🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!
Second date, and we're bringing back a banger! We brought a masked OBGYN into the playroom. Dr. Arianna joins us to answer all your burning questions about BV, UTIs, birth control, vaginal hygiene, and the mysterious condition known as PMDD. From what your discharge actually means to whether boric acid is your best friend or a quick fix fail, we’re getting clinical without killing the vibe.
This isn’t your high school health class. We’re talking real talk about vagina smells at parties, post-play infections, and why some women feel like they’re losing their damn minds once a month. Plus: Do pregnancy salads work? Is it okay to birth on all fours? What’s the deal with Lotus births? Reddit brought the chaos—and Dr. Arianna brought the facts.
If you’ve ever whispered “Is this normal?”—this is your episode.
💥 In this episode:
BV, yeast, and why your vagina isn’t dirty
The great soap debate: What’s safe to use down there?
What causes post-party infections (and how to prevent them)
The truth about birth control and hormone myths
PMDD, mood swings, and the partner pain no one talks about
WTF is a Lotus birth, and should you actually do it?
⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 – Welcome + Meet Dr. Ariana, Masked OBGYN
1:05 – What is an OBGYN (and yes, she does C-sections too)
2:52 – What exactly is BV, and why does it smell like that?
6:04 – How sex, toys, and yoga pants trigger infections
8:29 – Can soap cause BV? (Short answer: yes)
10:31 – Boric acid, BV myths, and treating the wrong thing
12:11 – Do you need antibiotics or just vibes?
13:28 – Yeast vs. UTI vs. WTF: What are you actually feeling?
15:47 – What partygoers should know about hygiene & handwashing
17:48 – Condoms, toy cleaning & washing your damn hands
20:12 – Let’s talk about birth control (and the anti-hormone panic)
24:00 – Is it bad to skip your period? Not always.
26:32 – PMDD: The mood monster in your luteal phase
29:02 – Fighting with your partner? It might be your hormones
30:50 – How birth control + SSRIs treat PMDD
34:09 – Reddit rapid-fire: pregnancy salads, all-fours births, and Lotus weirdness
39:39 – Birth plan vs. emergency plan: when doctors have to pivot
42:00 – Final thoughts + massive respect for Dr. Ariana
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Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!
In this tell-all episode, we rip the mask off one of the lifestyle’s most whispered-about topics: the No-Fly List. Who gets put on it, why they’re there, and how it feels when you find out you made the cut. From unspoken boundaries to repeated STI scares, we’re digging deep into what keeps people “off limits” in open relationships and Lifestyle circles.
It’s raw, it’s real, and sometimes… it’s personal. We swap stories of awkward “not with you” moments, playing politics in play parties, and the awkward truth about why some people just can’t get past your partner’s rules. Plus, the surprising ways being single changes how couples treat you—and why some flirtations never make it past the DMs.
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I being respectful… or am I about to get grounded from the hot list?”—this one’s for you.
💥 In this episode:
- What a “No-Fly List” really means in the lifestyle
- The fine line between safety, jealousy & politics
- How STI patterns can land you on the list (and keep you there)
- Why being single changes the party dynamic
- The real reason some couples won’t play with you
- Respect, boundaries & calling out repeat offenders
🎧 If you’re navigating ethical non-monogamy, Lifestyle etiquette, or just want to avoid the “banned” list, grab your drink and buckle up—this one flies close to the sun.
⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 – Welcome to The Unmasked Project
0:40 – “No-Fly List” 101: What It Means & Why It Exists
2:15 – Have You Ever Been On One? Confessions From the Crew
4:10 – The Role of Trust, Safety & Past Drama
6:00 – Pikme Behavior & Disrespecting Couples’ Dynamics
8:15 – Playing Together vs. Playing Solo
10:00 – STI Patterns & Drawing the Line
12:45 – When Being Single Changes the Game
15:10 – Why Some People Feel “Silently” Rejected
18:20 – Navigating Insecurities & Hotness Ratios
21:05 – The Siren Effect: Attractive Energy as a Double-Edged Sword
24:00 – Respecting Boundaries Without Killing the Vibe
27:40 – Do You Confront Repeat Offenders or Just Add to the List?
