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The Leader in You
Connect your people; transform you culture. With Dr. Lola Gershfeld
69 episodes
2 days ago
In this heartfelt episode of The Leader in You, Dr. Lola Gershfeld speaks with Niamh Hannan, EmC Certified Trainer in Ireland, about what it truly means to bring people home—to themselves, to one another, and to emotional safety at work. Fresh from leading a two-day EmC Master Class in Ireland, Niamh shares moving stories of leaders and coaches who discovered how to transform disconnection into trust and teamwork through the Emotional Connection (EmC) process. Together, Lola and Niamh explore...
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In this heartfelt episode of The Leader in You, Dr. Lola Gershfeld speaks with Niamh Hannan, EmC Certified Trainer in Ireland, about what it truly means to bring people home—to themselves, to one another, and to emotional safety at work. Fresh from leading a two-day EmC Master Class in Ireland, Niamh shares moving stories of leaders and coaches who discovered how to transform disconnection into trust and teamwork through the Emotional Connection (EmC) process. Together, Lola and Niamh explore...
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The Leader in You
69. Bringing People Home
In this heartfelt episode of The Leader in You, Dr. Lola Gershfeld speaks with Niamh Hannan, EmC Certified Trainer in Ireland, about what it truly means to bring people home—to themselves, to one another, and to emotional safety at work. Fresh from leading a two-day EmC Master Class in Ireland, Niamh shares moving stories of leaders and coaches who discovered how to transform disconnection into trust and teamwork through the Emotional Connection (EmC) process. Together, Lola and Niamh explore...
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3 days ago
40 minutes

The Leader in You
68. When Conflict Throws a Curveball
In this episode, Polina and Dr. Lola unpack what happens when workplace conflicts take an unexpected turn — what they call “the curveball.” Whether it’s defensiveness, shutdown, or denial, these moments often derail even our best intentions to connect. Together, they explore how emotional disconnection fuels these reactions and how leaders, managers, and teammates can use the EmC process to slow things down, recognize protective behaviors, and create safety for real conversations to happen. T...
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1 week ago
22 minutes

The Leader in You
67. A FIGHT no one EXPECTED in Aerospace Engineering - ATD OrgDev Day 2
What happens when two aerospace engineers just can’t get along—and a manager decides not to force a resolution? In this insightful and entertaining episode from Day 2 of the ATD OrgDev Conference, Dr. Lola Gershfeld, Polina Marian, and guest Matt Gjertsen with Better Everyday Studios uncover how a workplace conflict turned into an unexpected story of connection, understanding, and emotional growth. Matt shares a true story about two teammates who went from frustration to friendship—not throug...
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2 weeks ago
17 minutes

The Leader in You
66. Yes, And - ATD OrgDev Day 1
In this lively conference edition of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and her daughter and co-host, Polina Marian, bring listeners behind the scenes at the ATD OrgDev Conference in Houston — joined by special guest Beth Messick, leadership coach and advisory board member for OrgDev. Together, they unpack key insights from keynote speaker Galen Emanuele, who used the principles of improv — especially the “Yes, And” mindset — to illustrate how openness, flexibility, and emotional p...
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2 weeks ago
21 minutes

The Leader in You
65. Stuck, Stressed, or Disconnected? There’s a Way Out.
When conflict and loneliness take over your workplace, your body and mind pay the price. In this episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina Marian explore the powerful link between emotional connection and well-being — drawing from the landmark Harvard Happiness Study and decades of attachment science. Discover how the EmC Process helps you repair relationships, restore safety, and reawaken joy at work. Because when we feel seen, supported, and secure, everything — from performance to health — be...
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3 weeks ago
23 minutes

The Leader in You
64. THE SECRET Ingredient to Team TRANSFORMATION
What if the key to transforming your team’s culture, connection, and performance wasn’t another system or strategy—but something far more human? In this episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina Marian reveal the secret ingredient to true team transformation: self-awareness. Drawing from real data in the Team Emotional Safety Assessment (TESA), they share how one company’s 13% increase in self-awareness led to stronger relationships, fewer conflicts, and measurable improvements in emotional safe...
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1 month ago
27 minutes

