We are back, after a few months pause. In this episode we discuss: Learned Secure Attachment

• Neil's changing attachment strategies
• Over-Sharing vs Mutual Care
• Emotional dumping, lubricating with logic
• Speech, language our lens of awareness
• Deserving and privilege
• Helping ourselves and others from Victim mindset using tentative offerings
• Rupture and repair
• Labelling and pigeon-hole-ing
• Triggers
• The damage of having your phone on you
• Asking what kind of response the other wants
• Conditional love and holding the other to ransom - Responsibility fascism
• Too much expectation vs having clear standards

- Workshops, courses and 1:1 coaching at ⁠⁠Positively-Mindful.com: ⁠⁠ by Neil Morbey

- Courses and other offerings at ⁠⁠jamiecatto.com ⁠⁠by Jamie Catto

Welcome to The Gentle Village, a place for us to connect, knowing we don't have to do it all alone. A safe space to explore Relationships. Vulnerabilities, Curiosities, Courage and a deeper connection with Life and Love in 2024

In this podcast, ⁠⁠⁠Jamie Catto (⁠⁠⁠Musician, Film-maker and author of Insanely Gifted) and⁠⁠⁠ Neil Morbey ⁠⁠⁠(Mindfulness and Relationship Coach, Intimacy and Kink Workshop Facilitator) talk about topics of relationships with a focus on attachment, polyamory, monogamy, vulnerability, basic needs, boundaries, trauma and support. 

If you'd like us to discuss something please send questions to ⁠⁠⁠neil@positively-mindful.com⁠⁠⁠ and jamie@jamiecatto.com