31:15 – Being Misunderstood in the Lifestyle
34:20 – Flirtation, Friend-Zoning & Why Men Don’t Approach
38:10 – Power Dynamics & Party Hosting
41:00 – The Slap Heard ’Round the Playroom
44:20 – Lessons Learned: Communication, Respect & Reputation
47:30 – Final Thoughts: Flying High Without Crossing the Line
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Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, we left a play party… to crash a gym crew happy hour. Yep, it was that kind of night.
In this cheeky yet vulnerable episode, Layla and Brian unpack everything from flirty gym crushes to emotionally confusing “friendships” that only show up when someone’s single. We’re talking about hot bodies, hotter boundaries, and the real communication gaps hiding in open relationships.
From sweaty workouts to sweaty situationships, we explore what happens when fitness motivation meets lifestyle temptation. Is it ever safe to hook up within your gym crew? Why do some “friends” vanish into monogamy and pop back up like clockwork? And most importantly—are you washing yourself correctly?
Whether you’re navigating modern love, trying to avoid cheating tales, or just here for the real talk, this one’s packed with humor, heart, and a little sweat.
💥 In this episode:
Leaving a play party for a gym crush
Flirty friends, emotional boundaries & communication skills
When “he’s just a friend” hits different in an open marriage
Why your gym might be the new lifestyle hotspot
Confessions about hygiene, hand towels, and honesty
The power of couples therapy (and group chats)
🎧 Whether you're on a fitness journey, a wellness journey, or just trying to find your people, this episode serves gym motivation and romantic insights.
We’re sweaty, unfiltered, and still your favorite unmasked crew.
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⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome to The Unmasked Project0:13 – Guys who are “100% straight”... but watching what?0:31 – Inside LA’s hottest gym party1:52 – We left a play party for this?3:06 – Gym happy hours: messy, sexy, or both?5:00 – Why we don’t date at our gym7:16 – DIY cut-offs & Michaels cart therapy11:27 – When friends only text you single14:15 – Flirting or emotional cheating?17:00 – How to keep the peace with your partner20:35 – Fitness motivation or forbidden vibes?24:20 – The great washcloth debate28:00 – Soap, sex, and sweat: body talk gets real30:00 – Reddit reactions: swingers, poly, and play rules34:10 – Do couples who swing together really stay together?37:00 – Emotional growth vs. hot mess express40:00 – Dating profiles decoded: what those bios really mean
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Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!
In this no-holds-barred episode, Layla reads a ChatGPT-generated breakup text that stirs up serious questions about communication, ghosting, and emotional responsibility in polyamory. The relationship started fast—but ended faster, with guilt trips, AI scripts, and passive-aggressive silence.
We dive into the messy emotional terrain of non-monogamy, sex parties, and swinger dynamics in a community that's evolving—sometimes for the worse. Are the parties getting younger and riskier? Are people using poly to avoid deeper issues? And what happens when emotional intelligence goes out the window?
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I really poly, or do I just like falling in love?”—this one’s for you. Whether you're deep in the poly lifestyle or just curious about the swinger scene, this conversation hits hard with raw truth and real laughs.
💥 In this episode:
The AI breakup text that ended it all
Emotional boundaries in open relationships
Ghosting, guilt, and poly dating etiquette
STI awareness & why vetting matters more than ever
Are you actually poly—or just addicted to NRE?
When the lifestyle starts to feel... unsafe
🎧 If you’re exploring ethical non-monogamy, sex positivity, or navigating a poly breakup, this one pulls no punches.
We’re bold, we’re raw, and we’re still your favorite unmasked truth-tellers.
⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 – Welcome to The Unmasked Project
0:12 – Layla Reads the ChatGPT Breakup Text
1:15 – Ghosted: “My Silence Was My Communication”
3:30 – Guilt, Boundaries & Emotional Labor
5:40 – Is He Just Not Poly?
8:00 – Sex Party Etiquette: How Soon Is Too Soon?
