Why do we wait until someone dies to learn how to deal with death? In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Jennifer Lares, a licensed funeral director, educator, and former U.S. Army mortuary officer who managed repatriations across Europe and Africa. Together, they open a side of the funeral world that most people never see — where compassion, ethics, and resilience meet REALITY. Jennifer Lares reveals what it's really like behind military and civilian funerals, how empathy and education can change the way we face loss. From exposing industry silence and scandals to rethinking Direct Cremation and modern airbrush cosmetics, this conversation challenges everything you thought you knew about death care. It's real. And it might just change how you see life, grief, and the people who serve behind the curtain of death. 🎧 Tune in to discover how curiosity, courage, and compassion can transform the way we say goodbye. Key Topics: -Honoring the fallen and the unseen work behind repatriation -Redefining empathy and teamwork in funeral service education -The courage to speak up in an industry built on silence -Reimagining beauty, dignity, and goodbyes through modern death care -Learning to face death with curiosity, not fear Quotes from the episode: "We know that we're all going to die, and yet we don't learn anything about it until you have to. So why would you not involve this in education when you're growing up?" -Jennifer Lares "But if you don't evolve, you dissolve." -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:29] Jennifer Lares shares her experience as a U.S. Army mortuary officer in Germany, reflecting on the challenges of repatriating fallen service members, cultural differences around death, and her mission to elevate funeral education through advanced embalming and training. [10:23] She talks about teaching empathy-led teamwork, sensitive communication with grieving families, and modernizing end-of-life care through airbrush cosmetics and progressive education. [21:52] The conversation moves to licensing and specialization in funeral service, the staffing challenges across states, and Jennifer's honest take on the California mortician scandal—why abuses happen and why the industry needs stronger ethics and protection. [32:30] Jennifer discusses gender bias, inequality, and society's fascination with scandal and death. She calls for rethinking cremation, respecting diverse beliefs, and re-educating the public on the sacred value of ritual and the body. [43:19] To close, she highlights the need for transparency, curiosity, and higher standards—urging the profession to embrace accountability, continuous learning, and stronger oversight to restore trust in death care. [53:57] Outro Connect with Jennifer Lares: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jennifer-lares-a09163302 Websites - mullingmortician.com Instagram: @mullingmortician Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

How do you heal when the one who gave you unconditional love is gone? In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney goes beyond grief to uncover the new ways people are reshaping how we say goodbye to our pets — from compassion, creativity, to community. Adam Greenbaum, founder of Love Baxter, shares the raw story of losing his dog Baxter and realizing how unprepared the world is for pet loss. His experience led him to build a first-of-its-kind digital resource that helps pet parents make informed, heartfelt decisions during one of life's hardest moments. Dr. Paula Rivadeneira, the heart behind Old Souls Animal Rescue, brings light to the overlooked — senior and special-needs pets who often lose their homes when their owners pass away. Through humor, honesty, and deep empathy, she shows what true devotion looks like, one rescue at a time. John, founder of Ever After Art, introduces a striking form of remembrance — transforming ashes into luminous crystal artworks that carry the chemistry and soul of every beloved companion. It's grief turned into art, loss turned into legacy. This episode isn't just about saying goodbye. It's about discovering the many ways love continues to live on. Key Topics: -Healing the heartbreak of pet loss -Redefining compassion in end-of-life care -Honoring pets through art and remembrance -Giving forgotten animals love and dignity -Finding connection and meaning through grief Quotes from the episode: "My dog didn't die — my son died. He was the love of my life." -Adam Greenbaum "When someone loses a pet, it's not just loss — it's losing a heartbeat that follows you everywhere." -Paula Rivadeneira "We take just a teaspoon of ash and turn it into crystal — a unique, one-of-a-kind artwork that carries the essence of your pet's soul." -John Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:21] Jennifer sits down with Adam Greenbaum, who shares the moving story behind Love Baxter, an online resource created to help grieving pet owners find guidance, compassion, and community during one of life's hardest goodbyes. [13:55] Jennifer meets Dr. Paula Rivadeneira, founder of Old Souls Animal Rescue, to talk about caring for senior and special-needs animals, the emotional reality of pet loss, and how her TikTok community inspires support for forgotten pets. [18:33] Jennifer chats with John from Ever After Art, exploring how he transforms pet ashes into mesmerizing crystal artworks, a unique and healing way to preserve the spirit and memory of beloved companions. [29:52] Outro Connect with Adam Greenbaum: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/adamgreenbaum Instagram: @greenbaumly Website: beacons.ai/greenbaum Connect with Paula Rivadeneira: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/paula-rivadeneira Website: oldsouls.org (Other) chollaafterlife.com (Company) Connect with John: Website: https://everafterart.com/ Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

In this special episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney takes us inside the CANA Convention to uncover bold ideas, inspiring stories, and the future of funeral service. Jennifer sits down with powerhouse women and industry innovators making waves in the profession. Lisa Bowie shares how Funeral Women Lead is breaking barriers with the first-ever Wellness Summit and Women's Leadership Academy. Melissa talks about her work with Security National and why advocacy, mentorship, and support for women entering funeral service is more urgent than ever. You'll also hear from Darren at Passages, whose eco-friendly urns and biodegradable memorial products are reshaping how families honor loved ones—from Himalayan salt urns to GPS-tracked scattering memorials. And Will and Hannah Laura from Cold Spring reveal the artistry behind their 127-year legacy in quarrying and bronze memorialization, including national monuments, private mausoleums, and even hand-sculpted angels and granite castles. Tune in to discover how innovation, mentorship, and community are redefining the funeral profession and why now is the time to support the leaders driving it forward. Key Topics: -Empowering women in the funeral profession -Mentorship