Your spouse doesn’t just need your time — they need your best energy.In today’s episode of The Married Life, Joe and Krissy talk about why so many Christian couples feel drained, distracted, and disconnected — even when they spend time together. From overworking and phone addiction to caffeine crashes and Netflix binges, this video will help you protect your energy, recharge your connection, and rebuild intimacy in your marriage.Learn how to identify “energy suckers,” set healthy rhythms for rest and fun, and show up present and passionate for your spouse. Whether you’re a busy parent, ministry leader, or entrepreneur, this episode will help you get your spark back.🫶 Join our Skool community for deeper conversations, coaching, and connection with other faith-filled couples:https://www.skool.com/themarriedlife=============================📕 Free Book (Just pay shipping)https://shop.themarriedlife.org/the-blue-prints-of-marriage/=============================🚨Book a Free call:https://calendly.com/themarriedlife/book-your-discovery-call=============================👉 Subscribe for more faith-based marriage content!00:00 Your spouse needs energy, not just time00:30 Why time isn’t the problem01:40 Green/Yellow/Red energy zones + power nap02:50 Caffeine traps and the “nappuccino”04:10 Energy suckers: phone, streaming, news, overwork06:00 Rest rhythms: sleep, Sabbath, workout, prayer07:30 Protect evenings for connection + action steps

Struggling to stay intimate? In this episode, Joe and Krissy share The Sex Calendar that saves your marriage—a simple, biblical, and practical way for Christian couples to schedule intimacy, protect connection, and stop letting busyness win. We cover the traditional sex calendar, spontaneous within a plan, theme nights, block time, alternate initiation, 3-2-1 plan, weekend focus, and monthly review so you can rebuild intimacy, prioritize God, spouse, and Sabbath, and make date night happen. Perfect for busy couples needing marriage help, time management, and Christian relationship advice.🫶 Join our Skool community for deeper conversations, coaching, and connection with other faith-filled couples:https://www.skool.com/themarriedlife=============================📕 Free Book (Just pay shipping)https://shop.themarriedlife.org/the-blue-prints-of-marriage/=============================🚨Book a Free call:https://calendly.com/themarriedlife/book-your-discovery-call=============================👉 Subscribe for more faith-based marriage content!00:00 Why You’re Not Intimate Anymore00:35 Why Scheduling Sex Works01:30 Traditional Calendar + Code Words03:20 Spontaneous Within a Plan04:40 Theme Nights and Creative Ideas06:20 Frequency, Block Time, Initiation09:30 3-2-1, Weekend, Monthly Review + Next Steps

Is your relationship suffering? 🤔 This trending video discusses how your calendar impacts your marriage. Joe and Krissy share some marriage counseling tips on time management and how to manage time effectively.🫶 Join our Skool community for deeper conversations, coaching, and connection with other faith-filled couples:https://www.skool.com/themarriedlife=============================📕 Free Book (Just pay shipping)https://shop.themarriedlife.org/the-blue-prints-of-marriage/=============================🚨Book a Free call:https://calendly.com/themarriedlife/book-your-discovery-call=============================👉 Subscribe for more faith-based marriage content!00:00 Calendar Can Kill or Save Your Marriage00:45 One Shared Calendar — Write It Down02:30 Schedule What Matters First03:50 Intentional Dates + 100 Questions Resource05:40 Sabbath Rest on the Calendar06:50 Schedule Your Priorities: God, Spouse, Kids07:50 Taming Kids’ Activities to Protect Couple Time

