This week, I’m chatting with recent bride Tamera, who shares the story of her and Josh’s beautiful villa wedding.
Tamera opens up about the highs, the hiccups, and the lessons learned along the way. From bridal party challenges to trusting her vendors and creating a day that truly felt like them.
We chat about:
💜 How she and Josh went from co-workers who didn’t speak to soulmates (and the night out that changed everything)
💜 Their vineyard proposal story in Martinborough
💜 Why she chose to hold their wedding at a private villa and how she made it work logistically
💜 The “old money” inspired styling and the personal touches behind her colour palette
💜 How hiring a coordinator (George & Co) completely changed her wedding experience
💜 The story behind her custom Paper Swan gown and her advice for wedding dress shopping
💜 Navigating changing friendships and what to keep in mind when choosing bridesmaids
💜 Planning a smooth wedding-day timeline to spend more time with guests
💜 Her honest take on budget blowouts, wedding week prep, and the moments she’ll never forget
💜 The tips she wishes every bride knew, from makeup trials to planning around your cycle and letting go of control
...and so much more!
🎧 It’s such a warm, candid chat full of practical advice and real, relatable moments. Let me know what you think of this episode!
Below you can find the handles for all T & J’s incredible vendors. Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Vendors:
Photography: @pappedyouphotography
Content Creation: @nosyparker__
Coordination: @georgeandcoevents
Florals: @thistle_avenue
Hair & Makeup: @jaymiejarvis.makeupartist @daynamaree.hair from @duo_styling
Food: @thecraftedandco
Signage: @eversoprettyevents
Venue: Private property
Dress: @paperswanbride
Ceremony Musician: @vividstrings
DJ + Music: @poksmusic
Celebrant: @forever.knot
Bridal Rings: @thediamondshop
Furniture Hire: @thevintagepartynz
Thank you to @nuzest for supporting this episode.
In this episode of The Kiwi Wedding Podcast, I chat with Aamina from Layaz Jewellery about creating meaningful, bespoke pieces that are as personal as the love stories behind them.
We explore her journey from teaching to launching her own jewellery brand, her favourite gemstones, and the timeless luxury she brings to every design.
We chat about:
💜 How Aamina went from aspiring lawyer and teacher to launching Layaz Jewellery and sharing a family legacy
💜 The process of designing bespoke pieces tailored to a client’s story, style, and personality
💜 Tips for choosing engagement rings and wedding bands that suit your lifestyle and long-term investment goals
💜 Aamina’s love of coloured gemstones, sapphires, and creating heirloom-quality jewellery
💜 Insights on lab-grown diamonds versus natural gemstones and why legacy matters in fine jewellery
💜 Creative ways couples have added personal touches to their rings, from engravings to incorporating heirloom gold
💜 The future of Layaz, including Dare to Dazzle by Layaz, and expansion to the USA
...and so much more!
🎧 Whether you’re dreaming about your engagement ring or just love hearing the stories behind meaningful jewellery, this episode is packed with wisdom, inspiration, and beautiful insights from Aamina.
Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
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In this episode, I’m joined by Rachel, a florist from Wānaka (with the team at @thegreenroomflowerco), who shares the story of her stunning Lake Ōhau Lodge wedding to her best friend, Marshall.
After years of friendship, their relationship turned into love, and their wedding was the perfect mix of heartfelt, fun, and completely true to them.
We chat about:
💜 How Rachel and Marshall’s friendship turned into a love story (and why it was the easiest relationship she’s ever been in)
💜 Their proposal story with a lakeside photo shoot and a sapphire ring
💜 Why they chose Lake Ōhau lodge as their venue and how it created a relaxed, family-filled wedding weekend
💜 Rachel’s experience dress shopping in Auckland and finding the gown at the Pink Palace with Natalie Rose
💜 The unique bridal party line-up with ten groomsmen and no bridesmaids
💜 Highlights from the day, including a helicopter ride, emotional vows, and a silent disco to finish the night
💜 Planning tips from a florist: budgeting, trusting your vendors, and why you should never DIY your flowers on the wedding morning
💜 Rachel’s advice for couples who want to create a day that feels authentic, stress-free, and full of joy
...and so much more!
🎧 It’s such a mix of love, laughter, and practical wisdom. I know you’ll come away with both inspiration and some really grounded tips for your own wedding planning.
