In episode 40, we felt it would be good to leave y’all with the story of Nfluence. The 3 pillars discussed are what the brand stands on and what we hope you hold with you in your life as we do ours. What is Nfluence? What are the pillars? We get into that in this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
3:03 - The Story of Nfluence
15:03 - The Message/ Pillars of Nfluence
19:00 - Relationship with God
23:25 - Relationship with Self
29:59 - Relationship with People
36:46 - Who is my biggest Nfluence?
38:55 - Outro
40:23 - THE BEST MESSAGE I WILL EVER GIVE
In episode 39, after our 1 year anniversary we talked about the lessons we learned in marriage. What are they? We get into that this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
1:57 - BREAKING NEWS!!!
6:01 - LESSON 1: THANKS AND APPRECIATION
8:19 - LESSON 2: DON’T TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEM
15:15 - LESSON 3: KEEP CHRIST IN THE CENTER
20:48 - LESSON 4: SAY I LOVE YOU
22:48 - LESSON 5: DON’T ACCUSE THEM OF NEVER DOING ANYTHING
32:25 - LESSON 6: COMMUNICATE they can’t read your mind
35:47 - LESSON 7: SPEAK LIFE not death over your spouse/marriage
36:40 - LESSON 8: DATES ARE STILL IMPORTANT
40:39 - LESSON 9: ALONE OR ME TIME
42:05 - LESSON 10: PUTTING THEIR NEEDS FIRST
47:56 - LESSON 11: LOVE LANGUAGES
49:38 - LESSON 12: ENCOURAGE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER
50:18 - LESSON 13: GIVE GRACE
51:14 - LESSON 14: APOLOGIZE AND RECONCILE
01:03:13 - OUTRO
In episode 38 we wanted to help out the sisters and give some signs a man WONT MAKE YOU HIS WIFE. Some women are in relationships and are holding on to false hope and we really want to help by giving signs that at the very least, start making you question how much more time will be wasted. What are those signs? We get into that this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
4:53 - “IM NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP”
10:06 - NO FUTURE TALK
16:20 - NO PUBLIC OR DAYTIME DATES
19:04 - HE DOESN’T CLAIM YOU
24:52 - DOESN’T BRING YOU AROUND FAMILY OR FRIENDS
32:17 - MAKES EXCUSES AND INCONSISTENT
39:46 - NO RECIPROCITY
42:55 - ENTERTAINS OTHER WOMEN
In episode 37 I talk about the wilderness season. During this time when walking with God it can get really overwhelming and seem like nothing is working out for you. Im hoping this ep gives y’all some clarity and encouragement to continue on. So what is the wilderness season and how do you survive? We get into that this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
3:10 - what is the WILDERNESS SEAON?
7:25 - Why does God put us through it?
24:56 - Feelings that you will experience during this time
26:10 - How do you SURVIVE?
37:05 - Outro
In episode 36 we continue discussing sex, but this time we are attempting to tear down your SEXPECTATIONS. Sex is an important part of marriage but before we are married we are often thinking about our own pleasure from it. But what if I told you sex will be hard work? That it isn’t about your own pleasure? We get into that this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
4:50 - Expectations we had for sex in marriage
9:10 - struggles for couples during pregnancy
16:51 - in marriage sex is IMPORTANT
20:01 - here is how the devil tries to keep you from sex in marriage
34:42 - thoughts on scheduling sex
42:25 - outro
In episode 35 we discuss our biggest struggle while dating and that was abstaining from sex. As believers we do believe God’s way is the best way but unfortunately we all haven’t done it that way. We are NOT ADVOCATING FOR SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE but testifying how God blessed us to eventually experience his way. Please remember how he chose to handle us may not be how we will choose to handle you.
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In episode 34 we discuss relationships and dating. A big question people have is, should you go 50/50 in a relationship or dates? What does it mean if a man wants to go 50/50? we get into that in this episode.
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In this episode we are answering questions for y’all to get to know more about us. We reached our goal of 1,000 subscribers, so from questions about how we express our love to how we handle conflict, we get into that in this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
4:49 - things you do to maintain a sense of independence while also being in a committed relationship?
9:55 - things you do to maintain a sense of trust and respect in your relationship?
16:05 - How would you handle conflicts or disagreements about parenting styles in your relationship?
20:03 - most meaningful gestures or acts of love you’ve experienced in your relationship?
25:08 - How do you handle conflicts or disagreements about cultural or religious differences in your relationship?
31:31 - What are some of the most important things you do to maintain a sense of romance and intimacy in your long-term relationship?
34:05 - How do you handle conflicts or disagreements about intimacy or sexual preferences in your relationship?
45:44 - outro
In this episode we are talking about SEX. Keep the kids away. We have heard the conversations and we wanted to give our take on if it should matter before going into a relationship or marriage. From there we talk about which you should prefer to be entering marriage, a virgin or with experience? We get into that in this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
4:33 - Should body count matter?
26:19 - Be a virgin or gain the experience before marriage?
44:00 - Closing
In this episode we break the news of the gender of our baby. Along with that, while looking up different parenting styes, we discuss which suit us best. Which would be our parenting style? How would we discipline our child? Is it wrong to spank our child? We get into that in this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
6:22 - Catching y’all up on things
7:41 - Parenting Styles
30:57 - Scriptures on disciplining your child and its IMPORTANCE
36:21 - WE ARE NOT FRIENDS
46:55 - Closing
In this episode we reflect on our marriage and talk about our future as parents. Were we ready for marriage? Are we ready for parenthood? We get into in this episode.
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0:00 - Intro
4:00 - Were we ready for MARRIAGE?
26:48 - Are we ready for PARENTHOOD?
37:59 - Outro
With my wife returning to the podcast, we have some BIG NEWS TO DROP. WE ARE PREGNANT!!! During this pod we tell you how it all happened, we go over what life has been like since we got the news. Along with that we talk about how we have showed up for each other during pregnancy and what we are excited about moving forward. We hope you enjoy God bless and may the Lord be with you.
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0:00 - Intro
1:47 - Announcement
6:41 - The story & how things have been going
13:41 - How we have shown up for each other during this season
15:36 - What men can pray for during the season
32:00 - She be chatting
37:47 - What are we excited about?
43:12 - Outro
In this episode I compare the difference between people who are thermometers and thermostats. Which does God want us to be and how can we be it? I answer in this episode so I hope you enjoy and share with loved ones you believe need it.
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What is a situationship? Is it a bad thing? In this episode I give you my take on it. Dating is hard and you can easily entertain, as I brought up in the episode, a distraction. Now I have my reasons I advise against being in one but I also give you some tips to help you avoid one. I hope this is a blessing and that you enjoy.
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After receiving a few questions and topic suggestions from my instagram story, in this episode I give my perspective on these 3 topics.
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I wanted to talk about something I read in Proverbs that I believe we all need to put into practice. I believe it will help us with our relationships and help us love ourself better. Whether lacking boundaries, having high expectations, or continuing to give to people who say they love us but hurt us, this episode is my two cents to help.
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Im sure you have heard the saying, "Love is Blind" and if not, maybe you have seen it on Netflix. But after watching it I felt the need to give my thoughts on dating, rushing into marriage, and more some truth about marriage.
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