We all have things our spouse does that cause minor irritations. But do those things need to cause fights and quarrels? In this 5-Minute Friday, Monty and Jeannine Mora discuss the difference between overlooking small differences or working through a difficult problem.
It is to our advantage to focus on forgiveness rather than dwelling on the wrong our spouse has done to us. Whether the offense against us is small and easy to forgive, or just a quirky preference that your spouse has. "Don't sweat the small stuff."
Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
In this powerful episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, hosts Monty and Jeannine Mora dive deep into one of the most common challenges couples face: conflict in marriage. When two people with different personalities, backgrounds, and communication styles come together, marriage conflict is inevitable—but it doesn't have to be destructive.
Monty and Jeannine explore 6 essential factors that influence how couples resolve conflict, and how these factors can make or break your relationship. Whether you’re newlyweds or have been married for years, this episode offers practical relationship advice for navigating disagreements, improving marital communication, and building a stronger emotional connection.
Marriage requires intentional effort, self-awareness, and a willingness to grow—both as individuals and as a team. Learn how to create a healthy foundation for your marriage through effective conflict resolution, understanding, and love.
“Perception is reality—except when different expectations are thrown in. When you get clarity, you can go, ‘We’re almost at the same spot’.” – Tony DiLorenzo - ONE Extraordinary Marriage
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Many spouses place unhealthy pressure on their partner by transferring their identity on each other. In this 5-Minute Friday, Monty and Jeannine Mora help couples not to place unhealthily burdens on each other when it comes their identity. God created marriage so both the husband and wife can grow together, while you continue growing independent identities as well. Communication and maintaining a sense of personal autonomy can often be essential pieces of the marriage puzzle.
Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
In this powerful Friday Favorite episode, Monty and Jeannine Mora bravely break the silence around the reality of negative narratives that can spiral in the mind—especially during seasons of marital crisis.
Both Monty and Jeannine share their personal journeys through marital distress, during which each of them grappled with suicidal thoughts.
They speak candidly about how destructive inner voices can feel absolutely real, painting scenarios of despair and hopelessness.
Despite these darkest moments, they show listeners how to step out of that cycle of pain, offering a message of tangible hope.
Negative narratives are real—but they don’t have to be permanent.
One perspective shift—grounded in support, truth, and divine hope—can change everything.
Your marriage is worth fighting for, and transformation is possible—even in the hardest seasons.
Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
This episode is not just a conversation—it’s a lifeline. If you’ve ever felt isolated, ashamed, or overwhelmed by your own thoughts, this message is especially for you: You are not alone. There is hope. There is help.
If you or someone you care about is experiencing suicidal thoughts:
Call or text 988 (in the U.S.)
Visit www.988lifeline.org for support
In this special cross‑podcast episode, Monty and Jeannine Mora of The Favorite Marriage Podcast join hosts Frank & Lisa on The Be Encouraged Show to unpack what it truly means to build a marriage aligned with God’s design—not shaped by personal preferences or cultural norms. They walk through the foundational principles of a God-honoring marriage, rooted in God’s and unchanging design—regardless of age, background, or marital stage.
They share how marriage becomes a character-building journey. Referencing Gary Thomas’s Sacred Marriage, they describe how God uses the everyday challenges and joys of marriage to deepen faith and sanctify hearts.
Coming soon - Monty and Jeannine will be upcoming guests on Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley. "They are reaching millions of couples through their counseling practices, books, events, and work at Focus on the Family. "
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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2025.
"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/
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In this brief episode, Monty and Jeannine invite couples to courageously share their love story—both the peaks and the valleys—with others. They remind listeners:
That your personal journey of love isn’t just yours—it has the potential to ignite hope and strengthen other couples.
Sharing your story creates connection, transparency, and encouragement for others who may feel unseen in their own struggles or celebrations.
It helps de‑mystify marriage by showing the messy, real-world beauty—the stumbles, the pivots, the trials and triumphs that shape deeper intimacy.
Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
Welcome to this week’s 5-Minute Friday episode on The Favorite Marriage Podcast! In this short but powerful episode, Monty and Jeannine talk about how to overcome the cycle of pain in your marriage by allowing God to re-write your love story.
Why it matters:
Pain unaddressed makes healing impossible — but when we lean on divine grace, love finds a way forward.
In this brief but impactful episode, you'll walk away equipped with hope, clarity, and actionable wisdom to turn the page on past wounds.
Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
Let’s be real—anyone can love during the highlight reel seasons. In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty & Jeannine talk about the importance of your love story and why it matters. Your love story isn’t just made in the mountaintop moments—it’s forged in the valleys, the pivots, the unexpected plot twists. They remind every married couple that your story, YOUR unique love story, has value. Not just to you—but to others. Your kids. Your circle. And your legacy.
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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2025.
"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/
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Marriage is a mystery to be discovered, not to the solved. In this 5-Minute Friday, Monty and Jeannine speak to the idea of why your marriage is a mystery and how together, you can discover the beauty of it daily.
If you are craving a quick, meaningful moment to reflect and grow—listen now and turn curiosity into clarity!
Just 5-minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
How do you crack the marriage code for a life-long relationship? In this episode, Monty & Jeannine invite you to join in on a message they shared at Restoration Church in Colorado Springs, Colorado. They unveil three powerful secrets rooted in experience and God's word, so that you and your spouse can put into practice tonight.
In this episode, you'll learn why...
1. Marriage is a mystery
2. Marriage takes hard work
3. Your marriage matters to God
Whether you’re newlywed or seasoned in the journey, this episode promises insight and tools to help your relationship flourish.
Tune in and let these three keys unlock the code of a marriage built to last.