Is your relationship suffering? Prioritize intimacy by intentionally managing your time and blocking out distractions. Solid communication is key for building stronger relationships and achieving relationship goals. Learn how to say 'no' to things that drain your time and energy.
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Most couples fight about money, sex, or kids, but the root cause is often a lack of active listening. True listening is an act of love that enhances communication and strengthens your relationship. Increase intimacy and seek more love by prioritizing your spouse's voice in the midst of relationship problems.🫶 Join our Skool community for deeper conversations, coaching, and connection with other faith-filled couples: https://www.skool.com/themarriedlife=============================📕 Free Book (Just pay shipping)https://shop.themarriedlife.org/the-blue-prints-of-marriage/=============================🚨Book a call: https://calendly.com/themarriedlife/book-your-discovery-call=============================👉 Subscribe for more faith-based marriage content!0:00 The Real Reason We Fight1:12 God’s 3 Step Blueprint James 1:194:28 Understand First The 60 30 10 Rule8:41 Reacting vs Responding Build Your EQ14:16 Stop Interrupting Try the Paraphrase Tool22:24 Talk Less Connect More Proverbs 18:225:03 Distraction Detox Nightly Listening Ritual

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We're getting real about the bedroom today, discussing some shocking and frustrating experiences! This podcast is for anyone navigating the world of sex in marriage. Let's talk honestly and help you avoid major misunderstandings, focusing on emotional connection and intimacy.

We're sharing the 5 biggest surprises we discovered about physical intimacy in marriage - the good, the awkward, and the game-changing truths that would have saved us so much confusion in our early years.

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✓ The one thing that changed everything for us

This isn't just about technique - it's about building intimacy God's way, with honesty, grace, and a lot of laughter along the way!

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In this episode of The Married Life, Joe breaks down the 4 pillars of powerful, Christ-centered communication that could make or break your marriage.You'll learn:Common communication pitfalls (interrupting, defensiveness, blame)How to express your needs without attacking your spouseTools for active listening & navigating conflict with graceWhy biblical principles like James 1:19 and Ephesians 4:2 matter in your conversations00:00 - Why Communication is the #1 Marriage Struggle 00:20 - The 4 Pillars of Communication 00:45 - Common Pitfalls: Interrupting, Defensiveness, Blame 01:48 - The One Habit That Changes Everything: Active Listening 02:40 - How to Express Needs Without Attacking 03:43 - Using “I” Statements & Speaking with Gentleness 04:57 - Compromise Over Control & The Power of Forgiveness 05:43 - Your Next Step to Strengthen Communication

Is your marriage marked by growing distance, even with love still present? This feeling of disconnection is a common issue, and the video offers space for thoughtful reflection. Gain insights into the potential causes and rediscover the relationship you cherish. Consider how dating advice can help rekindle the flame and foster lasting love advice.

✅ Recommit to your covenant

✅ Practice daily forgiveness

✅ Speak life with affirmation

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✅ Invite God into your connection

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It's easy to think that being a good dad means providing material possessions, but your kids want something else entirely. They want you to show up and be present. If you're crushing it at work but coasting at home, it's time to rethink your priorities and focus on why spending time with your child is important.
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If your marriage feels stuck, it's time to address your habits. This week, focus on building systems for connection and communication, rather than just setting goals. Use these practical steps to build better habits and spark intimacy.

If your marriage feels stuck, it might not be a love problem—it might be a habit problem. In this video, we break down 4 powerful, biblically-rooted habit strategies that can radically transform your marriage—starting this week.💥 From identity-driven action to habit stacking, we’ll show you how small, intentional changes can lead to big breakthroughs in connection, communication, and intimacy.👫 Whether your marriage feels distant or just needs a refresh, this episode will give you practical steps to build systems that actually work—without burnout.🧠 You’ll learn:Why identity matters more than outcomesHow to build systems, not just set goalsThe power of habit stacking in everyday lifeHow to design your marriage habits to be obvious, easy, and satisfying=============================📕 Free Book (Just pay shipping)https://shop.themarriedlife.org/the-blue-prints-of-marriage/=============================🚨Book a call: https://calendly.com/themarriedlife/book-your-discovery-call=============================🚨 Now Open! Our Skool Community is officially live!https://www.skool.com/the-married-life-8800=============================Connect with us! =============================Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.orgIG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us===========================Subscribe and Listen to the Married Life Podcast HERE:📱===========================➡︎YT: @TheMarriedLifeWithJoeAndKrissy➡︎Apple: https://shorturl.at/blnds➡︎Spotify: https://shorturl.at/FHt1D

