Self actualisation, lies not just in decision making and creating oneself but also self realisation.

Theory of mind is the ability to recognise that other people's mental states may differ from one's own.

Using their Point of view to corner in to the peculiarities of their minds that is most commonly know to help understand one another, by first recognising the differences.

"Why is it called a "theory" of mind? Psychologists refer to it as such because our beliefs about what might be going on in another person's head are just that—theories. "₀

From making predictions of previous encounters, archetypes and motivations, these theories affect our interaction, expectations and cues to behaviours.

How do we create and frame our minds within these illusions of control and how do we create and realise ourself?