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The Gender Knot
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far
94 episodes
6 months ago
A Time Magazine Top 50 podcast: “The show serves an important purpose: Encouraging men and women to enter a productive dialogue with one another”. Hosted by Nas and Dan (aka Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll). Contact: thegenderknot@gmail.com
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A Time Magazine Top 50 podcast: “The show serves an important purpose: Encouraging men and women to enter a productive dialogue with one another”. Hosted by Nas and Dan (aka Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll). Contact: thegenderknot@gmail.com
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The Gender Knot
The Orgasm Cult: BBC Radio 4 podcast – subscribe!
2021 is giving 2020 a run for it’s money… sorry we’ve been away, but want to point you to a investigative podcast Nas put out recently for BBC Radio 4.

It’s called The Orgasm Cult and looks at a Californian wellness company focusing on female sexuality called One Taste. Gwyneth Paltrow and Tim Ferris were fans. Except there are allegations it may be a sex cult. And the FBI is making enquiries.

The podcast goes into questions about why women turn to wellness, the search for community and purpose in a secular age, and where exactly is the line between healing and harm.

It’s on all major podcast platforms, or get listening right now here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p08xzk5h
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4 years ago
5 minutes

The Gender Knot
Victim blaming: how to not do it and how to be supportive instead
We’re back with a bonus hiatus episode and we’re talking about victim blaming, especially as it pertains to sexual assault. This is when a victim of an alleged assault is blamed, ranging from being asked what they were wearing, if they’d drunk alcohol, all the way to people not believing their story. Sometimes friends also don’t know how to handle the situation so either engage in victim blaming or simply disappear.



Nas recently made a documentary exploring the reasons behind victim blaming, and interviewed the NY Times’ Megan Twohey and Jodi Kantor, who broke the Harvey Weinstein story, as well as Gender Knot favourites Dr Mithu Sanyal and Dr Jackson Katz. Check it out here for background: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/w3csyv0q



In this episode Nas and Dan talk about ways we can help victims instead. We’d also like to know your experiences if you’ve been in this scenario, as either a victim or someone being told of an assault, and any tips you have for how to help victims.



We also talk about an excellent podcast from Slate you should check out called Man Up... check it out here: https://slate.com/podcasts/man-up



We’re on hiatus and will be back with a new season in March. Keep writing to us until then.





Hosts:

Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll



Producers:

Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell



Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com



https://www.thegenderknot.com/





Music: Government Funded Weed by Black Ant (used under Creative Commons)
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5 years ago
32 minutes

The Gender Knot
Liz Plank: are we too mean about men?
We close season 6 with journalist Liz Plank. She’s just written a book about mindful masculinity and tells us about the general scripts we have about men and if these help or hinder our wider conversations. We then delve into her thoughts more.

We will be back with a new season in March 2020, and will pop up for some bonus episodes in January and February – share the show, leave reviews and write to us until then! And happy 2020!

Guest:
Liz Plank, journalist and author of ‘For the Love of Men: a vision for mindful masculinity’ http://www.elizabethplank.com/

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Co-producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

https://www.thegenderknot.com/

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5 years ago
50 minutes

The Gender Knot
Apologies – final round
We revisit this important topic just once more to really hammer out the purpose of an apology and some dos and don’ts.

We get some tips and insight from Harriet Lerner’s book ‘Why won’t you apologize?’ https://amzn.to/38hWsBz

As well as some wisdom from Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg’s powerful twitter threads which you can delve into further here http://bit.ly/344bnMg and here http://bit.ly/38nOszc

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Co-producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Write to us at thegenderknot@gmail.com
www.thegenderknot.com

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5 years ago
25 minutes

The Gender Knot
Esther Perel on what women can do
We talk a lot about what men can be doing right now, but we revisit a chat with Esther Perel on what women can be doing right now, and how we can all best be allies to one another.

Guest:
Esther Perel, therapist, author of ‘Mating in Captivity’ and ‘The State of Affairs’, host of the podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How’s work?

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Co-producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Write to us at thegenderknot@gmail.com
www.thegenderknot.com

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5 years ago
42 minutes

The Gender Knot
Consent with Ellen Friedrichs
Everyone’s talking more about consent but where does this start? Educator Ellen Frederichs joins us to chat about how consent starts with kids and why we all need to be more specific about our experiences.

