In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Carly and Ruthie sit down with their husbands, Seth and Ben, for a raw look at what it means to stay connected in marriage—from both a male and female perspective. Whether you’re newlyweds or years into marriage, this episode is packed with relatable stories, laughter, and practical insights you won’t want to miss.
IN THIS EPISODE:
How Carly and Seth met 11 years ago—and the moment Seth knew she was the one
Why flirting still matters (even in sweats and with toddlers around!)
Ben and Ruthie’s 18-year journey and the early moment that made Ben say, “She’s it.”
Rebuilding connection after a hard season—Ben and Ruthie open up about what really helped
Staying close while parenting 3 kids under 4—how they made it work (and stayed sane)
How physical and non-sexual touch both play crucial roles in emotional intimacy
The role of intentionality in keeping love alive through life’s chaos
Communication & conflict: what healthy resolution actually looks like
Real stats on divorce—and what couples can do differently to beat the odds.
WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:
It’s candid. It’s hopeful. It’s like sitting down with two real couples and hearing the behind-the-scenes of what connection in marriage really takes. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or ten years in, this conversation will encourage you to pursue deeper intimacy—with intentionality, laughter, and love.
LISTEN NOW — and share with a couple who needs this!
The Good Stuff Podcast with Carly May (@carlymay) and Ruthie Ridley (@ruthieridley)