This episode is HOT!
We loved to talk about desire and pleasure and we know you'll get a lot from this one. If you're interested to work with Neil or Jamie in groups or 1:1 click to connect with us. Enjoy us talking about:
- Losing respect for people who love us as a result of low self-esteem
- The power of someone believing in you
- Receiving love, praise and pleasure
- Design flaw no1. We de-value availability and value scarcity. We take things for granted. We get hooked on mixed message people!
- Practicing letting in feedback
- Being embarrassed about our desires
- Practicing saying "You're welcome" and owning our work
- Receiving sexual pleasure as a choice - taking it in turns to wash each others feet with eye contact
- Neil's Birthday experience of receiving
- How much noise do we make - is this manipulation?
- Playing with shadows - Caring Kink - eroticising being punished
- Slowing down and building trust before rushing to kink
- Neil shares how he nearly died by rushing in!
- Maintaining erotic energy in long term relationships (Esther Perell - Mating In Captivity)
- How much to share, how boundaries begin with our own brain and mouth
- Using attunement to discern projection from truth
- Design flaw of humans no2. When we need our wits about us are usually the times when its the hardest
- Need vs Longing - using NVC effectively
- Desire is the root of suffering - only when its overly attached to outcome
- Embracing boredom - Feeling fulfilled in ourselves
- Chocolate Mouse as a magical substance
...And so much more!
Welcome to The Gentle Village, a place for us to connect, knowing we don't have to do it all alone. A safe space to explore Relationships. Vulnerabilities, Curiosities, Courage and a deeper connection with Life and Love in 2024
In this podcast, Jamie Catto (Musician, Film-maker and author of Insanely Gifted) and Neil Morbey (Mindfulness and Relationship Coach, Intimacy and Kink Workshop Facilitator) talk about topics of relationships with a focus on attachment, polyamory, monogamy, vulnerability, basic needs, boundaries, trauma and support.
If you'd like us to discuss something please send questions to neil@positively-mindful.com and jamie@jamiecatto.com