and community supportz -Innovation in eco-friendly memorial products -Honoring legacy through artistry and tradition -Building confidence and leadership for future generations Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:20] Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Lisa Bowie at the CANA Convention to discuss empowering women in the funeral profession through Funeral Women Lead, leadership and wellness programs, and her new book Wake Up Calls. [04:41] Jennifer chats with Melissa about her role at Security National, her advocacy with Funeral Women Lead, and why supporting women entering the funeral and cremation profession matters. [08:50] Jennifer speaks with Darren from Passages about eco-friendly urns and burial products and innovative memorial tools that blend sustainability with remembrance. [19:34] Jennifer connects with Will and Hannah Laura from Cold Spring to explore the company's 127-year legacy in quarrying and bronze memorialization. [28:09] Outro Connect with Darren Crouch: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/darren-crouch-9a450236 Websites: passagesinternational.com (Company) Connect with Lisa Baue: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lisa-baue Websites: yourfuneralcoach.com (Company) Connect with Melissa Posey Loose: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/melissaploose Connect with Hannalora and Will: Website: https://coldspringusa.com/ Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

Sometimes the stories we carry are heavier than what the world ever sees. Sarah Cunningham McWilliams sits down with us to share a life marked by loss, resilience, and unexpected hope. From 14 miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies to surviving cancer in the middle of a global pandemic, she shows what it means to keep standing when life consistently knocks you on your ass. Sarah opens her heart about the quiet battles no one prepares you for, the humor that kept her sane, and the way nature and the sea became her refuge when words and medicine failed. She speaks about love, survival, and the small moments of light that pulled her through the darkest seasons. This is not just a story of pain or survival. It is about the courage to keep moving, the grace to laugh even in grief, and the reminder that strength often comes in the softest of forms. Tune in to hear a story of fierce grace from an Irish warrior woman that will irrevocably change the way you think about resilience and the hidden weight so many of us carry. Key Topics: -Enduring miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies with unspoken grief -IVF and its hidden toll on body and spirit -Confronting cancer while raising young children ..all in a worldwide pandemic -Holding on to humor as a shield in moments of deep pain -Finding refuge in sea swims, nature, and quiet resilience Quotes from the episode: "If you keep your inner voice negative, you will collapse. I had to keep saying "yes I can, yes I will." -Sarah Cunningham "I come from a long line of warrior women with soft hearts." -Sarah Cunningham "Life can look so amazing on the outside, but you never really know what's going on in the pains that are happening on the inside." -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:22] Sarah shares how her friendship with Jennifer, her struggles with miscarriage and illness, and the resilience of Irish women shaped her way of looking at life with humor and kindness. [08:52] Sarah opens up about living with permanent health struggles, multiple miscarriages, an ectopic pregnancy, and a difficult fertility journey in America that tested her strength.  [23:30] Sarah talks about turning to surrogacy after countless miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies. She endured a painful experience with a carrier yet found gratitude in her children while carrying the unseen pain behind what looked like a perfect family. [31:30] Sarah recalls how finding a lump led to a breast cancer diagnosis, life-saving surgery, and lasting effects.  [44:51] Sarah shares how medical negligence, unprocessed trauma, and years of battles left her with PTSD.  [52:51] Sarah reflects on how IVF drugs may have fueled her cancer, exposing the profit-driven side of healthcare. She endured harsh chemotherapy and relied on her inner strength, natural supports, and the will to survive for her family. [1:14:54] Outro Connect with Sarah Cunningham: Website: https://goodgrief.ie/ Email address: sazcmcw@hotmail.com Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if the moment that shaped your life happened when you were only twelve years old? In this inspiring conversation, Dr. Tanya Scotece shares her journey from the medical world to becoming a funeral director and embalmer, and now a professor leading the mortuary program at Miami Dade College. She opens up about how a single childhood experience at a wake sparked a fire that stayed with her for life, and how every step along the way became a lesson in courage and growth. Tanya talks about wearing sparkles as a reminder of her why, the reality of serving families in a profession that offers no second chances, and the importance of inspiring students who will become the funeral directors of tomorrow.  This is more than a career story. It is about following a calling, finding light in unexpected places, and reminding us that it is never too late to learn and begin again. Key Topics: -Finding purpose from a childhood experience that shaped a lifelong calling -Transitioning from the medical world to mortuary service with courage and faith -The meaning behind sparkles and how small symbols can carry deep purpose -Teaching and guiding students to serve families with compassion and integrity -Standing for dignity and truth through expert witness work in funeral law Quotes from the episode: "This isn't a do-over profession. You only have one chance to make a funeral right." -Tanya Scotece "These are the funeral directors of tomorrow, and the more resources they have, the better." -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:41] Dr. T opens up about her journey from a long career in medicine to discovering her true calling in funeral service. She shares how pursuing advanced education led her to become a professor and program coordinator for mortuary science at Miami Dade College, where she now guides future leaders in the profession. [13:34] Beyond the classroom, Dr. T has become a trusted expert witness in funeral law, standing beside families in times of grief and ensuring justice when wrongful practices occur. She reminds Jennifer that in this field ethics and integrity are everything because in death care there are no second chances. [21:03] Reflecting on her shift from industry to academia, Dr. T speaks about the diverse students who choose mortuary school, the many paths available in funeral service, and the joy she finds in inspiring others to keep learning and proving it is never too late to chase new dreams. [29:18] The conversation closes on a warm note as Tanya and Jennifer celebrate their bond. Together they share exciting opportunities for students such as