😘FREE 34 Questions To Better Sex Tonight 🌶️=============================https://the-married-life.ck.page/a06c979ec6What if we told you there's ONE tool that could radically change your marriage?In this powerful conversation, Joe from The Married Life sits down with Casey from Marriage365 to uncover the four-step apology that leads to real healing, and the weekly marriage business meeting that eliminates 50% of marital conflict. Whether you're in crisis or just want to take your relationship to the next level, these tools are practical, biblical, and proven.✅ Learn how to apologize in a way that actually brings reconciliation✅ Discover the mindset shift every couple needs✅ Stop being reactive and start leading your marriage intentionally✅ Strengthen your emotional and physical connection🔗 Resources Mentioned:Marriage365: [insert website link]Join The Married Life Cruise: [insert sign-up link]👉 Hit Subscribe for more real, raw, and faith-filled marriage advice!📢 Share this video with a couple who needs encouragement today.📝 Drop a comment: Which tool are you going to try this week?=============================🌶️ Our Favorite Toys=============================https://www.amazon.com/shop/themarriedlife=============================😘Position Cards:=============================https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/shop/?aff=35=============================😘FREE 52 Date Night Ideas=============================https://the-married-life.ck.page/7e8d9e46f4=============================🗣️FREE Communication PDF=============================https://the-married-life.ck.page/8bf92e6d90=============================⚡️FREE Date Night Questions PDF=============================https://the-married-life.ck.page/4a2bd7b8bdhttps://www.covenantspice.com/?ref=cuockkyshttp://positioncards.com/tmlhttps://www.amazon.com/shop/themarriedlife===========================Connect with us! =============================Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.orgIG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us===========================Subscribe and Listen to the Married Life Podcast HERE:📱 ===========================➡︎YT: @TheMarriedLifeWithJoeAndKrissy➡︎Apple: https://shorturl.at/blnds➡︎Spotify: https://shorturl.at/FHt1D===========================Chapters 00:00 – Intro: The #1 Marriage Tool00:44 – Why Couples Crave Love but Sabotage It01:52 – The Problem with Church Advice Alone03:41 – The 4-Step Apology Framework06:12 – Real Examples of a Healing Apology09:00 – What NOT to Say When Apologizing10:11 – Rebuilding Trust After Hurt12:13 – Forgiveness: Head, Hands, Heart, Habit15:03 – From Criticism to Connection17:30 – The Weekly Marriage Business Meeting20:46 – Scheduling Sex and Connection Time23:32 – Managing Busy Schedules as a Couple25:31 – Living By the Calendar as a Team27:10 – Intentionality vs. Jungle Ball28:42 – Why Curiosity Still Matters in Marriage31:01 – Are You Modeling a Marriage You’d Want for Your Kids?33:38 – Passion, Priorities & Grossing Out Your Kids36:00 – The Church’s Lack of Support for Marriages39:50 – Why Joe & Krissy Started The Married Life42:30 – Final Encouragement + Resources

