Real vs. Fake Connections and How To Tell The Difference with Portia James and Tamika Carlton

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The Real Connect

Tamika Carlton

24 episodes

3 days ago

The Real Connect is your go-to podcast for building relationships that mean something. The Real Connect Podcast is hosted by relationship advocate Tamika Carlton. Each episode goes beyond the surface to explore what it truly takes to connect with yourself, others, and with purpose. If you’re ready to create relationships that uplift every part of your life, this podcast is about real talk, actionable insights, expert advice, and relatable stories to guide you to the best romantic and platonic relationships.

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Real vs. Fake Connections and How To Tell The Difference with Portia James and Tamika Carlton

The Real Connect

26 minutes 3 seconds

3 days ago

Real vs. Fake Connections and How To Tell The Difference with Portia James and Tamika Carlton

Some relationships add to your life. Others drain it.

In this episode of The Real Connect Podcast, Tamika Carlton sits down with Portia James for a conversation that goes beyond surface-level talk. They unpack what it actually means to recognize real vs. fake connections through the lens of personal experience, self-awareness, and the energy people bring into your life.

They get honest about friendships that feel forced, business relationships that lack integrity, and the quiet ways people show you who they are.

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

1. A clearer sense of what intention really looks like in close relationships

2. Signs you’re expending too much emotional labor and how to step back

3. How to create space for connection without abandoning your own needs

This isn’t about cutting people off for sport. It’s about choosing peace over performance and learning how to stay rooted in your values, even when the connection feels blurry.

Chime in below—what’s one lesson you’ve learned about protecting your energy?

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00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back

00:45 Catching Up with Portia James

01:14 Reflecting on Past Conversations

01:35 Diving into Viewer Questions

02:05 Identifying Real vs. Fake Connections

03:05 The Importance of Intentions in Friendships

04:20 Effortless Friendships and Their Value

06:29 Cutting Off Toxic Relationships

12:14 Self-Awareness and Accountability in Relationships

13:10 The Struggles of Dealing with Selfish People

13:52 Challenges in Business Relationships

15:40 Balancing Personal and Professional Boundaries

16:51 The Importance of Integrity in Relationships

19:38 Letting Go and Moving Forward

25:04 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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