celebrant training, memorial planning, and pet loss education while highlighting the power of collaboration, support, and nurturing the next generation of funeral directors [35:49] Outro Connect with Tanya Scotece: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tanya-scotece-ph-d-lfd-cfsp-🪄✨"dr-t"-a85a6226 Email: tanya8828@aol.com Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if we stopped judging grief and started honoring it instead? In this powerful episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, we sit down with Michaelene Dowers, a licensed funeral director, thanatologist, and founder of Pollen Care—a one-of-a-kind resource for children facing grief, from the loss of a parent to the pain of divorce or even the death of a pet. We open up about the hard conversations many avoid—how children process loss, why every type of grief matters, and the emotional cost of showing up for others in dark moments. We also explore why some families avoid holding services, how judgment sneaks into our grief culture, and the deeply personal ways loss can show up. From a missing stuffed goat to a life lost too soon. Michaellean shares how she curates books and tools to help kids and parents cope when words fall short, and why no loss, no matter how "small"—should ever be dismissed. Tune in to feel seen, understood, and reminded that no one's grief should be compared, measured, or ignored. Whether you're a parent, a professional, or someone who's simply loved and lost—this one will stay with you. Key Topics: -Children deserve honest tools to process grief -No loss is too small to be acknowledged -Judgment has no place in someone's mourning -Grief after tragedy needs care for all involved -Healing begins with presence, not pressure Quotes from the episode: "The grief is as real for a child as it is for an adult—it just looks different." -Michaelene Dowers "I don't understand this hierarchy of grief—why does it matter whose pain is worse?" -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:20] Michaelene Dowers, a funeral director and thanatologist, shares how she helps grieving families by carefully choosing books and resources for children based on their age, background, and the kind of loss they're facing.  [09:40] Michaelene and Jennifer talk about how grief often shows up in quiet, unexpected ways. They reflect on how parents make tough choices during painful times and how even small moments, like missing a funeral or losing a pet, can leave lasting marks on a child's heart. [16:09] The conversation opens up to the deeper truth that every kind of grief matters. Whether someone is grieving a person, a relationship, or even a cherished item, what they feel is real. [22:40] As they wrap up, they speak honestly about the emotional weight carried by those who work with grief every day. From tragic events like school shootings to heartbreaking family situations, Michaelene continues to offer comfort and hope through her work with Pollen Care, making sure no family feels alone. [28:09] Outro Connect with Michaelene Dowers: LinkedIn:linkedin.com/in/mdowers Websites - Pollen.Care (Company) Quietusbee.com (Company) Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if grief had no rules and love had no limits? In this deeply moving episode, We sit down with Lauren Seeley, a death educator and community death doula, to talk about the raw, real, and often misunderstood world of grief, loss, and end-of-life care. We talk about what it means to support people through the death of a beloved pet, how intuitive moments show up in the funeral space, and why honoring our own unique grieving process matters. Lauren opens up about her own funeral plans, the emotional work behind death care, and how spiritual connection can guide us through the hardest goodbyes. This isn't just about funerals—it's about love, presence, and the quiet power of being seen when it matters most. If you've ever loved and lost a human or animal, this conversation will speak straight to your heart. Tune in to hear stories, insights, and truths we often keep hidden and feel less alone in the process. Key Topics: -The emotional weight of pet loss -Why grief has no hierarchy -What a modern death doula really does -Intuition in the death care space -Pre-planning your own goodbye Quotes from the episode: "Sometimes having somebody step in, validate their feelings, help them make those decisions, can make a world of difference" -Lauren Seeley "We're all working in the space for one common goal and that is to help the bereaved to grieve and grieve well, and help the dead have a good death" -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:55] Lauren shares how she supports people through grief and end-of-life care for both humans and pets—guiding in-home euthanasia, planning ceremonies, and building deep, lasting relationships with grieving families. [08:38] She and Jen talk about the evolving role of death doulas, the emotional weight of the work, and the importance of blending holistic and traditional care as society becomes more open to conversations about grief and death. [16:37] Lauren opens up about her own funeral wishes, her work as a death educator, and how her intuitive gifts have grown through this work—something she now teaches others to recognize and trust. [21:11] She shares personal stories of spiritual signals during funerals and emphasizes how honoring intuition can bring comfort and deeper connection when supporting grieving families. [26:08] Outro Connect with Lauren Seeley: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lauren-seeley-19531a179 Instagram - @ahhsweetdeath Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What Really Happens Behind the Scenes in the Funeral Industry? Have you ever wondered what it's really like to work in death care? In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, I take you inside the Independent Funeral Directors of Florida Convention where I met the changemakers shaping the future of funerals. From AI-powered tribute videos to autopsy cases that reveal shocking truths, this episode is filled with raw and heartfelt stories. I spoke with funeral tech innovators, long-time directors, a scholarship-winning student, and a forensic pathologist whose second autopsies are changing lives. We dive into grief, regulation, compassion, second chances, and the deep humanity behind every service. This is not just about funerals. It is about people, purpose, and the power of doing meaningful work. Tune in to hear what no one tells you about the funeral world and why it matters more than ever. Key Topics: -The human side of funeral innovation -Serving families with compassion and clarity -Regulation, second chances, and doing the right thing -Finding purpose through grief and service -Stories that reveal the heart behind every farewell Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:32] We had a chat with Zach from Tukios to hear how his team evolved from creating tribute videos to building modern websites for funeral homes. He opens up about how they now use AI to restore photos, protect families from harmful content, and even support