11:30 – Why Some People Aren’t Cut Out for This Life
14:00 – STI Spikes & the Responsibility of Vetting
17:20 – Are You Poly or Just Addicted to NRE?
21:00 – Relationship Coaching: Intentions vs. Impulses
24:40 – Lifestyle Fatigue: Are the Vibes Off?
29:10 – When the Scene Feels Less Safe (and Less Sexy)
33:20 – Emotional Intelligence, Party Culture & Calling It Out
36:00 – The Crew Gets Real About Checking Your Friends
40:00 – Getting Off: Rants About Michaels Carts & Costco Carts
43:00 – Final Thoughts on Communication, Sex, and Self-Respect
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Why do so many women feel pressured to change their bodies? In this raw, revealing episode, Jacki Schechner joins Layla & Brian to talk about boob jobs, Botox, body standards, and the surprising things men actually notice (and don’t).
From straight pubes to shrinking boobs, they unpack how the algorithm fuels insecurity, how cosmetic surgery plays out in the lifestyle space, and how aging, sex drive, and confidence evolve with time.
This is Part 1 of a 2-part conversation. Subscribe so you don’t miss next week’s episode.
⏰ Timestamps
0:00 Welcome Back: Jacki Schechner on Beauty, Sex & Pressure
1:30 Botox, Fillers & Cosmetic Work in the ENM Scene
6:15 Do Men Really Care About Cellulite, Scars & Small Boobs?
9:45 Do People Think Breast Implant Scars Look Bad
13:00 Penis Size, Disappointment & Bedroom Etiquette
17:00 How the Lifestyle Space Boosts Body Confidence
20:30 Lingerie, First Parties & Feeling Sexy Again
24:00 Peptides, Weight Loss & Testosterone After 30
30:00 Can You Tell If Your Sex Drive Is Declining?
33:00 Jacki’s Breakup, Alcohol Journey & Learning Control
38:00 The Algorithm Is Lying to You About Beauty Standards
43:00 Part 2 Is Coming Soon. We're Not Done With Jacki
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Sabrina Baldini—TEDx speaker, sex educator, and host of After Sex Ed—joins us to explore what she calls “The Third Sexual Revolution.” From porn literacy and ED to dating app burnout and non-monogamy, we dive deep into how young men are navigating sex, relationships, and connection in a post-digital world.We talk about what’s broken in sex ed, how porn is shaping sexual expectations, and why so many people are craving something real—both in and out of the bedroom.Whether you're a curious dater, a parent, or just someone questioning what sex means today—this episode will challenge, educate, and probably make you laugh.⏰ Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro: Who is Sabrina Baldini?2:00 – Why adult sex ed is more needed than ever6:30 – Teaching consent in kindergarten: A Canadian model10:00 – Sex ed trauma in the US: Robot babies & scare tactics13:45 – Porn literacy and how young men learn about sex18:00 – Why erections ≠ love (and why many men think they do)23:00 – Premature ejaculation & what it really means26:30 – The problem with 25-minute sex scenes31:00 – The Third Sexual Revolution: What it is & why now34:00 – Dating app fatigue and the rise of in-person connection38:30 – Can men and women really be friends?45:00 – Why non-monogamy might be part of the future51:00 – Is monogamy a spectrum?55:00 – What the cheating numbers really say about monogamy🔗 Want to Connect with SabrinaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@LearnwithSabrinaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/afters3xed/Sabrina's Website: www.aftersexed.com🎧 Subscribe for more stories like this! 🔥 Listen to all of our episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4uOOhjA...🔥 Follow us on IG: / theunmasked_project 🔥 Follow us on TT: / themaskedswingers 🔥 Email us with your questions at theunmaskedprojectpod@gmail.com
Welcome back to The Unmasked Project, fka The Masked Swingers!
In this live relationship coaching session, Layla opens up about the emotional intensity of dating while married in an ethical non-monogamy setup. Her partner, brand new to both polyamory and serious relationships, brings passion—but also insecurity and emotional dependency. With the help of renowned relationship coach Mary Jo Lorei, we dive deep into what happens when love overload meets emotional labor and blurred boundaries.