Below you can find the handles for all R & M’s incredible vendors. Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Vendors:
Photographer: @run_in_the_shadows
Flowers:
Dress: @natalierosebridal
Venue: @lakeohaulodge
Makeup: @paigeshipstonemakeup
Hair: @hairtowedbytina
Signs and Menus: @simplesignsnz
Heli: @heliventuresnz
Band: @la.social
Celebrant: @becsandyscelebrant
Content Creation: @bowden__studio
Second Dress: @meshki
Tan: @skyebeautywanaka
Nails: @glamorous_nails.beauty
Skin Prep: @iluhub
Engagement Ring: @cushlawhiting
Groomsmen: @hallensteinbrothers
Thinking about a destination wedding, or just love hearing the real, unfiltered stories? In this episode, I chat with entrepreneur & influencer Iyia Liu about her Bali wedding, and trust me, it’s a good one. From hilarious moments to honest budget chats, this is such a fun listen.
We chat about:
💜 The unexpected and hilarious way Iyia & Jordan got engaged
💜 Why she chose Bali over a New Zealand venue, and whether it really saved money
💜 How Iyia found her wedding dress in the most unexpected way
💜 What it was like planning with a Bali wedding planner and how stress-free it made things
💜 The funniest moments from the day and an epic party
💜 How she kept the whole celebration relaxed, fun, and all about the guest experience
💜 Iyia’s top advice for couples considering a destination wedding
💜 Deep diving into the budget and what she chose to sacrifice and save money on
...and so much more!
🎧 If you’re planning your own wedding, in New Zealand or overseas, you’ll love Iyia’s down-to-earth perspective and refreshing honesty.
Below you can find the handles for all I & J’s incredible vendors. Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Vendors:
Hair & Makeup: @cherish_mua
Flower Girl Dresses: @_littlelanestore
Photographer: @esmeandlogan
Videographer: @thecinemabali
Bridesmaids: @becandbridge
Wedding Dress: @pallascouture
Second Dress: @eliyathelabel
Location: @karma.kandara.bali
Men’s Suits: @rembrandt1946
Nails: @nailsbyashleighj
Tan: @taninthecity
Wedding Planner: @balifortwo
Lashes: @lasharchitectnz
Alterations: @alterme_bridal
Thank you to Betty Bars for supporting this episode. Use code: LYDIA20 to get 20% off at checkout!
No matter what kind of wedding you’re planning, this episode is full of wisdom you’ll want to hear.
I’m joined by Lucy Burke, Managing Director of Lucy’s Event Hire, who grew her business from a DIY project at home to one of New Zealand’s leading wedding and event hire companies.
With 10 years of experience and hundreds of weddings behind her, Lucy knows exactly what goes into creating a celebration that feels seamless and unforgettable.
We chat about:
💜 Lucy’s journey from side hustle to leading a nationwide hire company
💜 The biggest trends shaping New Zealand weddings right now
💜 Why having a plan B is essential (and how you can never fully trust the weather in NZ)
💜 Smart ways to prioritise your budget without losing style or impact
💜 Practical tips that apply to every wedding, from small to large
💜 Behind-the-scenes realities and problem-solving vendors don’t often share
💜 Advice to cut through the overwhelm and plan with confidence
...and so much more!
🎧 Whether you’re dreaming of a marquee wedding, planning a colourful modern celebration, or simply want insights from someone who’s seen it all, this episode will leave you feeling inspired and prepared.
Follow Lucy: @lucyseventhire
Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Today I’m joined by Grace, who shares her and Robbie’s wedding at Vanderosa Farms in Leigh, a stunning hilltop venue with sweeping ocean views.
We chat about:
💜 Meeting in high school, growing up together and chasing their dreams from Belgium adventures to army life back in NZ.
💜 A surprise proposal on a Canadian boat trip, recorded on a GoPro and made complete with her dream ring.
💜 Choosing Vanderosa online without visiting other venues, and why it was perfect for their weekend-away vibe.
💜 Top priorities: a family-style shared dinner, long tables, and a fun, colourful, relaxed atmosphere.
💜 Finding the perfect mix of dresses for seven bridesmaids.
💜 Why she highly recommends a videographer (and what they did instead of an on-the-day coordinator).
💜 Budget talk - what they thought it would cost vs the reality.
💜 How she kept decision fatigue at bay by avoiding endless vendor-hunting and Pinterest overwhelm.
💜 All the best highlights, lessons, and advice she’d give other couples planning now.
...and so much more!
🎧 Listen in for a down-to-earth wedding story with loads of practical takeaways for couples who want their day to feel fun, personal, and truly theirs.