writing obituaries with care. [05:50] We talk with Earline Blumhagen, a licensed funeral director and print coordination specialist, who reflects on her 28-year journey in the funeral profession. Her dedication and wisdom shine through as she shares the heart behind her work. [11:44] We meet Darrell, a future funeral director whose passion for serving his community led him to this path. He opens up about how a professor's encouragement and a scholarship changed his life and deepened his calling. [12:48] We speak with Tyler from Repose, a platform that helps families plan funerals with ease and clarity. Tyler shares how Repose empowers families to compare options and connect with funeral homes that meet their needs. [15:34] We have a meaningful conversation with Crystal from Florida's funeral regulation board. She offers insight into how licensing decisions are made with both compassion and fairness and why standards matter so deeply in this work. [21:24] We chat with Heather, executive director of IFDF, who shares how she reimagined the annual convention into something truly special. She talks about creating a space where professionals feel seen, supported, and part of a caring community. [26:26] We close with Dr. Daniel, a forensic pathologist whose stories stay with you long after they're told. He shares moments from second autopsies that changed lives and one unforgettable case involving handwritten notes hidden inside a man's body—offering a glimpse into the powerful intersection of grief, truth, and healing [41:08] Outro Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper®️ AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh

What If We've Been Grieving All Wrong? How do we truly honor the people we love after they're gone? In this deeply moving episode, Jen sits down with Lauren from La Mort to talk about what most people don't know about death, grief, and connection. From the lost art of caring for our loved ones' bodies to the power of pen pals and handwritten letters, this conversation is full of stories that will make you reflect, feel, and maybe even rethink how we say goodbye. They open up about the emotional toll of modern funerals, the frustration of navigating corporate death care, and the healing that comes from choice, education, and community. Whether you've lost someone, are supporting someone who has, or simply want to understand grief on a deeper level, this is the conversation you didn't know you needed. Key Topics: -Reclaiming sacred death rituals -The emotional impact of COVID on connection -The power of tangible, embodied grief practices -The importance of informed choice in death care -Advocating for change and education in the funeral industry Quotes from the episode: "Taking care of our loved ones is not an easy task — death is a tangible thing." -Lauren Carroll "It's the bad eggs that don't want to innovate who give the whole industry a bad reputation." -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [01:02] Lauren shares how she moved from co-founding Deathwives to creating La Mort, a heartfelt collective that weaves together grief, art, and joy. [08:16] Lauren and Jen laugh about their shared clumsiness and reflect on how the pandemic changed human connection. Lauren talks about the importance of simple, tangible rituals like writing letters, being together in person, and caring for a loved one's body.  [18:38] The conversation turns to the power of giving families real choices around death care. Lauren and Jen explore how informed decisions can bring comfort and clarity in times of loss. [25:32] Together, they call for more education and open-mindedness in the funeral world. They highlight how listening to families and embracing innovation can transform the way we honor life  and death. [39:25] Outro Connect with Lauren Carroll: LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/lauren-carroll-deathwives Website - https://www.lamort.org/ Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What If Talking About Death Could Actually Bring Us Closer to Life? In this powerful and unexpectedly uplifting episode, we sit down with Gabrielle Gatto—death doula, cemetery educator, and creator of Grim Reaper Gossip—to talk about what it really means to face mortality with heart, humor, and humanity. Gabrielle opens up about working at Greenwood Cemetery during the pandemic, how she turned personal purpose into public healing, and why she believes we need to bring death back into everyday conversation. We talk about grief in all its forms—from the loss of a loved one to pet loss and unspoken sorrow—and how judgment has no place in healing. You'll hear stories of family, culture, legacy, and the small things—like a chocolate-scented lip balm or a keychain—that can make a lasting difference. Whether you're in the field of end-of-life care or simply human (yep, that's all of us), this conversation is a warm invitation to reimagine death as a natural, even beautiful, part of life. Tune in to hear why grief needs more compassion, why death work is a team effort, and how honest conversations—however awkward—can open the door to deeper love, purpose, and peace. Key Topics: -Working Through Grief at Greenwood -Finding Purpose Through Death Care -Normalizing Grief in All Its Forms -Community Over Competition in Death Work -Making Death Conversations Less Scary Quotes from the episode: "Death work is ancient work… we've been living as long as we've been dying." -Gabrielle Gatto "I may not be a licensed therapist, but I can still sit with someone in grief and be a vessel for them to pour into." -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:57] Gabrielle opens up about what it was like to work at Greenwood Cemetery during the height of the pandemic, sharing the emotional moments that shaped her and deepened her connection to the work. [09:28] She talks about how her love for family, culture, and meaningful connection led her to create Grim Reaper Gossip—a heartfelt, creative way to help people feel less afraid to talk about death. [19:12] Gabrielle and Jennifer dive into the many faces of grief, including pet loss and overlooked pain, and why it's so important to hold space for all of it without judgment—especially through honest, gentle conversations. [27:16] Together, they reflect on how everyone in death care—whether a doula, director, nurse, or friend—has a unique role to play, and how working together with respect and heart can truly support the people we serve. [37:14] Outro Connect with Gabrielle Gatto: LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/gabrielle-gatto-391677113 Instagram - @gabriellegatteaux Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if the most powerful way to process grief... wasn't with words, but with music? In this emotional and eye-opening episode, Jennifer sits down with violinist and music-for-healing expert Concetta, who shares her journey from wedding performer to creating personalized music ceremonies for funerals, memorials, and even hospice homes. From honoring lost loved ones to comforting families during their hardest moments, Concetta reveals how music becomes a voice