If you've ever struggled to balance autonomy and connection in an open relationship, or wondered how to say no without guilt, this is the episode for you. Whether you're navigating non-monogamous dating, redefining love, or stuck in emotional overwhelm, this conversation is packed with clarity and courage.
💥 In this episode:
Breakup advice that honors love and self-respect
A real-time live coaching session on polyamory coaching and boundary setting
Tools for overcoming relationship guilt, emotional burnout, and over-functioning
Insights on conscious relationships and redefining the role of “boyfriend”
🎧 If you're seeking polyamory advice, exploring relationship communication, or craving emotional clarity in love, don’t miss this one.
We’ve dropped the masks, but kept the raw, unfiltered vibe. The Unmasked Project is the evolution of our show—still hosted by Brian and Layla, still diving deep into intimacy, identity, and human connection. Only now, we’re going even deeper. Same bold energy. New name. Fully unmasked.
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⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 – Welcome to The Unmasked Project: Live Polyamory Coaching
0:58 – Introducing Mary Jo Lorei: Relationship Coach & Self Mastery Mentor
1:40 – Layla’s Polyamorous Relationship Setup: Married + Dating
3:15 – Dating a Poly Newbie: The Risks of Being Their First
4:50 – When Poly Love Moves Too Fast: Emotional Burnout Begins
6:30 – The Breakup: Navigating Guilt and Emotional Overwhelm
9:15 – Coaching Breakdown: What Do You Really Want from a Relationship?
11:50 – Redefining the “Boyfriend” Role in Non-Monogamous Dating
14:20 – Boundaries in Polyamory: When You Love Them, But It’s Not Enough
18:40 – Coaching on Emotional Labor and Intimacy Fatigue
22:30 – From Guilt to Clarity: Taking Back Your Energy
27:00 – How to Stop Doing Their Work for Them in Relationships
31:45 – Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset in Poly Dating
35:00 – Redesigning the Relationship You Want—Not Just Finding a Person
41:20 – What It Means to Be in Charge vs. In Partnership
47:10 – How to Hold Space and Set Limits in Ethical Non-Monogamy
52:00 – Monogamy vs. Polyamory: What Works for You?
56:45 – Final Reflections: Intimacy, Autonomy, and Redefining Love
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– Insightful posts, coaching gems, and a peek into her soulful world.
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She’s Married. She’s Poly. And He’s Brand New to All of It.
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Poly Breakups, Brazil Temptations & Billionaire Messes — This One Has It AllLayla’s breakup hits hard—and Brian’s response? He hires a relationship coach to get to the root of their patterns. This episode dives into the emotional chaos of poly breakups, why ending things can still feel like failure, and how coaching (yes, even for emotionally intelligent people) can uncover what therapy sometimes misses.Plus, Brian spills on a moment in Brazil where his commitment was tested, and the duo breaks down the recent scandals surrounding billionaires — like Diddy’s "Freakoffs" and Elon Musk’s wild family tree. What do power, ego, and control have to do with intimacy? Maybe everything.This one’s messy, honest, and unexpectedly healing.🖤 Come for the heartbreak. Stay for the billionaires.🎙️ Whether you're here for laughs, insights, or some spicy oversharing, this is The Unmasked Project — where love, kink, and chaos collide.Products featured in this episode: Twinkle Tongue Layla is obsessed with Twinkle Tongue. Get $5 off your order when you use our link: https://twinkletongue.com/TMSPOD or the code TMSPOD at checkout. HOP WTR Brian has been drinking this non-stop during all of our recent episodes. Use the code TMSFAM for a 10% discount on your first order: https://hopwtr.com/🔥 Bonus content in Discord: https://discord.com/invite/TPBUgSxzwb🌶️ Our favorite toys & tools: https://www.unmaskedpod.co/products-we-love📩 Email us: themaskedswingerspod@gmail.comEpisode Timestamps00:00 – Cold Open: Are We Cool? 00:45 – Layla’s Latest Obsession: Twinkle Tongue 04:30 – Layla’s Breakup: “I Had to Let Him Go” 08:30 – Dating Outside the Lifestyle: Can It Work? 12:30 – Breakups Still Hurt (Even in Open Relationships) 16:45 – Coaching vs Therapy: Which One Actually Helps? 19:00 – Brazil Temptation: The Loyalty Test 25:45 – The Bigger Test: What Happened Next in Brazil 31:30 – Billionaire Intimacy Problems: Diddy & Elon 35:45 – Life Updates, Uber Trunks & Final Thoughts
Formerly The Masked Swingers, Welcome to The Unmasked Project!
