“At our age, the end is much closer than the beginning”.
Two old men sit down every week to reflect on their experiences through life, how they live their lives in the present day, and most importantly, how they’ve stopped giving a sh*t.
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“At our age, the end is much closer than the beginning”.
Two old men sit down every week to reflect on their experiences through life, how they live their lives in the present day, and most importantly, how they’ve stopped giving a sh*t.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this candid episode, Byron and Paul tackle sobering news: dementia has overtaken heart disease as the leading cause of death for Australians, with 17,500 deaths registered last year. Both hosts share deeply personal experiences, having lost their mothers to the disease.
Drawing from their family histories, they explore the potential link between chronic stress and dementia, examining how their mothers' stressful lives—marked by single parenthood, financial pressure during the late 1980s recession, and caregiving responsibilities—may have contributed to their early decline.
The conversation shifts to an honest examination of their own lives today. Despite being in privileged positions, both hosts grapple with Australia's overwhelming cost of living: million-dollar median house prices, $9 coffee, $100 daily expenses just to visit the city, and aged care facilities requiring $1 million bonds plus $100,000 annually.
This leads to serious contemplation of the "bodhi tree option"—relocating to Thailand where accommodation costs just $700 per month, meals total $30 per day, and quality of life could dramatically improve. They discuss retirement visa requirements ($36,000-$37,000 in a Thai bank account) and compare potential monthly expenses of $2,000 in Thailand versus over $100,000 annually in Australia.
Byron shares a recent health wake-up call: his doctor warned he's now in a high-risk category for stroke, heart attack, and diabetes, forcing him to confront how work stress has compromised his health over the years. Paul reflects on exercise as his primary stress relief and questions whether their current lifestyle is sustainable.
The episode touches on food insecurity in Australia, with Byron's charity work revealing people in their 50s accessing charity meals for the first time after job loss. They discuss the cumulative effects of stress (illustrated by Byron's "glass of water" metaphor), the rising costs of dementia care, and whether modern life's pressures justify the sacrifice.
Key themes: dementia prevention, stress management, cost of living crisis, retirement planning, geographical arbitrage, work-life balance, health consciousness, and questioning societal expectations.
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