Ever found yourself in the middle of an argument with your spouse thinking, “Wait… how did we even get here?” What started as something small turns into feeling like you’re on opposite teams. The truth is—your spouse isn’t the enemy.
In this episode, we unpack three powerful shifts that will help you stop fighting against each other and start fighting for your marriage:
🏀 Seeing your spouse as your God-given teammate
🛡 Recognizing that the real enemy is division
🔁 Choosing team identity daily
With practical tools like daily “soul care” check-ins, timeouts, and prayer, you’ll learn how to turn moments of tension into opportunities to grow stronger together.
🎧 Whether your last argument was about dishes, finances, or something deeper—this episode will help you reframe conflict and build unity in your marriage.
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Pastor of Her Heart: A Job Too Big to Do Alone
What if your wife could say, “I feel spiritually safe with him”?
In this episode, Kevin unpacks what it really means to be the Pastor of Her Heart—and why it’s not a role you were meant to carry alone.
This isn’t about being perfect or preaching sermons. It’s about showing up with spiritual strength and emotional presence.
You’ll learn:
How to lead your wife spiritually without pressure
Why emotional safety is the foundation of spiritual leadership
3 simple ways to start pastoring her heart today
How to stop guessing and start growing as a Kingdom man
🎯 Ready to lead with confidence and consistency?
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Most men were never taught how to pray with their wife.
It feels awkward. Intimidating. Maybe even unnecessary.
But here’s the truth—spiritual leadership doesn’t start with a sermon. It starts with surrender.
In this episode, Kevin breaks down what it really means to cover your wife in prayer—without feeling fake, frozen, or “not good enough.”
You’ll learn:
Why prayer isn’t just spiritual—it’s deeply relational
The difference between praying for her and praying with her
A simple way to start—even if it’s just one sentence
You don’t need to be a pastor.
You don’t need the perfect words.
You just need the willingness to lead.
This isn’t about performance—it’s about presence.
💬 Ready to take the first step?
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As 2024 comes to a close, it’s time to start thinking about how to make 2025 your best year yet! In this episode of The Reverence Restored Podcast with Kevin and Bree, we dive deep into the strategies, tools, and mindsets you need to set yourself up for success in the new year. Whether you're looking to crush your personal goals, grow your business, or take your productivity to the next level, this episode is packed with actionable insights and expert tips to help you plan for a winning 2025. ------------------------------------- find us on all social platforms @kevinandbree
✨ Ready to make this holiday season your BEST yet? ✨
The holidays are meant to be joyful, but we all know they can also be stressful. In the latest episode of the Reverence Restored Podcast, Kevin and Bree share their 7 Must-Do's for a Stress-free, Thriving Holiday Season that will help you embrace the season with peace, a plan, and a whole lot less stress.
🌟 Why listen?
✅ Boost your holiday happiness
✅ Manage stress like a pro
✅ Stay connected and grounded with what really matters
Don’t miss these essential tips for making this holiday season truly special — because YOU deserve it! 🎧💫
Have your ever felt like the weight a marriage is about to crush you? You and your spouse just can't get aligned on anything and you are about to tap out! We have been there too, but just like getting stronger in the gym requires intentionality, focus and commitment to the process. So does Marriage! This quick teaching breaks down 5 back squat techniques that we can also apply to building a strong marriage. reverencerestored.com @kevinandbree
Join Kevin and Bree Bailey as they sit down for a deeply moving conversation with guests and good friends, Kap and Joy Chatfield. Buckle up as they discuss God’s miraculous work when two imperfect people come together under His perfect design for marriage.
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In this powerful episode of the Reverence Restored Podcast, Kevin and Bree sit down with Turner and Jade Schenzel to explore their journey through unimaginable loss and resilience. Just ten days after their wedding, Turner’s parents were tragically killed in a car accident, thrusting the young couple into a challenging new reality. Together, they share how their faith and love helped them navigate grief, redefine family, and build a marriage rooted in hope and purpose. This is a story of profound loss, but also of unwavering strength and the healing power of faith.
Next on Reverence Restored Podcast with Kevin and Bree, we're diving into a jaw-dropping story where every twist and turn seems to defy hope—until God’s plan rises above it all.
Join us as Josh and Christi Furlong share their story of God’s divine purpose overcoming ALL obstacles, no matter how impossible they seem. You won't want to miss this faith-filled journey that proves His plan is always greater!
Get ready to witness how God works miracles beyond our wildest expectations.
Sam and Mandy share a powerful story of trusting jesus through infertility. And post recording, they have an amazing new baby to celebrate. They also share Sam's story about battling multiple addictions and what that looked like as he pursued a spouse and become a husband. Sam and Mandy now lead a men's discipleship program walking alongside those that want to allow jesus to break the chains.
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Matt and Lindy represent our description of a power couple. Their marriage is a beautiful picture of commitment, determination, and purpose even through some of the roughest seasons.
When priorities got mixed up it almost cost them everything, but they took action and scrapped it all in order to build back up. They went on to build a highly successful enterprise from the ground up, and are in the process of launching a brand new business all while raising a family with purpose in a world that so desperately needs direction.
In this episode, we are joined by Pastor Todd and Denise Doxzon, the inspiring founders of Love Church in Omaha, NE. Todd's journey from playing in the NFL to wrestling with sin, identity issues and navigating the chaos of this world to finding Jesus and planting a church is nothing short of remarkable. Pastor Todd and Denise share their powerful testimony of how faith reshaped their lives, leading them to establish a community rooted in love, hope, and purpose. Tune in for a powerful conversation about overcoming adversity, discovering true identity in Christ, and the incredible impact of living out your calling.
What happens when you put a performance based perfectionist and an independant warrior under one roof?
Kyle and Macy Kasperbauer share their incredible story about the trials they have faced in marriage as they both have pursued the highest level of excellence in their respective fields. Who knew that when things hit rock bottom, an uncomfortable moment of action and THE Denver Broncos would be the catalyst to a legacy that is being built?
Matt and April Jackson have an amazing marriage story. After 15 years of marriage they found themselves in place they never expected. They were great friends living in a marriage like so many of us, our own way. when disaster struck, chaos compiled leading to a life or death decision. Thankfully, they chose life and made one call that would change the entire course of their legacy. You wont want to miss this epic, hope giving conversation.
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In this episode we discuss the importance of communication and sharing expectations in your marriage and nearly every other type of relationship.
The three areas we focus on in this episode are:
1. Why does our quality time look different?
2. Why its important to communicate and set expectations when we are together
3. How to communicate and create a plan when we are not together.
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There is a war being waged against your marriage.
Trust us, we have been there. In our first 12 years of marriage, we barely survived 7 years of counseling, 10 months of separation, and nearly $100K on divorce proceedings.
But then by the grace of God, some practical help, and a lot of hard work, everything changed.
Now, what was a broken marriage, has been fully restored.
And we are here to tell you that you are not alone in this battle. We are here to fight with you!
We share practical principles about, communication and connection, trust and forgiveness, that if applied, can save you the pain and heartache we endured for years. By following our journey you will be investing in a marriage that matters, giving you the weapons you need to win the war for the legacy you are leaving behind.