What difference is a test, and getting what you want?

i.e. you can ask for a relationship and get a real disasters,

to  then label it as the gift from god, and of societal, would you blame  God or society, since they were "the one" that gave it to you. In such  ambiguous emotionally fueled context, most of us might not be able to  pin it on anyone and come to a more just realisation to not blame it  outward.

However, when compared to an act of faith, whereby standing for your faith is also the seemingly right thing to do?

How is it so, that leaving the gift of a relationship and "sacrificing" your faith, an act of righteousness and courage?

Mainly  because of the context that we label it, the looks of it, i.e someone  in silver tuxedo is not a billionaire, someone who weighs a hundred  kilogram is not a trained boxer or fighter.

And all of these people are given an equal chance to act on courage.

Yet all of these people have different skills and capacity to act.

I.e.  to be disillusioned by the equal chance, i.e. two equally healthy  people might stand an equal chance at a brawl, and be disilllusioned by  their skills and emotional rage between one another, believing it is the  right thing to do to cower from what they fear, vs, two differently  equipped people who then are asked to stand up for what they believe in,  is that fair? or even just? And is that an equation of courage?