😘Better Sex Tonight 🌶️=============================https://the-married-life.ck.page/a06c979ec6Curious about what churches don't tell you about sex? Watch this video to learn more about this important topic.💡 Here’s what you’ll learn:✅ The secret to warming her up like a crockpot (instead of a microwave!)✅ How to use AI to craft the perfect texts, love notes, and date ideas✅ Why foreplay starts in the MORNING—not just at night✅ How small, intentional actions throughout the day lead to more passion=============================😘The Married Life Cruise 🚢=============================https://form.123formbuilder.com/6785621/married-life-cruise=============================🌶️ Our Favorite Toys=============================https://www.amazon.com/shop/themarriedlife=============================😘Position Cards:=============================https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/shop/?aff=35=============================😘FREE 52 Date Night Ideas=============================https://the-married-life.ck.page/7e8d9e46f4=============================🗣️FREE Communication PDF=============================https://the-married-life.ck.page/8bf92e6d90=============================⚡️FREE Date Night Questions PDF=============================https://the-married-life.ck.page/4a2bd7b8bdhttps://www.covenantspice.com/?ref=cuockkyshttp://positioncards.com/tmlhttps://www.amazon.com/shop/themarriedlife===========================Connect with us! =============================Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.orgIG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us===========================Subscribe and Listen to the Married Life Podcast HERE:📱 ===========================➡︎YT: @TheMarriedLifeWithJoeAndKrissy➡︎Apple: https://shorturl.at/blnds➡︎Spotify: https://shorturl.at/FHt1D===========================Chapters 0:00 - Why Christian sex is a big deal in 2025 1:55 - The orgasm gap: what women need to know 6:02 - How to talk to your husband about sex 10:03 - A man’s perspective: wanting his wife’s pleasure 14:04 - Why body confidence changes the bedroom 24:58 - Understanding differing sex drives 36:08 - What’s allowed in the Christian bedroom? 49:56 - Daily practice = better sex life

Discover an all-day foreplay plan to get your wife in the mood. This guide will help you set the mood and create intimacy with your partner.💡 Here’s what you’ll learn:✅ The secret to warming her up like a crockpot (instead of a microwave!)✅ How to use AI to craft the perfect texts, love notes, and date ideas✅ Why foreplay starts in the MORNING—not just at night✅ How small, intentional actions throughout the day lead to more passion=============================😘The Married Life Cruise 🚢=============================https://form.123formbuilder.com/6785621/married-life-cruise

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In this video, we address the common question: Can CHRISTIANS really have AMAZING sex? Watch to find out our thoughts on this topic! Looking to deepen your intimacy with your partner? In this video, we reveal secrets to deeper intimacy in your relationship. Don't miss out on these relationship tips! This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= 😘Free Sex Question Guide ============================= https://the-married-life.ck.page/a06c979ec6 ============================= 😘Position Cards: ============================= https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/shop/?aff=35 ============================= ⚡️FREE Date Night Questions PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/themarriedlife/dzxz2r830v ============================= 🗣️FREE Communication PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication ============================= 🌶️ Our Favorite Toys ============================= https://www.amazon.com/shop/themarriedlife =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.org IG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to the The Married Life Podcast HERE:📱 =========================== ➡︎YT: @TheMarriedLifeWithJoeAndKrissy ➡︎Apple: https://shorturl.at/blnds ➡︎Spotify: https://shorturl.at/FHt1D ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ =========================== 00:00 - Intro 00:45 - How To Spice It Up With Curiosity. 04:42 - Should We Use Toys? 08:21 - Sex Games 15:21 - How To Have Open Communication About Sex 😘Free Sex Question Guide https://the-married-life.ck.page/a06c979ec6 26:05 - A Healthy View On Sex 43:00 - Sex Calendar

Dating can slow down as you become parents. But it doesn't have to stop! Here are some dating hacks to keep your love on fire 🔥 This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= ⚡️FREE Date Night Questions PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/themarriedlife/dzxz2r830v ============================= 😘Position Cards: ============================= https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/shop/?aff=35 ============================= 🗣️FREE Communication PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication ============================= 🌶️ Our Favorite Toys ============================= https://www.amazon.com/shop/themarriedlife =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.org IG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to the Think Media Podcast HERE:📱 =========================== ➡︎YT: @TheMarriedLifeWithJoeAndKrissy ➡︎Apple: https://shorturl.at/blnds ➡︎Spotify: https://shorturl.at/FHt1D ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ =========================== 00:00 - Intro 00:20 - Logistics of Dating 00:27 - 3 Points to Make It Happen 01:00 - Arrange Childcare 02:18 - Communication and Reflection

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