Below you can find the handles for all G & R’s incredible vendors. Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Vendors:
Photographer: @thecedarweddings.co
Flowers: @foxytwigs & @handsinthedirt_
Venue: @vanderosafarms
DJ & Videographer: @smgvisual
Catering: @krave.catering
Drink Service: @somekindofwonderfulnz
Makeup: @puremakeupartistnz
Hair: @minas.hair.studio
Furniture Hire: @carltonpartyhirenz
Buses: @ecoach_mahucityexpress
Dress: @kyhabride
Bridesmaids Dresses: @caitlincrispbridal & @rubytakessnaps
Groom & Groomsmen Suits: @suitup_nz
Today I’m joined by Emma - florist, wedding vendor and recent bride, who shares her relaxed and personal Queenstown wedding. From planning a simple lakeside ceremony to creating her own florals, Emma’s story is full of practical advice and thoughtful inspiration for couples wanting to keep things stress-free and true to themselves.
🎟️ Tickets for The Kiwi Wedding Podcast LIVE Event (August 31st in Auckland) are on sale now! We’ll have cake, dresses, goodie bags, and an incredible lineup of speakers, including makeup artist Kate Solley, dress designer Trish Peng, and Astrid Braid wedding planner from PS. I Love You. Brides, couples, and vendors alike - come along for a beautiful morning.
GRAB YOUR TICKET FOR THE KIWI WEDDING PODCAST LIVE!
We chat about:
💜 Meeting Rich on their OE in the UK and building a life together in New Zealand.
💜 The Queenstown proposal at Sunshine Bay, a sentimental spot where they’d spent many evenings.
💜 Planning a small, family-focused wedding with 13 guests, making it intimate and low-key.
💜 Saying “I do” at a DOC carpark overlooking Lake Wakatipu - proof you don’t need a big venue for breathtaking views.
💜 Creating her own flowers as a florist (and why she might recommend having someone else do them instead!).
💜 Emma’s bridal look: a simple cream slip dress paired with an overtop blouse sewn by her mum.
💜 Their son napping through half the ceremony, then joining them mid-vows for the sweetest family moment.
💜 Skipping the traditional reception. Instead sharing bubbles with family, photos at their engagement spot, then dinner at Botswana Butchery.
💜 Budgeting: how they kept it simple and spent around $13k total, including rings, accommodation and dinner.
💜 Vendor advice from a florist’s perspective: where to prioritise your flower budget, repurposing arrangements, and why buttonholes are fading in popularity.
💜 Trends Emma’s noticing in florals this season… less plinths, more lush backdrops, and smaller bouquets.
💜 The importance of leaning into your own style, not just trends, and trusting your florist to refine your vision.
...and so much more!
🎧 Listen in for one of our most relaxed wedding stories yet - an inspiration in keeping it simple, meaningful, and truly you.
Below you can find the handles for all E & R’s incredible vendors. Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Vendors:
Flowers: @lindengrovefloral
Photographer: @who.took.the.picture
Celebrant: @yourbigdayqt @marriedbyemily
Hair: @hairtowedbytina
Makeup: Bride
Nails: @1999houseofnailsnz
Tan: @afterglowbeauty_christchurch
Dress: @vila_official @asos
Silk Organza Blouse: Bride’s Mum
Blouse Fabric sourced from: @hawesandfreer
Shoes: @merchant1948
Suit: @_3wisemen
Rings: @filigreefinejewels
Accommodation: @toniclodge
Chair hire: @qtweddinghire
Ceremony Location: 7 Mile Point Track @docgovtnz
Dinner Venue: @botswanabutcheryqueenstown
Set up + Babysitter: Bride’s Friend, Cary’s
Today I’m joined by Gemma, who shares how she and Josh planned their beautiful, uniquely-them celebration: a private family ceremony on a hilltop, then a relaxed reception at their family beach property in Taupō Bay. All pulled together in six months while working full-time and parenting their four-year-old.
🎟️ Tickets for The Kiwi Wedding Podcast LIVE Event (August 31st in Auckland) are on sale now! We’ll have delicious treats, champagne towers, goodie bags, and an incredible lineup of speakers, including makeup artist Kate Solley, dress designer Trish Peng, and Astrid Braid wedding planner from PS. I Love You. Brides, couples, and vendors alike - come along for a beautiful morning.
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We chat about:
💜 How they met at a Fashion Week after-party, built a life together, and decided to get married.
💜 The sentimental Bali proposal in Uluwatu with their son there - lots of tears, a hidden ring, and a celebratory dinner at Mason.
💜 Choosing a six-month engagement and keeping planning simple, focused and “them”.
💜 Why they split the day: an intimate ceremony with 15 close family, then a bigger reception later.
💜 The ceremony feels: sunshine, a family-friend celebrant, their son standing with them, and the “can’t-put-it-into-words” moments.
💜 Gemma’s bridal look: a Trish Peng mini (from an unreleased collection), picked quickly and confidently because it felt like her.
💜 Why they kept it small and removed tradition responsibilities when it came to their bridal party.
💜A late-in-the-piece giant tiramisu.
