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The Good Sex Project
Popsock Media
31 episodes
1 month ago
A podcast about good sex, good relationships and how to have them. Follow creator and host Melody Thomas as she meets everyday New Zealanders, who speak with striking openness and vulnerability about real issues in their sex and love lives. Meet internationally renowned experts with practical advice that you can use in your own life. The Good Sex Project is an internationally-award winning sexual revolution in podcast form. Get listening now!  The Good Sex Project is made with the support of New Zealand on Air. If you want to get in touch with Melody or the team, please send us a message on Instagram - @goodsexproject - or email goodsexproject@gmail.com. WARNING: This podcast contains frank conversations about sex and relationships, and includes some swearing. Some episodes also deal with themes around toxic relationships. WHERE TO GET HELP:Victim Support – 0800 842 846 (24-hour service).Need to talk? Free call or text 1737 any time for support from a trained counsellor.Youthline – 0800 376 633, free text 234, email: talk@youthline.co.nz or online chat.Rape Crisis – 0800 88 33 00 (will direct you to a nearby centre).

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A podcast about good sex, good relationships and how to have them. Follow creator and host Melody Thomas as she meets everyday New Zealanders, who speak with striking openness and vulnerability about real issues in their sex and love lives. Meet internationally renowned experts with practical advice that you can use in your own life. The Good Sex Project is an internationally-award winning sexual revolution in podcast form. Get listening now!  The Good Sex Project is made with the support of New Zealand on Air. If you want to get in touch with Melody or the team, please send us a message on Instagram - @goodsexproject - or email goodsexproject@gmail.com. WARNING: This podcast contains frank conversations about sex and relationships, and includes some swearing. Some episodes also deal with themes around toxic relationships. WHERE TO GET HELP:Victim Support – 0800 842 846 (24-hour service).Need to talk? Free call or text 1737 any time for support from a trained counsellor.Youthline – 0800 376 633, free text 234, email: talk@youthline.co.nz or online chat.Rape Crisis – 0800 88 33 00 (will direct you to a nearby centre).

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Episodes (20/31)
The Good Sex Project
We're BACK! And need YOU.

The Good Sex Project will be back in 2026, and we're still looking for some people with specific experiences and stories to speak to.




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1 week ago
1 minute 34 seconds

The Good Sex Project
BONUS: Live Masterclass with Nic Beets and Verity Thom
In association with Ensemble and live from The Village in Auckland, Melody is joined by intimacy and relationship experts Nic Beets and Verity Thom to discuss the vital role of having and re-centering pleasure in our lives. 

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11 months ago
45 minutes 8 seconds

The Good Sex Project
BONUS: Update on Chloe from S1

Bonus alert! In this mini episode, Chloe - who shared her list of "f**keries" in season 1 - leaves a voice memo with a surprising update.

Let's stay connected! 

  • Instagram
  • Facebook
  • TikTok      

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11 months ago
6 minutes 21 seconds

The Good Sex Project
BONUS: The Māori Therapist

In this special bonus episode of TGSP, we introduce you to Jemma Bennett, an extraordinary therapist based in Tauranga who goes by 'The Māori Therapist' on Instagram. Jemma shares her deeply moving life story, alongside her professional insights into the cycles of abuse and the complexities of intimate relationships. This episode is a raw, touching, and enlightening exploration of resilience, healing, and the importance of pleasure, connection, and cultural identity in overcoming trauma.

If you or anyone you know needs support, please reach out to one of the following helplines. 

  • Women’s Refuge 0800 733 843 
  • Safe to Talk Sexual Harm Helpline free call 0800 044 334 anytime.
  • Shine Free call 0508 744 633 between 9am and 11pm (for men and women)
  • 1737, Need to talk? Free call or text 1737 to talk to a trained counsellor.
  • Kidsline 0800 54 37 54 for people up to 18 years old. Open 24/7.
  • What’s Up 0800 942 8787 (for 5 to 18-year-olds). Phone counselling available Monday-Friday, noon-11pm and weekends, 3pm-11pm. Online chat is available 3pm-10pm daily.
  • Youthline 0800 376 633, free text 234, email talk@youthline.co.nz, or find online chat and other support options here.
  • If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 111


Let's stay connected! 