The Leader in You
63. L-TEMPO - Turning Conflict into Connection at Work and Beyond
In this episode of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina explore a powerful new framework for understanding conflict and restoring balance - L-TEMPO. Just like dancing, relationships move to a rhythm, and emotions are the music that guides us. El TEMPO stands for: L – Longing for connectionT – TriggersE – EmotionsM – MeaningP – Protective behaviorsO – OrganizingTogether, Lola and Polina break down each step, showing how teams and leaders can use this simple yet transformati...
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1 month ago
24 minutes

The Leader in You
62. Pac-Man at Work-Breaking the Pursuer-Withdrawer Cycle with Niamh Hannan
In this episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and psychologist Niamh Hannan unpack what happens when workplace dynamics feel like a game of Pac-Man—one person chasing, the other running away. They explore how this destructive pattern shows up in meetings, teams, and leadership, and why it leaves everyone anxious, stuck, and disconnected. More importantly, they reveal how the EmC Reconnection Process helps teams step out of the game and into genuine connection, trust, and collaboration. From de-escalati...
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1 month ago
35 minutes

The Leader in You
61. CHARLIE KIRK's ASSASSINATION and what we have to say about it
In this episode of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina Marian respond to the shocking news of Charlie Kirk’s assassination — not with politics or speculation, but with a focus on what truly matters: how leaders, teams, and organizations can process collective trauma and its ripple effects in the workplace. We introduce the Emotional Connection (EmC) process, a step-by-step method to: De-escalate emotions and create emotional safetyRestructure conversations to repair relat...
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1 month ago
32 minutes

The Leader in You
60. Thinking Like a Researcher - Dr. Alaina Szlachta on Data, Mindset, and Measuring What Matters
In this engaging episode of The Leader in You Podcast, we sit down with Dr. Alaina Szlachta, author of Measurement and Evaluation on a Shoestring. Alaina shares her inspiring journey from corporate life to entrepreneurship, and why thinking like a researcher can transform the way we make decisions—whether in leadership, learning, or life. Together, we explore: Why data isn’t just about numbers, but about noticing patterns and insights.How fear of failure often hides behind resistance to measu...
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1 month ago
57 minutes

The Leader in You
59. The Secret to Healthy Team Relationships
In this episode of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld reveals the secret to creating and sustaining healthy team relationships. Drawing from attachment science and the Emotional Connection (EmC) process, she shares how teams can move beyond surface-level communication to build trust, resilience, and true emotional safety. You’ll discover: Why traditional conflict resolution misses the heart of the problem.How to recognize the hidden “dance of disconnection” that derails teams.The p...
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2 months ago
41 minutes

The Leader in You
58. When Teams Miss Each Other - Breaking Free from Emotional Disconnect at Work
In this week’s episode of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld takes on some of the most common — and challenging — questions about team dynamics and workplace relationships. What happens when one teammate thrives on emotional connection while another prefers to stay task-focused? How do we stop labeling colleagues as “too emotional” or “too shut down”? And what’s the one small action you can take today to infuse your team with safety, trust, and connection? Drawing on attachment sci...
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2 months ago
32 minutes

The Leader in You
57. Team Is Not Fine - How to Spot Disconnection and Repair It Before It’s Too Late
When a team feels “off,” the damage goes deeper than missed deadlines—it erodes trust, safety, and connection. In this solo episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld reveals how to spot the subtle signs of disconnection, shift the “emotional music” that drives team dynamics, and repair relationships before it’s too late. Learn how leaders can create a culture where people feel safe, valued, and ready to collaborate. The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture w...
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2 months ago
19 minutes