💜 Budgeting and how they saved by using their property and paying as they went.
💜 Inspiration without copy-paste: Pinterest/TikTok for ideas, then tailoring details to fit their style.
💜 Post-wedding: more “post-holiday” than blues; a mini staycation now and a family Bali trip later.
...and so much more!
🎧 Listen in for a masterclass on shaping a celebration around your life, your family and your favourite place, and why a private ceremony + big party can be the perfect combo.
Below you can find the handles for all G & J’s incredible vendors. Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Vendors:
Photographer: @liamsoulphoto
Dress and Scarf: @trishpeng
Shoes: @eleanorlouiseco
Celebrant: James Braddock
Makeup Artist: @claudialouismarie
Hair: @the_hair_box_nz
Food: @the_wayward_italian
Today on the podcast I’m joined by the lovely Ainsley, florist, wedding vendor and recent bride. You might know her from Floralcentric or have seen her stunning Queenstown wedding featured on the cover of Together Journal. She shares the real behind-the-scenes of planning her own wedding while working in the industry, plus her top flower tips and trends for couples currently planning.
🎟️ Tickets for The Kiwi Wedding Podcast LIVE Event (August 31st in Auckland) are on sale now! We’ll have delicious treats, champagne towers, goodie bags, and an incredible lineup of speakers, including makeup artist Kate Solley, dress designer Trish Peng, and Astrid Braid wedding planner from PS. I Love You. Brides, couples, and vendors alike - come along for a beautiful morning.
GRAB YOUR TICKET FOR THE KIWI WEDDING PODCAST LIVE!
We chat about:
💜 Ainsley shares how she and Josh met overseas on their OEs in London with a little matchmaking help from Josh’s cousin (and her future maid of honour).
💜 Their beautiful Queenstown wedding took place at her grandparents’ garden property, a sentimental spot and the ultimate floral backdrop.
💜 Hear the romantic proposal story set at a secluded Raglan cabin.
💜 She opens up about planning paralysis as a vendor surrounded by too much inspo and how working with Claire Donaldson helped bring her vision together.
💜 Ainsley shares why photography and videography were their biggest priorities and her strong recommendation not to skip the video.
💜 Two stunning custom Brooke Tyson dresses, the fun of a second outfit, and choosing fashion that suits your vibe.
💜 From relaxed hens in Hawke’s Bay to a fun pool party the next day, Ainsley spills all the details on the lead up and full week of celebrations.
💜 As a florist, Ainsley shares loads of tips, from where to start with flower planning to how to maximise your budget and what’s trending (hello Calla Lilies and petite bouquets).
💜 Plus, we get the story of how Floralcentric began, from London freelancing to a COVID-era mother-daughter studio dream.
...and so much more!
If you’re a bride-to-be navigating inspo overload or wondering how to make your florals feel personal and impactful, this one’s full of helpful gems.
Follow Ainsley:
Below you can find the handles for all A & J’s incredible vendors. Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Vendors:
Location: @chanteclergardens
Photographer: @stephanandnakita
Videographer: @flatrocfilms
Dresses & Veil: @brooketysonritual
Groom’s Suit: @workingstylenz
Bride’s Shoes: @nicole.rebstock
Bride’s Party Shoes: @zara
Bride’s Bag: @georgiajaybags
Bride’s Rings: @naveyaandsloanejewellery
Bride’s Earrings: @jasminsparrowjewellery
Groom’s Ring: @guys.gold
Bridesmaid’s Dresses: @benni.au
Bridesmaids’ Shoes: @zara
Florals: @michelecoomeyfloral
Stylist: @onelovelydaystyling
Celebrant: Bride’s Aunty
Bride’s Makeup: @jetmakeupartist
Bridesmaids’ Makeup: @livkingmakeup
Bride’s Hair: @beautifulbridalhair
On-the-Day Coordinators: Friends Kim Bright & Mel Kong
Dining & Bar Marquee: @trulyyours_events
Dance Floor Marquee: @yougather_events
Tableware: @royallaboratorie
Linen: @tble__linen__hire
Entertainment: @derekforealmusic, @theexecsnz
Catering: @artisan_catering
Lighting & Draping: @lalumiere_nz
Stationery, Signage & Wedding Website: @broganscottstudio
Backdrop Behind Bar: @inkertinker.nz
Furniture: @flockevents
In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Natalie Rose from Natalie Rose Bridal. You might know her iconic “Pink Palace” boutique on Parnell Road, Auckland, or have seen some of her gorgeous brides featured in past episodes.
Natalie is known for her beautifully structured gowns, honest advice, and the unforgettable experience she creates for every bride who walks through her door.