In this powerful and candid episode of The Unmasked Project, Vudu Dahl opens up about her life as a cult survivor raised in the “House of Maro,” and how she began her healing journey through s*x work, kink therapy, and somatic healing. From escaping abuse to becoming a kink educator and running her er*tic wellness brand Dalier, she shares her inspiring path toward personal liberation and emotional healing.
We’ve dropped the masks, but kept the raw, unfiltered vibe. The Unmasked Project is the evolution of our show—still hosted by Brian and Layla, still diving deep into intimacy, identity, and human connection. Only now, we’re going even deeper. Same bold energy. New name. Fully unmasked.
⏰ Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome & rebranding to The Unmasked Project
01:30 – Introducing Vudu Dahl: cult survivor turned kink educator
06:03 – Life in the cult & control dynamics (cult story, cultural trauma)
09:04 – Isolation, homeschooling & early questioning
12:06 – Groomed for servitude: early childhood lessons (consent education, female empowerment)
14:01 – Deciding to escape: signs of abuse & questioning authority
18:05 – Exit strategy, emotional fallout & being ostracized
25:00 – Struggle after escape: abusive relationship & rediscovering autonomy
32:00 – First forays into s*x work & kink therapy: reclaiming power
37:04 – Navigating identity, trauma & dangerous patterns
43:06 – The first play party & introduction to BDS* consent
45:12 – How kink therapy and BDS* consent rules helped her heal
49:00 – Defining boundaries, aftercare, and community building
52:00 – Launch of Dalier: combining s*xual healing, somatic therapy, and empowerment tools
56:00 – Why trauma-informed kink matters & intro to somatic release
58:00 – Lighthearted Rants: bo*ty preferences & Uber pet peeves 😅
1:02:00 – Final thoughts on somatic release, therapy techniques, and taking control of your body
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BONUS EPISODE 🚨 In this raw and urgent drop, we break format to talk about what's really going down in LA — and across the country. From ICE raids and media spin to the fear of speaking out, we're confronting the uncomfortable truths behind today’s protests, immigration policies, and our own responsibilities.
This isn’t just about politics — it’s about power, purpose, and protecting our communities. Layla shares how mutual aid is her quiet act of rebellion, while Brian unpacks why being angry might be exactly what’s needed. We don’t have all the answers, but we’re damn sure not staying silent.
👊 Feeling helpless? You’re not. Let’s talk about what we can do — right now.
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⏰ Timestamps:
00:00 – BONUS drop: why this episode matters
01:15 – The fear of getting political
02:45 – Media distortion vs. protest reality
05:30 – ICE tactics in LA — what we’re seeing
09:10 – Family hypocrisy and immigrant scapegoating
13:00 – What Republicans aren't saying out loud
16:40 – The myth of the "model immigrant"
20:30 – Why anger might be your power source
24:10 – Mutual aid in action: Ila’s ride network
27:40 – Should you still support Trumpers in your circle?
31:00 – This is political — and that’s the problem
35:00 – The land, the labor, and the lies we live by
38:00 – The illusion of lawfulness
42:00 – Starfish story: the power of helping one
44:10 – Final thoughts + what you can actually do now
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Layla’s got a new man—and he’s checking boxes she swore she’d never touch. A 32-year-old vanilla, new to non-monogamous relationships, with zero prior partners... and she’s in love.
This episode dives deep into the wild emotional ride of dating your first boyfriend while married, what happens when a pansexual, demisexual, poly powerhouse falls for someone outside the lifestyle, and whether she’s love-bombing or just riding the new relationship energy high.