Guest:
Ellen Frederichs, educator and author of ‘Good Sexual Citizenship: how to create a (sexually) safer world” https://www.sexedvice.com/good-sexual-citizenship

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

https://www.thegenderknot.com/

Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

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5 years ago
31 minutes

The Gender Knot
Apologies with Hussein Kesvani
Journalist Hussein Kesvani writes a lot about the internet, and about masculinity, and about the intersection of the two. He recently interviewed people about apologies in a piece for The Huffington Post, focusing on men and their understanding of an apology and if many men have been taught how to give one.

He was inspired after Aziz Ansari’s attempt at one with his recent Netflix show ‘Right Now’, which is when we at The Gender Knot also delved into this same question a few weeks ago.

He joins us to explore this further, and we also re-visit Eve Ensler’s book ‘The Apology’ during our conversation.

Check out Hussein's article on men and apologies for the Huffington Post http://bit.ly/2CSjn8g

Guest:
Hussein Kesvani: journalist, Europe editor at Mel magazine, and author of 'Follow me, Akhi: the online world of British Muslims' - buy it here: https://amzn.to/2OnMgOK and more on Hussein here: https://twitter.com/HKesvani

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Co-producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Write to us at thegenderknot@gmail.com
www.thegenderknot.com

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5 years ago
34 minutes

The Gender Knot
Dan Savage’s tips for straight couples
We re-visit some wisdom from the sex and relationship advice columnist and host of the Savage LoveCast Dan Savage, who tells us what straight couples can learn from same sex couples.

Guest:
Dan Savage, sex and relationship advice columnist and Savage Lovecast host

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Co-producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Write to us at thegenderknot@gmail.com
www.thegenderknot.com

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6 years ago
38 minutes

The Gender Knot
Liz Plank on women who support Trump
Journalist and author of the book ‘For the Love of Men: a vision for mindful masculinity’ tells us about meeting women who support who Trump, and what this tells us about our attitudes towards men and the role women play in upholding these. We also find out about Dan’s backstory on this show, and how we can all take things a bit less personally.

Also, the Grace Digital Founders Campus app has all the tools female business founders need to succeed. Go and pledge your support here: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/grace-digitalcampus/grace-digital-founders-campus


Guest:
Liz Plank, journalist and author of ‘For the Love of Men: a vision for mindful masculinity’ http://www.elizabethplank.com/

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

https://www.thegenderknot.com/

Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Music: Government Funded Weed by Black Ant (used under Creative Commons)
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6 years ago
23 minutes

The Gender Knot
Author Jeannie Vanasco interviewed her rapist
We’re back with Season 6. We talk to author Jeannie Vanasco who interviewed a friend from her teenage years who raped her 15 years ago. Vanasco got in touch with him to find out if and how the rape impacted him, and wrote about it in her new book ‘Things we didn’t talk about when I was a girl’. We talk to her about the role we all play in supporting victims, holding perpetrators accountable and how to make apologies.

Also, support the Grace Digital Founders Campus app with all the tools female business founders need to succeed https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/grace-digitalcampus/grace-digital-founders-campus

Guest:
Jeannie Vanasco, author of ‘Things we didn’t talk about when I was a girl’ https://www.jeannievanasco.com/

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com and https://www.thegenderknot.com/

Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

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6 years ago
38 minutes

The Gender Knot
Emotional Labour Returns!
We're back with a bonus episode during our hiatus to discuss an email we received about none other than everyone's favorite topic: Emotional Labour! Is emotional labour gendered? Or should we just all focus on doing the right thing and stop segmenting these problems as male or female?

Hosts and producers:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Co-producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
17 minutes

The Gender Knot
Imperfect allies – repeat
We revisit a conversation from earlier this year where we explored how men can be allies if their behaviour towards women has been problematic. Our guest Omar talks about being called out and having to question his role as an ally.

We’re on hiatus until October, we’ll be back with another episode before then.