when words fall short. They talk about living funerals, pet memorials, end-of-life rituals, and how music can bring people together—even in times of pain and conflict. You'll also hear honest stories about burnout, emotional boundaries, and the quiet signs that show up when you're truly present with grief. Tune in to hear a powerful conversation about healing, service, and the real meaning of celebration in life and death. If you've ever felt the weight of loss or wondered how to support someone grieving, this episode will stay with you long after the final note. Key Topics: -The healing power of music in grief -Personalizing farewells through sound -Navigating emotional burnout as a caregiver -Rituals for all forms of loss, not just death -Building connection through end-of-life ceremonies Quotes from the episode: "Music is not simply something in the background to create a vibe. It is really there to process the feelings and the emotions" -Concetta Abbate "Grief and loss aren't just specific to human life loss" -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [01:19] Concetta opens up about her lifelong relationship with the violin, how it led her into the deeply meaningful work of playing music at funerals, and the birth of her organization, Sound and Memory. She shares how music has become her way of helping people grieve together, honoring lives through heartfelt, personalized, and non-religious ceremonies. [11:29] Concetta and Jennifer explore the emotional weight that music carries—whether played live or recorded—and how it can touch something deeper in moments of loss. [19:52] They dive into how music softens tension, brings comfort to those facing anticipatory grief, and creates space for meaningful goodbyes—through personalized funerals, living celebrations, or even intimate hospice concerts at home. [30:08] The conversation expands beyond death itself. Concetta and Jennifer talk about how grief shows up in many forms and why we need rituals to help us move through all types of loss. They also reflect on the often-unseen emotional cost of caregiving. [40:21] They wrap with an honest look at the complexities of end-of-life work—from emotional burnout to the need for healthy boundaries and strong collaboration among professionals who support others through their most vulnerable times. [54:02] Outro Connect with Concetta Abbate: LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/concettaabbate Instagram - @concettallegra Website - https://www.concettaabbate.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/concetta.abbate/ Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

What if one small act of kindness could save a life? In this deeply moving episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, We sit down with Brent Pope—a former Rugby and TV pundit turned mental health advocate/super hero to many. Brent opens his heart about his own struggles with anxiety, depression, and grief, and how those battles inspired a global movement rooted in empathy. Through his "Elephant in the Room" project, he's brought powerful symbols of hope into workplaces, schools, and communities—reminding people that it's okay to not be okay, and even more okay to talk about it, especially coming from the world of sports. This conversation isn't just about mental health—it's about being human. It's about showing up for each other, meeting people where they are, and realizing that the most meaningful thing we can give someone is the feeling that they're not alone. Key Topics: -Opening up about mental health struggles and finding healing -The story behind the Elephant in the Room movement -How small acts of kindness can truly make a difference -Why time and connection matter more than anything -Creating safe spaces for honest conversations and real care Quotes from the episode: "The connections that you make in your life—that's what's most important" -Brent Pope "Tomorrow is not guaranteed, so pick up the phone, send the damn text, live your life, take the trip—do whatever you can to make your life that marginally bit happier." -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [03:01] Brent Pope opened up about his mental health journey and deep passion for art, sharing how a powerful moment on a construction site sparked the idea for a movement. [10:22] Reflecting on years of personal struggle and his path to becoming a psychotherapist, Brent explained how one honest conversation became the catalyst for a global effort to shift how we approach emotional support in workplaces and beyond. [20:35] Brent highlighted that real change in mental health culture doesn't start with policies—it starts with small, human moments of care, listening, and choosing to show up for one another. [32:22] Speaking with raw honesty, Brent reminded us that healing begins with how we treat ourselves and the people around us—with empathy, presence, and the courage to connect. [43:13] As the conversation came to a close, Brent urged listeners to stop waiting for "someday" and start living with intention—finding joy in the simple things and making time for what truly matters before it's too late. [46:52] Outro Connect with Brent Pope: LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/brent-pope-93a0323b Instagram -@popeapparel X- @RealBrentPope Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney chats with Allison Danger—a seasoned embalmer, funeral director, and now a Death Studies master's student—about her deeply personal and evolving relationship with death care. From the front lines of embalming to the quiet pages of academic research, Allison shares how a life-changing moment pushed her to dive deeper into understanding death, not just professionally, but personally. They talk about what it's like juggling work, motherhood, and studies, and how Allison still finds time for creativity—whether it's writing graphic novels, podcasting, or exploring big questions around humanity and grief through storytelling. Her passion for education shines through as she shares why she believes death needs to be part of everyday conversations, especially for younger generations. The two also dig into the digital future of memorialization, including AI and legacy tech, and the emotional weight that comes with preserving memories in such new ways. It's a thoughtful, raw, and inspiring conversation that reminds us how death can be a space for growth, connection, and even creativity. Key Topics: -From funeral work to deeper understanding of death -Turning personal loss into purpose -Balancing life with compassion and growth -Bringing honest talks about death to light -How tech shapes grief and connection Quotes from the episode: "We're really under-serving ourselves by not talking about death." -Allison Danger "I've realized that I'm less about the academic side of things than I am about the practicality of it." -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:46] Allison Danger opened up about her evolution from years in embalming to pursuing a master's in Death Studies. [08:41] With honesty and curiosity, Allison shared how her fascination with biology and her desire for meaning