This was a special one- my first-ever in-person podcast recording, right in Natalie’s boutique. We dive into her journey from a childhood filled with pride in her mum’s dressmaking skills, to a career in finance, and then making the bold (and chaotic) leap to open her own bridal shop during the middle of a pandemic.
We chat about:
💜 What a truly magical dress shopping experience should feel like (it should be one of the best days of your life).
💜 The emotional weight brides carry into the fitting room, and how Natalie and her team help them feel seen and celebrated.
💜 A realistic wedding dress timeline (why you need 12–24 months and why it’s never too early to start).
💜 How to handle too many opinions in the fitting room, and why less is often more when choosing your entourage.
💜 The truth about “timeless” weddings and why you should focus on what feels the most you.
💜 Trends Natalie’s loving - gothic influences, Basque waists, tulle, and taffeta making a comeback.
💜 Wedding day prep tips you’ve probably overlooked.
💜 Natalie’s no-BS advice for tuning out the noise, trusting your gut, and finding the dress that makes you feel like the real you.
💜 Why you should never use AI to write your vows.
...and so much more!
Natalie shares so much wisdom about navigating the emotions, expectations, and pressures that come with dress shopping. Her approach is all about helping brides find the gown that feels the most themselves, not the “most beautiful” according to anyone else’s opinion.
You’ll love her down-to-earth advice and straight-talking encouragement to tune out the noise and embrace the experience.
Follow Natalie:
🎟️ Tickets for The Kiwi Wedding Podcast LIVE Event (August 31st in Auckland) are on sale now! We’ll have delicious treats, champagne towers, goodie bags, and an incredible lineup of speakers, including makeup artist Kate Solley, dress designer Trish Peng, and Astrid Braid wedding planner from PS. I Love You. Brides, couples, and vendors alike - come along for a beautiful morning.
This week on the podcast, I’m joined by the radiant Anika-Skye, a makeup artist, owner of Skye Beauty and newlywed who planned a beautiful wedding at Black Walnut in Tauranga.
From meeting her now-husband as teenagers to creating Pinterest boards and Canva slideshows to bring her vision to life, Anika shares practical tips and thoughtful insights from her wedding planning journey.
We chat about:
💜 Anika’s love story with Beckam – from high school sweethearts to a beautiful beach proposal.
💜 How they found their dream venue and ended up booking it on the spot.
💜 The top priorities they agreed on for their wedding day.
💜 The importance of timelines, DIY prep, and why she still wishes she hired a day-of coordinator.
💜 The wedding budget reality: what they planned, what they spent, and where they chose to splurge.
💜 How she balanced sentimental touches with fun moments.
💜 Post-wedding blues and why she swears by having a content creator to relive it all.
💜 Her top planning tools and resources (Pinterest, Together Journal, Say I Do).
💜 Bridal beauty tips: simple skin prep, embracing your usual style, and why trials matter.
💜 What it’s like booking and working with Anika for your wedding day makeup.
...and so much more!
Anika was the sweetest guest and shared so many thoughtful takeaways from both sides – as a bride and a vendor. Whether you’re planning your wedding or figuring out your dream makeup look, you’ll love this one.
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Auckland, happening Sunday 31st August 2025. It’s going to be such a good morning – inspiring panel chats, amazing food, lovely humans and very good goodie bags.
Follow Anika:
Below you can find the handles for all A & B’s amazing vendors. Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow. Follow Lydia at @lydiarachelphoto
Vendors:
Photography/Videography: @honeylens.weddings
Content Creator: @thesocialsuite.nz
Hair: @flygerhairnz and @dededaph
Makeup: @gabriellehoughtonmua
Beauty Prep and Tanning: @skyebeauty___
Bride’s Tan: @tan.republic
Jewellery: @crystalandcordjewellery and @cambridgejewellersnz
Bride's Dress: @heracouture
Bridesmaid Dresses: @billy_j_bridal
Suits: @dorsetsuits
Flowers: @alexmariestore (now closed)
Venue: @blackwalnutvenue
Food: @hiddentrufflecatering
Audio Guestbook: @leaveamessage.co.nz
Websites used: @sayi_do and @love__reggie
Vase Hire: @tiedhire
In this episode, I’m joined by the incredibly warm and talented makeup artist Kate Solley. With 18 years in the industry, including 10 years at MAC Cosmetics, Kate brings so much experience, wisdom, and calm to every wedding morning.
Whether you’re a makeup lover or someone who barely wears mascara, this episode is packed with practical, stress-free advice you’ll actually want to follow.
We chat about:
💜 Kate’s honest reflection on her own wedding day and how much the wedding world has changed.
💜 Her journey from beauty therapy to running sold-out workshops and destination weddings.
