In this episode of The Parenting Lab, we’re unpacking two tiny words that carry enormous weight in our parenting journey: “I Am” vs. “Am I?”
On the surface, they look almost the same. But in reality, they shape everything - our confidence, our motivation, even how our nervous system responds in the hardest moments of parenting.
“Am I a good mom? Am I enough?” These questions are familiar to so many of us, especially in a culture that thrives on comparison and perfectionism. While self-reflection has its place, living in constant doubt drains our energy and joy.
By shifting into “I Am” statements - like I am learning, I am patient, I am doing my best - we anchor ourselves in truth and abundance. In this episode, I’ll walk you through:
Why “Am I” keeps us stuck in self-doubt
How “I Am” statements can rewire your brain and regulate your nervous system
The danger of negative “I Am” labels (like I am failing or I am broken)
Practical tools to flip your inner dialogue and model confidence for your kids
How to build a supportive community that reflects truth back to you
If you’ve ever struggled with parenting guilt, comparison, or self-doubt, this episode is for you. Together, we’ll explore how to move from uncertainty into confidence, and from scarcity into abundance - one “I Am” at a time.
♥ Your Parent Coach, Brittney
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