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12 months ago
39 minutes 44 seconds

The Good Sex Project
9: Horny Stories

Horny stories are having a moment. What is it about them that's got us so thirsty? What makes a good horny storyline good, and a bad one... dismal? And is erotic media just for fun, or does it have the potential to impact our actual sex lives? Melody speaks with "kooky, spooky" romance writer Steff Green, erotic audio maker Ryan Mairs aka Marisyy and Intimacy coordinator Ita O'Brien (Normal People, Sex Education, I May Destroy You) about the power of stories in fueling sexual desire and breaking taboos. 

Let's stay connected! 

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1 year ago
48 minutes 56 seconds

The Good Sex Project
BONUS: Aging well with Dr Olivia Smart + Nic Beets

Gynaecologist Dr Olivia Smart and Clinical Psychologist Nic Beets talk about some of the physical, sexual, and mental health effects of ageing, including in depth discussion of peri, post, and menopause, and how to support your partner through these changes. They also touch on changes in the male body, and explain why getting older doesn't have to mean the end of a happy, thriving sex life - if you don't want it to.

Let's stay connected! 

  • Instagram
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1 year ago
59 minutes 28 seconds

The Good Sex Project
8: Autumn Years

Sex and ageing, we explore the intersection of sexuality, ageing, and personal transformation. Host Melody Thomas delves into stories from those experiencing newfound freedoms and adventures in their later years. From touching accounts of midlife crises to the joy of rediscovery, this episode sheds light on navigating sexual health, menopause, and ultimately, embracing a fulfilling and vibrant life at any age.

Let's stay connected! 

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  • Facebook
  • TikTok      

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1 year ago
52 minutes 54 seconds

The Good Sex Project
BONUS: Anke Richter

Journalist and author Anke Richter shares her personal journey through the world of neo-tantra and reveals how easy it can be to become entangled in high-demand groups. Tune into this bonus episode for an eye-opening conversation that spans personal diary, investigative journalism, and critical advice on how to navigate these complex dynamics.

Let's stay connected! 

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  • Facebook
  • TikTok      

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1 year ago
40 minutes 56 seconds

The Good Sex Project
7: Purity ring

Is it possible to have sexual joy and spiritual faith? This episode of The Good Sex Project delves into the impact of purity culture. Phil and Lavinia share their journey from conservative Christian upbringings to embracing a different path for their family. We'll also hear from Chrissy and Mark, whose lives are intertwined with profound lessons about love, faith, and sexual freedom.

Let's stay connected! 

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1 year ago
45 minutes 15 seconds

The Good Sex Project
6: Three Women

Inspired by Lisa Taddeo’s book, 'Three Women,' this episode follows the intimate journeys of Tracey, Leah, and Naomi through their experiences of love, desire, and identity. Navigating the deep waters of sexuality, societal expectations, and personal transformations across different generations, tune in for candid conversations that challenge norms and offer insights into the complex tapestry of female desire. 

Let's stay connected! 

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1 year ago
51 minutes 8 seconds

The Good Sex Project
5: Slow your roll (Relationships 102)

What if we took it slow? In this episode we join one woman on her search for profound love and mind-blowing, soul-melding sex, travelling from scepticism to a deep, fulfilling relationship built on respect, patience, and divine slow-sex. You’ll hear about real techniques to slow it down and up the pleasure from Alissa Resnick of OMGYes. If you're curious about taking your intimacy to a lush new level, this episode is a must-listen.

Let's stay connected! 

  • Instagram
  • Facebook
  • TikTok     

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1 year ago
48 minutes 3 seconds

The Good Sex Project
BONUS: Emily Nagoski on the gender mirage, emotional floor plans and magic tricks

In this extended interview, Melody Thomas talks with renowned sex educator and author Emily Nagoski. They explore the neuroscience behind desire and pleasure, debunk cultural myths, and discuss Emily's latest insights on creating lasting sexual connections. Tune in for actionable wisdom and transformative advice that could elevate your intimate life to new heights.

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1 year ago
36 minutes 45 seconds

The Good Sex Project
4: Like Coming Home (Relationships 101)

Come with us and explore the myths and truths of maintaining a satisfying sexual connection long-term. From dealing with mismatched libidos to sex after babies, we explore what it takes to sustain meaningful relationships and thriving sexual connections, with real stories from real couples and expert advice from world-renowned author and researcher Emily Nagoski ("Come As You Are" and "Come Together"). Whether you're single, coupled or somewhere in between, join us on this insightful journey to better understanding what makes our hearts and minds tick.

Let's stay connected! 