💜 Simple, realistic advice for pre-wedding skincare (that won’t overwhelm you).
💜 The best time to book a trial and why you might want to avoid doing it too early.
💜 Makeup that lasts all day – her favourite products and why she doesn’t use primer.
💜 The things you should not do the week before your wedding (including one big lash warning).
💜 How to still feel like yourself with makeup, even if you’re not used to wearing it.
💜 What to look for when choosing your makeup artist – it’s not just about the portfolio.
💜 Her much-loved workshops and the exciting new The Mastersclass tour she's co-hosting with Gabby Houghton, Kasia Stanicich and Annalee Kemsley.
💜 Some favourite wedding moments (including recent ones in Spain and Tuscany)
💜 What it’s like balancing business with family life
💜 A few of the top products she always has in her kit.
...and so much more!
If you're planning your wedding or just love hearing from inspiring creatives, this one’s a must-listen.
Follow Kate:
Get tickets to The Mastersclass.
Be sure to check out some photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast to see Kate at work + give us a follow.
In this episode, I chat with the lovely Abby, a recent bride and wedding vendor who shares an honest, funny and super relatable look at planning her wedding while juggling two kids, and working in the industry herself.
We chat about:
💜 How Abby and Storm met working in radio and the adorable proposal followed by a bit of chaos.
💜 Planning when you’re in the wedding industry and why picking a venue was the hardest part.
💜 Juggling wedding planning with two little ones, car seats, nannies and all the extra logistics that come with kids.
💜 The story behind Abby’s dreamy Trish Peng gown, a mix of two designs.
💜 Top priorities: food, music, people and what details she says don’t matter in the end.
💜 Fun party moments with tambourines, fireball shots, cowboy hats and Mr. Brightside.
💜 Abby’s best planning advice for staying sane and soaking it all in.
💜 All about Wildly Madly Deeply and how Abby and her mum help couples with planning, styling, florals and on-the-day coordination.
💜 Tips to stretch your floral budget and trends they’re loving right now.
...and so much more!
Follow Wildy Madly Deeply:
Below you can find the handles for all S & A’s vendors. Be sure to check out some of their photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow.
Vendors:
Photographer: @aimeeprestonimages
Florals/Styling/Planning: @wildly.madly.deeply
Dress: @trishpeng
Suit: @workingstylenz
Hair & makeup: @thepeach_club
Venue: @fabric_cafe_bistro
Ceremony furniture: @flockevents
Reception furniture: @lucyseventhire
Signage: @paperdarlingnz
Napkins: @tble__linen__hire
Celebrant: @sarahcowleyross
Music: @katewoodmusic
In this episode, I chat with the lovely Liv Clarke about her sweet supermarket romance with Leighton, their surprise Fiji proposal, and how they pulled off a fun, relaxed Tree Church wedding that truly felt like them.
💜 From grocery checkouts to saying “I do”… the sweet way Liv and Leighton’s story began.
💜 How a group trip to Fiji turned into the ultimate surprise proposal.
💜 Why they secretly planned a small wedding and a surprise engagement party for 150.
💜 How Liv found her dream Trish Peng dress for less at a sample sale.
💜 The best wedding spend ever: an on-the-day coordinator to keep things chill.
💜 Why DIY grazing platters were her only regret (and what she’d do instead).
💜 How they skipped the sit-down dinner and had a pizza truck party instead.
💜 Fun TikTok-inspired content ideas they filmed on the day.
💜 Their wedding budget goals and clever ways they saved.
...and so much more!
Follow Liv & Leighton:
Below you can find the handles for all L & L’s vendors. Be sure to check out some of their photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow.
Vendors:
Venue: @treechurchandgardens
Dress @yourstrulybridalnz @trishpeng
Hair and Makeup: @lisamarie_stylist
Bride Shoes: @mi_piaci
Suits: @dorsetsuits
Rings: @culetjewellery
Photographer: @swiftandclick
Videographer: @intheframe_weddings
Content Creator: @fromscratchcreative_
Bridesmaids Dresses: @billy_j_bridal
Best Ma’am Dress: @rentingwithsb
Stylist & Coordinator + Hire: @thewhiteweddingclub
Flowers: Black and White Cottage (FB)
Food Truck: @mizzoni_nz
Drinks: @drink_pals
DJ Setup & Photobooth: @myeventdjnz
Spray Tan: @tan.republic
In this episode, I’m chatting with the lovely Johanna about how she planned her warm and rustic wedding at Church Road Winery, stayed organised, and made the most of every moment with her friends and family.
💜 How they matched on Tinder and ended up getting married on the same date as their very first kiss.
💜 Picking a venue that ticked every box, including that all-important wet weather option.