Brian and Layla explore radical honesty, evolving intimate connections, and how to support someone learning the ropes of a poly lifestyle for the first time. It’s s*xy, real, sometimes messy—and full of insights for anyone navigating open relationships, emotional growth, or that sweet spot where s*x positivity meets vulnerability.
🎙️ Whether you're here for relationship advice, laughs, or just spicy confessions, this is the poly podcast that tells it like it is.💬 Drop your thoughts below: have you ever broken your own rules in love?🔥 Bonus footage in Discord: https://discord.com/invite/TPBUgSxzwb🌶️ Products we love: https://www.themaskedswingers.com/products-we-love⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Cold Open: Why’s Brian mad this time? 0:19 – Layla’s schoolgirl vibes + surprise date reveal 1:01 – “I said I’d never…” Meet James: Layla’s first boyfriend 2:18 – How singing lessons turned into emotional connection 3:52 – First kiss, first makeout… first time for everything 6:09 – Dating someone inexperienced at 32: what could go wrong? 10:32 – Navigating non-monogamous relationships & time imbalance 14:04 – Is Layla love-bombing? A poly reality check 17:03 – Layla’s types exposed: band boys, surfer boys, & awkward charmers 20:01 – Jealousy, open marriage, and radical honesty 24:13 – Discovering s*x as connection 26:03 – Power dynamics, caretaking, and Layla’s inner dom 28:58 – From pansexual dating to demisexual revelations 34:12 – Friends with benefits or emotional landmines? 36:02 – Setting boundaries after blurred lines 40:08 – Brian opens up on sexuality, performance, and party pressure 42:34 – What’s next for Layla’s alt-romance journey? 44:50 – Getting Off: baggy clothes and bad Uber trunk etiquette 47:17 – Final thoughts + the official launch of The Unmasked Project🎧 Subscribe for more stories like this! 🔥 Listen to all of our episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4uOOhjA1H9K5psXdIFBqYz?si=ed807b83c7dc497d&nd=1&dlsi=b7fb3d960bb346da🔥 Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/themaskedswingerspod/🔥 Follow us on TT: https://www.tiktok.com/@themaskedswingers🔥 Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com
This episode of The Masked Swingers is a women empowerment deep dive with a twist! We sit down with Stephanie Megan, host of Broke Girl Therapy, to talk about her life transformation—from broke and heartbroken in LA to podcast queen, cut queen, and non-monogamy advocate.
From dating in LA and exploring open relationships, to navigating voyeur kinks, sexual exploration, and redefining love outside the rules—this is modern love done Stephanie-style: loud, honest, and hilariously messy.
We get into it all: kink culture, cuckquean fantasies, dating app disasters, and the hot mess magic of healing through hookups. If you're into relationship advice, dating tips, or just want to laugh at some wild stories (hi, meth Adderall), you’re in for a treat.
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⏰ Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro & Stephanie’s Life Transformation
03:00 – Dating in LA vs. The Bay
06:45 – Finding Love Through Twitter & SoulSwipe
11:00 – Voyeur Kinks + What It Means to Be a Cut Queen
17:30 – Open Relationships & Cuckquean Fantasies Explained
23:45 – Non-Monogamy Boundaries + Relationship Dynamics
26:40 – Has She Hooked Up With a Woman Yet?