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1 year ago
50 minutes 35 seconds

The Good Sex Project
BONUS: Yumi Stynes + Dr Jane Cherrington

Are you unsure how to address sensitive topics like sex and pornography with your kids? Join host Melody Thomas in this special bonus episode, where experts Yumi Stynes and Dr Jane Cherrington share practical advice, personal anecdotes and crucial insights to help parents navigate these challenging conversations. Learn why it's essential to maintain open communication, the impact of peer pressure and how to empower your children with accurate information and critical thinking skills. This episode offers a must-listen guide for fostering a healthy attitude towards sex and relationships in today's digital age.

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1 year ago
50 minutes 23 seconds

The Good Sex Project
3: Mind The Gap

What happens when sex education falls short? From finger-blasting to pick-up artists, this episode follows three people who took learning into their own hands, including return guest and disability advocate Etta Bollinger's experience with sex workers and a young man's near-miss with incel culture. There's plenty of trial and error, as well as joyful discoveries and pleasure. We're also joined by Yumi Stynes, podcaster (Ladies, We Need to Talk) and co-author (Welcome to Sex) as we discuss the critical need for comprehensive sex education. This episode is a deep dive into what we learn, what we miss, and how to fill in the blanks.

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1 year ago
48 minutes 37 seconds

The Good Sex Project
2: Pleasure Is Political

Would you like some pleasure with your politics? In this episode of The Good Sex Project, we explore how societal structures and cultural narratives impact sexual joy and freedom. We discuss the impact of ableism on sexuality with writer and disability activist Etta Bollinger, and chat to founders of a Māori ecosexuality kink zine (PARU) about reclaiming indigenous sexual joy. Join us in exploring who gets access to lives they desire and the transformative power of pleasure.

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1 year ago
43 minutes 4 seconds

The Good Sex Project
1: It's My Pleasure

Episode 1 of The Good Sex Project Season 2 embarks on a journey through different decades, unearthing diverse personal experiences that shaped people's relationship to pleasure. Featuring heartfelt conversations, painful confessions, and joyful revelations from the stories of Sophia, Porte, and Mary - no one's journey has been a straight line. Tune in for a thought-provoking episode that underscores the universal yet deeply personal quest for pleasure and satisfaction.

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1 year ago
45 minutes 5 seconds

The Good Sex Project
Season 2 Trailer
Buckle in and get ready for a fresh new season of The Good Sex Project! Hosted by Melody Thomas, this series delves deeper into the heart of what makes sex and relationships thrive. The first two episodes, ‘It’s My Pleasure’ and ‘Pleasure is Political,’ are out July 9!

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1 year ago
1 minute 31 seconds

The Good Sex Project
8: Happy Endings

Sometimes, relationships are better off ending. We figure out when it’s time to call it quits, how to break up amicably, and how endings make way for new beginnings.

We also consider how aging plays into a person’s sexuality and how it’s never too late to find pleasure.


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2 years ago
1 hour 2 minutes 29 seconds

The Good Sex Project
7: My Wife Will Like You

Pop culture and religion have told us that our soulmate - ‘the one’ - is out there. That our life partner should be our best friend, co-parent, confidant, intellectual sparring partner, sexual muse and all the things in between. But what if it works better when there’s more than two in a relationship?

We speak to people who are engaging in ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and long-distance, label-less love.


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2 years ago
44 minutes 12 seconds

The Good Sex Project
A podcast about good sex, good relationships and how to have them. Follow creator and host Melody Thomas as she meets everyday New Zealanders, who speak with striking openness and vulnerability about real issues in their sex and love lives. Meet internationally renowned experts with practical advice that you can use in your own life. The Good Sex Project is an internationally-award winning sexual revolution in podcast form. Get listening now!  The Good Sex Project is made with the support of New Zealand on Air. If you want to get in touch with Melody or the team, please send us a message on Instagram - @goodsexproject - or email goodsexproject@gmail.com. WARNING: This podcast contains frank conversations about sex and relationships, and includes some swearing. Some episodes also deal with themes around toxic relationships. WHERE TO GET HELP:Victim Support – 0800 842 846 (24-hour service).Need to talk? Free call or text 1737 any time for support from a trained counsellor.Youthline – 0800 376 633, free text 234, email: talk@youthline.co.nz or online chat.Rape Crisis – 0800 88 33 00 (will direct you to a nearby centre).

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.