Guests:

Omar Aziz, co-host of The Samovar Network podcast http://www.thesamovarnetwork.com/podcast/

Hosts and producers:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Co-producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
30 minutes

The Gender Knot
Apologies are hard
From Aziz Ansari to Eve Ensler to why on earth apologies are so hard, we dive in and also discuss the best way to give an apology.

We’re on hiatus and will be back with a new season in October. Another bonus episode will be out next month.

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Eve Ensler on WTF with Mark Maron http://www.wtfpod.com/podcast/episode-1028-eve-ensler

Nas’ radio documentary about Emotional Labour https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/w3csytzd

Louis Theroux’s documentary ‘The Night in Question’ https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m000327c/louis-theroux-the-night-in-question

Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
23 minutes

The Gender Knot
Mark Manson’s tips for men
We end season 5 by hearing Mark Manson’s tips for men during these confusing times, including how men can help each other out and his predictions about how we'll all get along in the future.

Check out his new book ‘Everything is fucked: A book about hope’ and catch him on his speaking tour, more details here https://markmanson.net/speaking-tour

We are going on hiatus until October, and we'll be back with a bonus episode every few weeks until then. Have a great summer!

Guest:
Mark Manson, author https://markmanson.net/

New book ‘Everything is Fucked: A book about hope: order it here https://markmanson.net/books


Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
21 minutes

The Gender Knot
Vulnerability – final round
You’ve been writing to us about vulnerability following our previous two rounds and we’re going to delve into your thoughts and experiences. This journey started with us talking about men and vulnerability in relationships. Now we want to know if vulnerability culture is useful at all, and how does it benefit or hold back men and women differently.

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
25 minutes

The Gender Knot
Matt Stadlen on men talking about sex
LBC radio host Matt Stadlen joined us to chat vulnerability recently. This time we go into men talking about sex: how much and how do men really talk about sex and how does this impact their relationships?

Guest:
Matt Stadlen, journalist and LBC radio host, tune into his show here: https://www.lbc.co.uk/radio/presenters/matt-stadlen/


Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
36 minutes

The Gender Knot
How do we talk about rape?
Author of the book ‘Rape’ Mithu Sanyal fills us in on ways we can approach talking about rape and giving support, and why consent culture is tricky in societies where we are taught not to express our needs and desires clearly in the first place.

Guest:
Mithu Sanyal, author of the book ‘Rape: from Lucretia to #MeToo’, get a copy here https://amzn.to/2WrqnEi


Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
31 minutes

The Gender Knot
Vulnerability Round 2
We recently talked to LBC’s Matt Stadlen about vulnerability and how especially men can struggle with this in relationships. We delve back in and also hear your thoughts and experiences with opening up.

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
20 minutes

The Gender Knot
Mark Manson on modern life
The hit author talks about his new book ‘Everything is fucked: A book about hope’, and how technology and choice are impacting how we live and make decisions on the modern world.

Mark is also off on a speaking tour, head here to check out dates and details https://markmanson.net/speaking-tour

Guest:
Mark Manson, author https://markmanson.net/

New book ‘Everything is fucked’ out on 14th May, order here https://markmanson.net/books

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Additional links:
Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
35 minutes

The Gender Knot
Matt Stadlen on Vulnerability
This week, LBC's Matt Stadlen joins us to talk about vulnerability. We try to uncover some of the reasons why men and women have a hard time opening up, especially in intimate relationships. Be sure to check out Matt's show on LBC: https://www.lbc.co.uk/radio/presenters/matt-stadlen/

We’d love your experiences and to talk about this topic more so please write to us at thegenderknot@gmail.com

Hosts:
Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll

Producers:
Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell

Nas’ BBC documentary on emotional labour
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/w3csytzd

Patreon page – support the podcast for the cost of a coffee!
https://www.patreon.com/thegenderknot

Write to us at: thegenderknot@gmail.com

The Gender Knot podcast and Facebook Group
https://www.thegenderknot.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/182851532302085/

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6 years ago
43 minutes

The Gender Knot
A Time Magazine Top 50 podcast: “The show serves an important purpose: Encouraging men and women to enter a productive dialogue with one another”. Hosted by Nas and Dan (aka Nastaran Tavakoli-Far and Daniel Carroll). Contact: thegenderknot@gmail.com