steered her away from traditional medicine and toward a calling that blends science, care, and research in death care. [15:27] She spoke candidly about the need to reclaim creativity just for joy, how the things we love can so easily become just another task if we don't protect them. [17:22] In a powerful reflection, Allison reminded us that healing and purpose often show up in unexpected places. And that even in grief and loss, there's room for connection and hope. [18:11] Through her work in graphic novels, Allison uses storytelling to explore profound questions about identity and existence, bringing depth and emotion to complex themes like transhumanism and digital legacies. [22:39] Allison raised powerful questions about the rise of AI in memorialization, reflecting on what it really means to preserve someone's digital self—and whether, in doing so, we might be avoiding the very grief that helps us heal. [25:30] Outro Connect with Allison Danger: Website- allisondanger.com Instagram - @allisondangerous X- @allydangerous Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh 

In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Laura Musselman of the Humane Prison Hospice Project to explore the often unseen world of end-of-life care behind bars. Through a powerful and deeply personal conversation, Laura shares how her journey through loss and grief led her to support incarcerated caregivers offering dignity to fellow inmates in their final days. The episode uncovers the human side of prison life that many overlook, where empathy, purpose, and community still thrive in the harshest environments. Laura and Jennifer reflect on the complexities of compassion, the weight of judgment, and why every person, regardless of their past, deserves to be seen and cared for. See also Jennifer's previous blog on the topic here https://www.theglamreaper.com/2025/03/a-life-sentence-is-death-sentencejust.html This conversation is a reminder that even in the most difficult circumstances, people are capable of profound kindness, and when given the chance, community gathers and they will rise to care for one another. Key Topics: -Finding purpose through grief and personal loss -The power of compassion behind prison walls -Honoring dignity and care at the end of life -Seeing the human beyond the sentence -How healing begins when we choose to care Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:46] Laura shared with Jen how personal loss and a calling to support life transitions drew her from teaching into end-of-life care in prisons, where she now works to restore dignity for aging and terminally ill inmates often forgotten by society. [07:09] She challenged the idea that care must be earned, telling Jen that compassion isn't a prize, it's a reflection of our shared humanity and the kind of society we want to be. [11:25] Laura emphasized that every person, even those behind bars, carries a story shaped by life experience, not just a sentence, and that offering care shouldn't depend on someone's perceived worth. [17:22] She reflected on witnessing deep empathy in the most unlikely places, reminding Jen that healing and purpose can thrive even in the darkest corners, if we allow space for it. [25:30] Laura explained how her team listens to each prison specific needs, training incarcerated peers with trauma-informed skills to provide compassionate care for fellow inmates facing aging, dementia, or death. [32:05] She described the trust-based, peer-led programs that bring meaning, responsibility, and connection to both caregivers and those nearing life's end, proof that humanity doesn't stop at prison walls. [38:59] Outro Check out a blog post on this also: https://www.theglamreaper.com/2025/03/a-life-sentence-is-death-sentencejust.html Connect with Laura Musselman: LinkedIn- linkedin.com/in/laura-musselman-3aa42174 Website - humaneprisonhospiceproject.org Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 The Glam Reaper® AMAZON Storefront - https://amzn.to/4hObpOh

In this (part 2 of 2) episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney reconnects with Sydney Tracy to continue their powerful conversation (Glam Reaper in the Wild Series!) at the annual conference of IAOPCC (International Association Of Pet Cemeteries & Crematories). This part focuses on the intriguing unseen lives of Latter-day Saint women. They dive into themes of faith, culture, and the layers of Sydney's beliefs, inviting you to look past the stereotypes and see the deeper stories that often go untold. Jennifer and Sydney talk openly about the portrayal of Mormon women in reality TV, touching on shows like Hulu's "Mom Talk," and how these narratives can shape misunderstandings. Sydney offers her perspective on modesty, church traditions, and the deeply rooted cultural and spiritual values of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Through her reflections, she helps bridge gaps in understanding, sharing insights into the church's history and dispelling myths with a message of love and acceptance. Join them for a heartfelt conversation on faith, culture, and the shared journey through life's ups and downs. Key Topics: -Exploring faith and culture with an open heart -Breaking down misunderstandings around beliefs -Honest reflections on how Mormon women are seen -Embracing love and acceptance in all differences -Finding strength through life's shared struggles Quotes from the episode: "If crying is what you need to do, then do it." -Sydney Tracy "I like to think the universe puts things in a certain way for me" -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:17] Sydney opens up about how cultural perspectives shape the way people view the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS). [06:01] Jennifer and Sydney share genuine concerns about how reality TV tends to portray the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. [12:41] Sydney thoughtfully shares her beliefs, highlighting the importance of understanding the true values behind the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. [18:26] With clarity and care, Sydney explains the Church's belief in the plan of salvation. [25:45] Jennifer and Sydney reflect together on the profound nature of grief. [31:56] Wrapping up, Jennifer and Sydney encourage listeners to stay curious, approach life with an open heart, and find joy in the everyday journeys and challenges. [33:53] Outro Connect with Sydney Tracy: Website - https://pawprintsonwoodland.com/about Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/sydney.r.tracy/?locale=ms_MY Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch - https://the-glam-reaper.printify.me/products Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145

This episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast is split into two parts - Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Sydney Tracy, a former elementary school teacher who now runs a pet cremation business in Arizona.  Paw Prints on Woodland, a pet cremation facility inspired by her grandfather's legacy, had Sydney returning to her hometown with a heart-centered mission to support grieving pet owners. Jennifer and Sydney are together (Glam Reaper in the Wild Series!) at the annual conference of IAOPCC (International Association Of Pet Cemeteries & Crematories) and during this episode they dive into what defines her work, and the emotional journey behind every service.  Sydney shares her insights on different types of grief—preemptive, sudden, and traumatic—highlighting the importance of patience and gentle support. Together, they remind us that healing isn't about replacing lost loved ones but creating space for new love while cherishing old memories. Catch this episode for a deep dive into the types of grief and the healing process when saying goodbye to a beloved pet. Key Topics: -Meet Sydney and her journey into the world of pet cremation -From teacher to comforter in times of loss -How compassion and strength create a safe space for grieving pet owners -Navigating the different types of grief and finding healing after loss -Sydney's heartfelt vision to grow her business and help more families Quotes from the episode:  "I don't believe in coincidences. I believe that there is a reason for everything that happens." -Sydney Tracy "I don't think that any adult goes through life or gets to the end of their life without multiple scars on their heart" -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:52] Sydney opens up about her unexpected path into pet cremation, drawing from her background in teaching and life experiences. [10:11] Jennifer and Sydney share a conversation on the emotional journey of pet loss. [14:57] They reflect on how adopting pets isn't about replacement but rather about making space in one's heart for more love. [17:01] Sydney shares her dreams of growing her pet cremation business and creating a space that truly meets her clients' needs. [20:22] Sydney thoughtfully weighs the benefits of fire cremation versus aquamation, considering what's best for her clients and business. [26:18] Jennifer and Sydney explore how client needs, location, and new methods of aftercare shape the future of their services. [28:05] Outro Connect with Sydney Tracy: Website - https://pawprintsonwoodland.com/about Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/sydney.r.tracy/?locale=ms_MY Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/Mu

In this inspiring episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Jeff Holcomb, a funeral director who's been in the industry for over 43 years. He's also the mind behind Continuing Vision, an educational platform for funeral professionals. What makes Jeff's story so powerful is the deeply personal journey behind his work. He created Continuing Vision in memory of his late son, Brian, building a legacy that continues to touch so many lives in the profession. Continuing education for funeral directors is very important, especially for those who can't attend the state or national conventions. Jeff's platform makes these invaluable resources accessible to everyone. He discusses the new mentorship program launched at the convention—something close to Jeff's heart—as it helps guide young professionals through the unique challenges they face.  This isn't just a podcast—it's a conversation that could change how you approach your work and life. Take a moment and tune in! Key Topics: -The heartfelt story behind Continuing Vision and family legacy -Launch of a mentorship program to support new funeral directors -Inclusivity through the celebrant program for all families -The future of Continuing Vision focused on learning and growth Quotes from the episode:  "We want it to be a safe place for for these young people that there's no judgment" -Jeff Holcomb "Inclusion, diversity, and just making sure everyone's seen and heard. And that's really what it's about, serving the families at the end of the day" -Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:19] Jeff shared the origin and purpose of the Continuing Vision company. [04:00] Jeff elaborated on the personal meaning behind the name "Continuing Vision," explaining how it reflects both the importance of continuing education for funeral professionals and the fight to restore the vision of their children. [06:06] Jeff introduced the launch of a new mentorship program, designed to pair seasoned funeral professionals and educators with mentees. [08:41] Jennifer and Jeff emphasized the importance of creating a safe, judgment-free space for young funeral professionals in the mentorship program, where they can seek guidance without fear of criticism or anger from their superiors. [09:53] Jeff discussed how their partnership in the celebrant program will be a game-changer for offering meaningful services. [11:55] Outro Connect with Jeff Holcomb: Website - https://www.continuingvision.com/the-morticians-blog LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/jeff-holcomb-194b8615 Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennifermuldowney/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@therealglamreaper YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheGlamReaperMuldowney LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermuldowney/ Facebook Page Memorials - https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Shop Merch -

In this captivating episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, host Jennifer Muldowney, aka The Glam Reaper, takes listeners on a journey through New York City's darker history with the brilliant K. Krombie, a British author, freelance writer, journalist, and founder of Purefinder New York. All while sitting in Central Park!! Krombie is renowned for her deeply researched walking tours that shine a light on the city's untold stories of death and cemeteries. Jennifer and Krombie dive into the fascinating world of burials in the Big Apple, spanning over 400 years of history. Together, they discuss Krombie's book, Death in New York: History and Culture of Burials, Undertakers and Executions, and explore the mismanagement of death in Manhattan, from overcrowded cemeteries to forgotten burial grounds. They also uncover how epidemics, riots, and even forgotten skeletons have shaped the city's landscape and reflect on the ongoing challenges of honoring the dead in a space-challenged metropolis. Whether you're a history buff or simply curious about New York's hidden past, this episode will transport you to a side of the city you've never seen before. Don't miss this insightful conversation packed with forgotten tales, burial scandals, and thought-provoking discussions about life and death in the concrete jungle. Tune in now to learn about the past that's still buried beneath New York's streets! Key Topics: -History of cemeteries and honoring the deceased -Epidemics and changes in burial practices -Cemetery belt and space for loved ones -Grave robberies and respect for remains -Krombie's book and tours on death and legacy Awesome facts from the episode:  Washington Square Park holds a secret: There are approximately 20,000 bodies buried beneath it, a result of yellow fever epidemics in the 1800s. Grave robbing was a serious issue in New York: In 1788, a riot broke out when student doctors were caught stealing bodies from cemeteries for dissection, leading to legal reforms. In the 1700s, drinking water in New York often flowed through graveyards, including a fountain at Trinity Church, contributing to cholera outbreaks. Seneca Village, located in what is now Central Park, was a black settlement in the 1820s with churches and burial grounds, many of which remain under the park today. The Bone Bill of 1854 allowed unclaimed bodies, particularly vagrants, to be dissected by medical students, a law that remained in place until it was finally amended in 2016. Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:59] Jennifer and Krombie focused on the fascinating history of cemeteries and death management in New York City. [05:23] Jennifer and Krombie talk about the extensive cemetery belt in Queens and personal experiences of exploring cemeteries during lockdown. [08:45] Jennifer and Krombie recounted experiences at a haunted funeral convention in Savannah, Georgia, and explored the history of grave robbing in New York City. [12:13] Krombie covered a grim historical event where a student doctor in 1788 provoked a riot by claiming a dismembered arm belonged to a boy's recently deceased mother. [15:01] Jennifer and Krombie reflected on how much there is to learn about death and burial practices. [18:42] Krombie shared their various tours in New York. [22:41] Outro Connect with K.Krombie: Website - https://www.purefindernewyork.com/ Twitter/X - @KKrombie Promotional code to get 15% discount: Glamreaper

Sweta Vikram, a renowned Author, Doctor of Ayurveda, Speaker, and Professor, sits down with Jennifer, The Glam Reaper to discuss grief and the profound journey to healing. Sweta shares her personal experiences of losing her father and father-in-law, offering an intimate look at the initial stages of mourning. The discussion highlights the significance of treating those who are grieving with compassion and understanding. Jennifer and Sweta explore the unique nature of grief, underscoring the importance of recognizing each individual's grieving experience. They also address the impact of unresolved grief on both mental and physical health, stressing the need to avoid labeling those who are grieving as simply strong or resilient. Tune in to understand the unique and individual nature of grief and why it's crucial to recognize it! Key Topics: -Personal loss stories reveal deep emotions -Essential ways to support grieving families -Yoga and Ayurveda secrets for funeral directors -Understanding unique grief reactions at funerals -Hidden dangers of unresolved grief in the funeral industry Quotes  From The Episode:  "The grief also brings around this dark side in us. No one talks about that, because the world we live in, we are just supposed to discuss highlighted reels of our lives" - Sweta Vikram "Often times a stranger can be more kind to you and your grief space, where you're in your grief than your friends and your family"  - Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [03:42] Sweta shared her personal experience of losing her father and father-in-law. [06:23] Jennifer highlighted the importance of treating people who are grieving. [08:48] Sweta emphasized the transformative impact of Yoga and Ayurveda on mental self-reliance. [11:41] Jennifer discussed the importance of recognizing the unique and individual nature of grief. [14:31] Jennifer and Sweta talk about the impact of unresolved grief on mental and physical health. [17:59] Sweta stressed the importance of not labeling those who are grieving as strong or resilient. [20:46] Jennifer delves into the importance of self-care and clear communication in dealing with grief. [24:53] Jennifer and Sweta highlighted the importance of preserving the memory of loved ones through actions. [30:06] Sweta  shared insights from her book "The Loss that Binds Us". [35:53] Outro Connect with Sweta Vikram: LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/swetavikram Website - swetavikram.com  Instagram - @swetavikram Twitter/X - @swetavikram Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:  Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Instagram - @muldowneymemorials  Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw

In this episode of the Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer has a thoughtful conversation with Kevin Toolis, a writer and BAFTA-winning filmmaker, as they dive into the often overlooked aspects of death and the rituals that surround it. Kevin shares stories from his Irish and Scottish roots, reflecting on how these cultural traditions have shaped his views on life and death. He introduces the Irish wake, a communal and therapeutic practice that offers a striking contrast to modern funeral customs. Drawing from his book, My Father's Wake, Kevin reveals how the open nature of Irish wakes provides a space for grieving and healing, emphasizing the importance of properly honoring the dead. Tune in to explore the timeless rituals that influence our understanding of life, death, and the healing power of communal grief. Key Topics: -Kevin Toolis shares his deep cultural roots and family history -The healing power of the Irish wake in grief -How modern funeral practices change our way of grieving -The comforting role of keening in collective mourning -The keening festival's efforts to keep these rituals alive Quotes  From The Episode:  "The first best hope of life is that you will be born into a family and people who will love you and the last best hope of life is that you will die within a community who will love you too" - Kevin Toolis "We kind of are born into this world, naked, with no shame, no guilt, you know nothing, and then we go back basically naked"  - Jennifer Muldowney Timestamp: [00:00] Podcast Intro [00:23] Kevin shares insights about his Irish and Scottish heritage, his life on Achill Island, and his book on the traditional Irish wake. [05:28] Kevin elaborates on his book "My Father's Wake: How the Irish Teach Us to Live, Love, and Die. [09:36] Jennifer reflects on the complexities of Irish attitudes toward death and funerals. [15:17] Kevin contrasts the differences between Irish and English funeral practices. [17:29] Jennifer shares her perspective on the importance of modernizing the Irish wake to create personalized. [20:02] Kevin discussed the ancient and cross-cultural tradition of keening. [25:22] Kevin conveyed that the Keening Festival was a tremendous success. [27:15] Kevin emphasized that the festival is designed to be participatory rather than academic. [28:50] Outro Connect with Kevin Toolis: LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/kevin-toolis-43a48912 Website - www.wondersofthewake.com Instagram - @thewondersofthewake Twitter/X - @KevinToolis Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kevin.toolis/ Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper on socials at:  Facebook Page - Memorials https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/ Instagram - @muldowneymemorials  Email us - glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com Listen to The Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw