If you’ve ever tried to teach your child a lesson while they were melting down - and wondered why it didn’t work - this episode is for you. 💛
We’re unpacking one of the most powerful shifts in parenting: help first, teach later. Because here’s the truth: you cannot comfort and correct at the same time. When emotions are high, your child’s brain can’t learn. What they need in that moment isn’t a lecture - it’s connection.
In this episode, I’m sharing:
Why we feel the urge to “teach in the moment” (and how it backfires)
What happens in your child’s brain during dysregulation
How to respond with empathy without “letting things slide”
Real-life examples of what help first, teach later looks like
How connection builds lasting trust - and makes your words land later
This simple but profound mindset shift will change how you show up as a parent, and how your kids experience safety, accountability, and love.
✨ Because connection isn’t the reward for good behavior - it’s the foundation for growth.
♥ Your Parent Coach, Brittney
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