💜 Their practical approach to setting a budget and doing lots of beautiful DIY touches.
💜 How Johanna put together her wedding day binder to feel calm and ready on the day (you can use it too)!
💜 The ways she delegated tasks so she could actually relax and enjoy the week.
💜 Special highlights like her first look with her dad and a private reception reveal.
💜 Tips for planning with family and friends coming from overseas.
...and so much more!
Follow Johanna:
Johanna has also given podcast listeners 15% off her wedding day binder so you can plan your own day with less stress - just use the code: THEKIWIWEDDINGPODCAST
Below you can find the handles for all J & J’s vendors. Be sure to check out some of their photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow.
Vendors:
Venue: @churchroadwinery
Photographer: @rachelburt.weddings
Dress: @bridal_studio
Bridesmaids Dresses: @evolutionbridesmaids
Florist for bouquet, button holes and mums wristband: @magdalen.hill.flora
Make up: @josie_brenstrum_mua
Hair: @debbiepearcehair
Dinner: @ortonshawkesbay
Pyjamas: @thesleepovernz
DJ: @dj4younz
Cake: @cakestuffnz
CupCakes: @littlelilycakesnz
In this episode, I sat down with the creative soulmates behind one of the coolest bridal boutiques in Aotearoa, Lauren and Jacque from LVR.
These two are fashion lovers, besties, and the brains behind a bridal space that’s anything but traditional. We chatted all about how their love for design (and each other!) turned into a one-of-a-kind wedding dress destination for modern, stylish brides.
We chat about: 💜 How Lauren and Jacque went from Massey fashion grads to launching a bridal brand that brings something fresh and exciting to the NZ wedding scene.💜 Who the LVR bride really is, and why she’s fashion-savvy, bold, and knows what she wants.💜 Why separates are their go-to and how they make bridal style more versatile, comfortable, and wearable beyond the big day.💜 The evolution of their brand and in-house collection, Hand in Hand.
💜 A new styling service to help couples pull together their full wedding look, beyond just the dress.💜Honest chats about pressure, people-pleasing, and why “timeless” isn’t the only goal.💜 Why wedding dress shopping should feel like hanging out with friends, not a high-pressure runway.💜 How to avoid wedding overwhelm and trust your personal taste in a world full of Pinterest pressure.💜 Advice for couples who want a wedding that truly reflects them, not what their Aunty or Nan thinks.💜 What’s trending now (and what LVR hopes to see more of) in bridal style and wedding vibes.
...and so much more!
This one is full of laughs, honest insights, and so much helpful advice for couples who want to do things a little differently. If you’ve ever felt like the wedding world wasn’t quite speaking your language, LVR probably is.
Below you can follow LVR Bridal. Be sure to check out some of their photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow.
Find LVR Bridal:
In this special bonus episode, it’s just me - no guest, just your host, Lydia answering all your questions! I'm chatting about the podcast, my photography business, and all things weddings. From how it all began, to episode recommendations and some surprises coming up.
💜 Why I started the podcast and how it’s grown to 100+ episodes
💜 How I choose podcast guests
💜 My journey into wedding photography and how I’d describe my style
💜 Tips on choosing the right photographer and how to be a dream client
💜 Where to invest your budget and the things that really don’t matter
💜 Navigating family dynamics, stress, and social media overwhelm while planning
💜 A sneak peek at some amazing guests coming up on the podcast
💜 I answer the question: am I married myself?
This episode is packed with real talk, honest advice, and hopefully some encouragement, whether you're planning your wedding or just love tuning in for the stories.
🎁 Bonus just for you: If you book me as your wedding photographer and mention this podcast episode, I’ll gift you an extra hour on your chosen package!
🔗 Blogs I mentioned:
If you’re keen to be a guest on the podcast or contribute to one of my in-person events, head over to Instagram and hit the link in bio, I’d love to hear from you.
Thanks so much for being here. I’m beyond grateful for this community, and I can’t wait to keep sharing more beautiful conversations with you 💜
We’ve hit a big milestone - episode 100 of The Kiwi Wedding Podcast. Whether you’ve been here since the early days or recently discovered the show, thank you for listening. It’s been such a privilege to share real wedding stories, advice, and inspiration with you… Cheers to the next 100!
To celebrate this episode, I’m joined by someone extra special, my lovely friend Kristie. I had the honour of photographing her Nelson wedding, and in this conversation, she shares how she and her husband planned their gorgeous day on a realistic budget, while still making space for creativity, personality, and connection.
We chat about:
💜 How Kristie and her now-husband met long-distance and navigated being in different cities for most of their dating relationship.
💜 How Kristie handled dress shopping in a small town
💜 DIY decor, personal touches, and getting creative to keep costs down.