The Leader in You
56. Cheaters at the Coldplay Concert
In this riveting and emotionally charged episode, dive into a viral workplace scandal that rocked social media—the infamous kiss-cam moment at a Coldplay concert featuring the CEO and Chief People Officer of Astronomer, both of whom resigned. Licensed therapist Jack Gershfeld joins to explore the deeper emotional and relational dynamics behind infidelity, both in personal relationships and in organizational settings. The episode explores the three phases of infidelity (distraction, substituti...
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3 months ago
41 minutes

The Leader in You
55. Holding Two Truths - The Hidden Superpower of Emotionally Attuned Leaders
In this insightful episode of The Leader in You, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina dive into the transformative power of holding two truths—a leadership practice rooted in emotional attunement and attachment science. When workplace conflict arises, the common instinct is to choose sides or find fault. But what if the real solution lies in honoring both emotional truths simultaneously? Together, they explore how this skill helps leaders stay balanced, dissolve defensiveness, and turn disconnection...
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3 months ago
22 minutes

The Leader in You
54. Becoming Better - Healing, Mindsets & the Inner Work of Leadership with Ryan Gottfredson
In this powerful episode of The Leader in You, Dr. Lola and Polina sit down with bestselling author and leadership expert Ryan Gottfredson to explore what it really takes to become a better leader—and a better human. Drawing from his new book Becoming Better: The Groundbreaking Science of Personal Transformation, Ryan shares his personal journey of healing, the difference between horizontal and vertical development, and how trauma—even unrecognized-can limit emotional intelligence and self-aw...
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3 months ago
45 minutes

The Leader in You
53. The Seven Coaching Styles Every Leader Needs - A Conversation with OwlHub's David Morelli and Alexandria Scobee
What if your leadership challenges are hidden in the coaching styles you don’t use? In this engaging and insightful episode, we’re joined by David Morelli and Alexandria Scobee from OwlHub to explore their groundbreaking Respect Coaching Styles framework—a powerful tool that helps leaders and teams unlock human connection, improve communication, and drive performance. We talk about how the seven coaching styles (Rallyer, Educator, Strategist, Provocateur, Explorer, Confidant, and Transformer)...
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4 months ago
41 minutes

The Leader in You
52. Slice It Thinner & Catch the Bullet - Two Techniques to Create a Bonding Moment
In this powerful episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina Marian introduce two transformative techniques—“Slice It Thinner” and “Catch the Bullet”—designed to help leaders and teams foster emotional safety and connection in the workplace. You’ll learn: Why people often shut down or react in conflict—and how to slow things down and make room for vulnerability.How “slicing it thinner” helps transform emotionally impossible conversations into small, doable moments of connection.What it means to “c...
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4 months ago
22 minutes

The Leader in You
51. The Shift From Team Player to People Leader
Making the leap from doing the work to leading the people—it’s one of the toughest transitions in any career. In this eye-opening episode of The Leader in You, Polina and Dr. Lola talk with Matt Gjersten, founder of Better Everyday Studios, about what really happens when high performers step into management. Together, they explore the emotional hurdles new leaders face, like delegation, feeling valued, and navigating team dynamics. You’ll learn: Why being great at your job doesn’t mean you’re...
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4 months ago
44 minutes

The Leader in You
50. We Resolved the Conflict Between Elon Musk and President Trump
In this powerful episode of The Leader in You, we unpack the explosive conflict between Elon Musk and President Trump—and more importantly, what it reveals about leadership, emotions, and disconnection at the highest levels. Join Dr. Lola and Polina as they take you behind the scenes of what seemed like a political feud, using the Emotional Connection (EmC) process to explore the emotional undercurrents behind this very public fallout. This episode isn't just about two high-profile leaders—it...
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4 months ago
26 minutes

The Leader in You
In this heartfelt episode of The Leader in You, Dr. Lola Gershfeld speaks with Niamh Hannan, EmC Certified Trainer in Ireland, about what it truly means to bring people home—to themselves, to one another, and to emotional safety at work. Fresh from leading a two-day EmC Master Class in Ireland, Niamh shares moving stories of leaders and coaches who discovered how to transform disconnection into trust and teamwork through the Emotional Connection (EmC) process. Together, Lola and Niamh explore...