortable spending time aloneBeing in a constant state of comparisonFocusing more on doing rather than beingWe also discuss some steps we can take to begin learning true self-acceptance: Mindfulness & Self-ExplorationGiving Yourself GraceForgiving Yourself
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1 year ago
31 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 54: How to Have More Fun
In this week's episode we talk about insights on how to open our hearts and minds to simply having more fun. We go in depth about 5 strategies to help us along this process: 1. Stop taking yourself so seriously - instead, be more childlike (when appropriate) 2. Stop connecting with people on what's going badly - instead, connect on positive things 3. Commit to time away from your goals and obligations every day 4. Shut off analysis-mode 5. Try a complaint fast Catherine Price TED Talk: Why ...
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1 year ago
31 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 53: Resisting Temptation
In this week's episode we discuss eight strategies to help you resist temptation: Recall what tempts youInterject and redirect yourself before you engage with the temptation Plan to have healthy alternatives in placeIntroduce and welcome accountability partnersChallenge yourself for a set period of timeKeep the temptation out of reach Set your intention Create a rewards systemYou'll find in depth explanations and examples throughout the episode.
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1 year ago
31 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 52: Dating, Relationships, & Life Partnership
In this week's episode we speak to Angela Duckworth's book Grit. She outlines three different views of work - job, career, and calling. In her book, she speaks to the degree of grit involved at each level. I paralleled job, career, and calling to dating, relationships, and life partnership. We zoom out and take a look at what our expectations and investments look like at each level of romantic relationship.
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1 year ago
30 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 51: Uncovering Your True Identity
I'm going to keep it straight with you - uncovering your true identity is going to take a lot of humility because it'll be a game of trial and error. This lifelong journey allows us to sift through all the filth that life, hurt, rejection, misunderstanding, and everything else that has covered up the beauty of who we really are. I intentionally titled this UNcovering your true Identity rather than DIScovering your true identity because it's already inside of you. We don't need to find it, we...
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1 year ago
30 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 50: Picking the Right People For Your Tribe
In this week's episode we talk about our role in choosing not only who is in our lives, but how much access they have to us. I share my own framework for choosing people to do life with as a means to encourage others to understand their own relational needs. I mentioned a sermon from Pastor Travis Greene of Forward City Church that references what it means to have "diggers" in your life. Diggers are the people that will get down and dirty with you, the ones that will fight, work, push forwar...
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1 year ago
30 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
Ep. 49: Living with Pride & Humility
In this week's episode we speak to both sides of pride (the good and the bad) and what it means to live a life of authentic humility. Pride is on a spectrum, there's healthy pride like self-respect, and there's unhealthy pride like arrogance. I don't know about you, but often when I hear people speak about pride, the negative side is the one being highlighted and I want to challenge that narrative. Can we really have humility without pride?
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1 year ago
30 minutes

The Relational Intelligence Podcast
In this week's episode we consider how emotional neglect in childhood may be interpreted and later show up in adult relationships. We highlight 5 ways people may be impacted: 1. They may have difficulty processing their emotions 2. They may feel overly responsible for other people's emotions 3. They may seem withdrawn or disconnected 4. They may lean heavily into escapism 5. They may have advanced emotional intelligence And new this week, we're dropping a question at the end of each episode t...