💜 Choosing a smaller guest list and navigating family dynamics.
💜 Letting go of the Pinterest-perfect pressure.
💜 What she might do differently, the things she’s so glad they prioritised, and how she kept the focus on what really counted… their marriage.
💜 Their mini-moon and honeymoon in Japan (plus, how telling people you’re on your honeymoon pays off!)
...and so much more!
Below you can find the handles for all K & J’s amazing vendors. Be sure to check out some of their photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow.
Vendors:
Photographer: @lydiarachelphoto
Dress: @effiekatsofficial
Veil: @bridalfusionbysteph
Bridesmaid: @rubytakessnaps
Suit: @johnnybigg
Flowers: @tandcoflorals @nelsonflowercompany
Stationery: Bride
Hair: @hairbyvictoriasifa
Makeup: Brides friend
Cake: @honeythecakery
Food: Ziblings Catering
Venue: @boathousenelson
Rings: @fourwordsnz @stormbakerjewellers
Nails: @gelestnails
📩 I’ll also be dropping a bonus Q&A episode later this week to reflect on 100 episodes! If you’ve got a question for me, send it through on Instagram @thekiwiweddingpodcast
If you've ever felt overwhelmed by wedding planning, today’s episode is exactly what you need. I chat with the lovely and incredibly down-to-earth Julz from Dream Events - a wedding planner, on-the-day coordinator, and all-round calming presence in the chaos that can be planning a wedding.
Julz brings a wealth of practical experience and heartfelt advice to the table, whether you're just getting started or need support pulling everything together on the day. Her range of services is designed to support couples at any stage of the planning journey - from timeline creation and vendor sourcing to set-up, pack-down, and full planning.
In this episode, we cover:
💜 How Julz got into the wedding industry and built Dream Events from the ground up.
💜 The differences between planning, coordination, styling, and consulting - and what might be right for you.
💜 Common mistakes couples make (and how to avoid them).
💜 Creating a solid wedding day timeline with buffer time and moments for connection.
💜 How to communicate and set boundaries with family when they’re contributing financially.
💜 Trends Julz is seeing this season… think minimal, timeless, and elegant.
💜 Budget-friendly tips for DIY couples and how to find trusted vendors without blowing the bank.
💜 Julz shares wise words about staying grounded, focused on your values, and creating space for you and your partner to enjoy the process (and each other).
...and so much more!
👀 Exclusive for podcast listeners - Julz is kindly offering 10% off any of her services for the next two months. Just mention The Kiwi Wedding Podcast when you get in touch. (Until August 10th 2025).
Find Julz at:
💜 Website: dreamevents.nz
💜 Instagram: @dreamevents_nz
In this episode, I’m joined by Johnelle, recently married and also a celebrant, MC, and on-the-day coordinator at I Do Ceremonies. She shares her honest and thoughtful perspective on both planning her own wedding and working behind the scenes at dozens of others.
A few things we cover:
💜 Reconnecting with her now-husband years after high school, and how their relationship shaped the way they planned their day.
💜 How they created a day that was so them, complete with Kiwi cricket, flower crown making, and hilarious games.
💜 Her thoughts on ditching tradition, walking down the aisle together, no bridal party, and getting family photos before the ceremony.
💜 How they pulled off a beautiful wedding on a $15k budget and her brilliant guest list strategy using the “past, present, future” rule.
💜 What it’s really like planning a wedding while running a business, and why delegation (especially close to the day) matters.
💜 The real impact of a DJ vs. a playlist, and what she’d do differently.
💜 Post-wedding fatigue, delaying the honeymoon, and the reality of getting back to work in peak wedding season.
From the vendor side, Johnelle also shares:
💜 What it’s like stepping into the industry as a celebrant, MC, and coordinator, and how her background in radio and events set her up for success.
💜 Why more couples are booking her for multiple roles, and how that continuity helps make a wedding day run more smoothly.
💜 Practical tips for preparing your MC (whether it's a friend or a pro).
💜 How she helps couples write personal, meaningful vows, and why they don’t need to sound like something out of a movie.
💜 Advice on calming ceremony nerves and focusing on what really matters when you're standing in front of your guests.
...and so much more!
Below you can find the handles for all J & L’s vendors. Be sure to check out some of their photos on IG at @thekiwiweddingpodcast + give us a follow.
Join the waitlist for her “Wedding MC Done Right” resource
Vendors:
Photography: @pearlphotography.nz
Celebrant: @marriedbychoiwee
Food: @riverscatchnz
Makeup: @michellemakeupcoach
Hair: @holistic.hair.artistry
Entertainment: Gifford Bros @samuel_gifford10