30:00 – Sex Parties, Snacks & Kink Curiosity
34:00 – Redefining Alpha Males & Emotional Intelligence
38:00 – Modern Love, Catholic Guilt & Crying Men
40:30 – Mexican Meth Adderall?! (No, Really)
43:00 – Dating Apps 2025 & Honest Dating Advice
45:30 – Women Empowerment, Communication & Growth
48:00 – Unsolicited Calls, Pet Peeves & Podcasting Rants
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What happens when sobriety meets seduction? In this raw and revealing episode, Layla opens up about her 14-year journey from blackout nights and heroin highs to a higher power named... Britney Spears? Meanwhile, Brian gets real about porn, procrastination, and how quitting wasn’t about frequency — it was about facing himself.From late-night binges to spiritual awakenings, we unpack our most personal addictions and the rituals, breakdowns, and hilarious tools that helped us crawl out. Yes, there’s a vape replacement called “flavored air,” and yes, it’s surprisingly helpful.If you've ever battled a habit, a hang-up, or just wondered "Am I addicted or just attached?" — this one’s for you.🔒 Anonymous support available — DM us for private resources or to connect with an interventionist.🔥 Bonus footage in Discord🌶️ Products we love⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – The guilt of sobriety vs. the comfort of chaos 0:31 – Boobs, pasties & Instagram censorship 1:00 – Can you be addicted to anything... even Lucky Charms? 3:30 – Sports betting & the capitalism of addiction 5:00 – Layla's alcohol addiction story begins 6:45 – Blackouts, MySpace nudes & finding an identity 8:00 – Chaos, DUI & heroin: the spiral 11:00 – The obsession with substances we don’t even like 13:00 – Ginger shots & sobriety rituals 16:00 – 12-step breakdown & choosing Britney as a higher power 19:00 – Can you work the steps at home? Yes. 20:30 – Addictive personalities or just human behavior? 23:00 – Brian’s secret battle with porn 26:00 – Why porn wasn’t about sex 30:00 – How marriage, mindfulness & busy days help 35:00 – Quitting porn: algorithm detox, self-shot clips & control 40:00 – Final thoughts on boredom, busyness & breaking cycles 42:00 – Personal updates, secret boyfriend & Brazil teaser 44:00 – Clap for your pilot, your bus driver, your healing 🖤🎧 Subscribe for more stories like this!🔥 Follow us on IG🔥 Follow us on TT🔥 Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com
This week on The Masked Swingers… the face reveal is just the beginning.
We finally unmask for real—and what comes next? A jaw-dropping confession about helping a couple start a family in a very unexpected way. This isn’t just another relationship podcast clip. It’s the kind of wild tale you can’t make up.
Brian shares how a casual Facebook message turned into a life-changing DNA surprise, the emotional therapy sessions that followed, and what it means to have a biological child you’ve never met. We talk donor siblings, modern parenting, queer families, and the kind of identity questions that hit deep.
Oh—and don’t miss our viral-ready rants on group chats, California traffic, and ungrateful motorcyclists. This one’s got it all.
🎭 Missed Part 1? Catch up here
🔥 Bonus footage in Discord (yes, the donation story!)
Timestamped Highlights
00:00 - Why We Finally Unmasked (And a Hilarious Height Debate)
01:59 - Face Reveal: Why We Took Off the Masks
04:00 - Why He Became a Donor: The Surprising Reason
07:00 - The Facebook Message That Changed Everything
10:30 - The Donor Process: Therapy, Consent & What Surprised Us
14:00 - How Do You Tell Kids They Have Half-Siblings?
16:10 - Did the Donor Ever Meet His Biological Child?
18:00 - When One Donation Turns Into Two
20:00 - Getting Off: Merge Lane Rage & Group Chat Drama
23:30 - What’s Next: New Guests, Unmasked Stories & More
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This week on The Masked Swingers… the masks start coming off.
In Part 1 of our two-part unmasking, we dive into the why behind staying anonymous—and why we’re finally ready to stop. We talk parenting while poly, facing family fallout, what it means to live authentically, and how wearing a literal mask sometimes just made us smaller. It’s vulnerable, hilarious, occasionally sweaty—and just the beginning.
🎭 Come back next week for Part 2 of the Unmasking
✨ Mentioned in the episode: Flintts Mints
Timestamped Highlights
00:00 - Why We’re Finally Unmasking
01:00 - Flint Mints, Parties & a Mouthful of Chaos
04:00 - The Origins of The Masked Swingers
07:15 - Why We Chose to Stay Anonymous
10:00 - Family, Kids & the Fear of Being Seen
13:30 - From Sexuality to Self-Acceptance
17:00 - Are We Still Trying to Make Our Parents Proud?
25:30 - What to Expect in Part 2
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Bella Snow made history as the first Vietnamese trans woman featured in a Sephora campaign — but that’s just the beginning. In this episode, she gets real about her transition, exploring non-monogamy, what it really takes to pass, and the confidence it took to show up fully as herself.
💬 Join us as we talk sex, identity, beauty, and what’s next for this rising star in the lifestyle community.
✨ Mentioned in the episode: Gun Oil Lube
Timestamped Highlights
[00:00] - Welcome Bella!
[05:44] - A Prince Concert, A bathroom, and A lifechanging moment
[10:08] - The hormone journey
[14:13] - Going to the pool and the physical transition
[21:31] - The Her-inal returns!
[22:29] - Entering into Nonmonogamy!
[27:27] - How did you start?
[31:15] - Perfectionism within the Trans community
[35:56] - Usually being the only Trans girl in the room
[37:45] - Firsts! Bi-awakening & Throuple ♥️
[43:00] - PSA: USE THE RIGHT LUBE - Gun Oil Lube
[45:21] - Umm….poppers?
[48:24] - What’s next for Bella Snow?
[52:02] - Getting off: Streaming Service Ads
[53:04] - Getting off: Wave Thank You on the Road
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We're bringing back one of our favorite episodes and just in time for that spring fever 😈 Layla and Brian are joined by the incredible Tia Lynn Campbell ALL ABOUT SQUIRTING! We dive deep into what is it, what it’s not 👀, techniques to try out, and how it can unlock deeper levels of orgasm.
If you want to get our exclusive content, and see behind the masks ;), come join our Discord! ----------
Timestamped Highlights
[00:00] - All about squirting
[5:42] - Welcome Tia!
[7:56] - Is it pee??
[9:21] - Tia’s history with squirting
[10:31] - Reaching deeper orgasms
[16:25] - How to squirt with a penis
[21:41] - The desire to be able to squirt
[24:28] - How do I turn myself on?
[28:15] - The mental component of letting go
[38:58] - Tia’s squirting tips
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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Ti, designer, artist, entrepreneur, Co-Founder of Crave. Crave is the first of its kind, pleasure jewelry. We adored hearing her journey on creating wearable pleasure jewelry, creating unique pieces, and the injustices of the patriarchy!
If you want to get our exclusive content, and see behind the masks ;), come join our Discord! https://discord.gg/Kbj4vqdV
Timestamped Highlights
[00:00] - Welcome Ti & Exciting Announcement!
[05:04] - Inception of Pleasure Jewelry, Incognito, and Crave
[12:48] - Lead with Emotion
[18:00] - A GIFT?!
[21:19] - The Crave First Date Litmus Test
[24:00] - Crowdfunded Pleasure Toys
[26:19] - The Duet
[31:22] - The Toilet Tangent
[42:51] - Censorship in media
[46:57] - Building a brand in spite of it all
[51:12] - Bringing back the archival pieces
[54:29] - Getting off: Eating in bed
[55:51] - Getting off: Gen Z slang
Wanna learn more about Crave?
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Mentioned in the episode:
Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men
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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We have a very exciting announcement! We’ve also been seeing so much more ENM on film and television. Do they do the lifestyle justice? Is this how the Vanilla world sees us? Let’s talk about it!
If you want to get our exclusive content, and see behind the masks ;), come join our Discord!
Timestamped Highlights
[00:00] - Our Announcement!
[02:43] - ENM in Film and Television
[06:38] - Spoiler Warning! White Lotus Clip #1
[13:38] - White Lotus Clip #2
[20:23] - Dying for Sex Clip
[29:06] - Brazil update
[32:53] - Layla’s new goal
[33:44] - Speed Dating with Layla
[34:32] - Getting off
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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week we are revisiting one of our favorite episodes, and Brian and Layla tackle all your questions! Does size REALLY matter? Are you a part of the ugly couple? How do I find my community?! We loved hearing from you! If you have any questions you want Brian and Layla to answer, DM or email us!
Timestamped Highlights
[00:00] - Answering your burning questions
[01:34] - Does Brian hate Blondes?
[05:18] - Does size REALLY matter?
[11:56] - Are WE the ugly couple?
[19:20] - Where are ALL of the single men?!
[26:15] - Should I stop overnights for one of my partners?
[31:09] - How do I find my ENM community?
[37:23]- Some comments are bananas
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