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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2025.
"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/
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In this 5-Minute Friday marriage motivation, we unlock the profound meaning behind your wedding ring! Discover how this simple band embodies not just tradition, but lasting love, loyalty, and connection.
Your wedding ring isn’t just about jewelry—it’s a powerful reminder of your marriage’s foundation. Get inspired to see your ring as more than metal—it’s a daily catalyst for deeper love, responsibility, and unity.
Credit to Dave Willis - Why Wedding Rings Matter More than You Think - By Dave Willis
https://xomarriage.com/articles/why-wedding-rings-matter-more-than-you-think/
Are you stuck pointing fingers—and stuck in pain? In this 5-Minute Friday, we hear an incredible story of how a married couple broke free from the blame game. The blame game is what keeps couples locked in conflict and sabotages the relationship.
If blame has become your default, this episode gives you a roadmap out. You’ll learn how to take responsibility without shame, and what it looks like to heal—together.
Just 5-minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
In this episode of The Favorite Marriage, Monty and Jeannine interview Chris and Jennifer Lancaster, a couple who transformed their marriage from a path of partying and substance use to one of purpose, faith, and sobriety. Married for over 20 years, they share their candid story of struggle, redemption, and the pivotal role that community and faith played in their journey.
Whether you're looking to build deeper connection or seeking guidance through challenges, this episode offers insights to help you thrive together.
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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2025.
"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/
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In this episode of The Favorite Marriage, Monty and Jeannine interview Chris and Jennifer Lancaster, a couple who transformed their marriage from a path of partying and substance use to one of purpose, faith, and sobriety. Married for over 20 years, they share their candid story of struggle, redemption, and the pivotal role that community and faith played in their journey.
Whether you're looking to build deeper connection or seeking guidance through challenges, this episode offers insights to help you thrive together.
🔗 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoy this episode — and don't forget to follow The Favorite Marriage Podcast for weekly relationship insights that are real, fun, and deeply helpful.
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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2025.
"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/
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This Father's Day weekend, we delve deep into the often-overlooked journey of healing father wounds. In this 5-Minute Friday, Monty shares about the deep father wounds he experienced as a young man and how God healed his relationship with his dad. If your father was physically absent, emotionally distant, or present but emotionally unavailable, these wounds can profoundly shape our sense of self-worth, marriage relationship, and our parenting.
Join us as we honor the complexities of fatherhood and embark on a journey toward healing and wholeness.
Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
Welcome to this week’s 5-Minute Friday episode on The Favorite Marriage Podcast! In this short but powerful episode, Tye and Lisa Taylor dive into the time-tested marriage advice that helped them stay connected, resilient, and in love throughout over 30 years of military life in the U.S. Air Force. Whether you're a newlywed, military couple, or navigating the ups and downs of a long-term relationship, their insight offers a practical and transformative shift in mindset that can strengthen your marriage starting today.
Drawing from real-life experience and decades of commitment, Tyle and Lisa share one simple yet powerful truth that kept their relationship thriving under pressure—wisdom that can help couples everywhere build a stronger emotional connection, improve communication, and deepen trust.
Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.
Military life means constant change—new bases, new communities, and evolving roles. Military marriages thrive when both partners learn to adapt quickly and support each other through transitions. In this inspiring episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine sit down with Tye and Lisa Taylor, a remarkable couple who have navigated the highs and lows of a military marriage for over three decades. With 33 years of love, sacrifice, and service behind them, the Taylors share candid insights on how they kept their marriage strong through deployments, relocations, and the unique pressures that come with military life.
From building trust across distance to supporting one another through career shifts and family transitions, this conversation is packed with wisdom, humor, and heartfelt advice for couples—military or not—who want to stay connected and committed for the long haul.
Whether you're new to military life or looking for encouragement in your own marriage, you’ll find practical takeaways and a deep well of encouragement in this episode.
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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2025.
"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/
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Welcome to this week’s 5-Minute Friday on The Favorite Marriage Podcast! Today, we’re diving into one of the most common sources of tension in relationships: money. Whether you're a saver, a spender, or somewhere in between, financial differences can create stress—but they can also be an opportunity for growth. In just five minutes, we’ll share practical tips on how to understand each other’s money mindset, communicate better about finances, and create a plan that works for both of you.
Don’t miss this quick but powerful conversation that could change how you handle money together.
5 minutes. One powerful perspective shift. A better marriage.
Feeling emotionally drained, mentally exhausted, or just plain tired in your marriage? In this quick but powerful 5-Minute Friday episode, we’re diving into some causes of marriage exhaustion and how couples can reconnect without burnout. Whether it’s parenting pressures, work-life stress, or just growing distance, we’ll give you real solutions for emotional fatigue in marriage—in just five minutes.
Hosts Monty & Jeannine break down:
Why exhaustion in relationships is more common than you think
How to communicate when you're both running on empty
Micro-habits that restore emotional intimacy and connection
Showing empathy for your spouse that creates safety
If your marriage feels stuck in survival mode, this episode is for you. Tune in for a short, insightful dose of marriage encouragement and practical tools for couples looking to grow stronger—even when they’re tired.
In this mini-series of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine explore deeper differences in communication styles, personality traits, and how couples recharge.
Using the iPhone vs. Android relationship analogy, they dive into how seemingly small preferences can highlight the bigger picture of compatibility, compromise, and connection.
In This Episode, You’ll Discover:
How to embrace personality differences in marriage and relationships
Why understanding your partner’s communication style builds a healthier bond
How couples can use their unique strengths to grow stronger together
The power of the phrase: “Not wrong, just different” in relationship dynamics
Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, this episode offers practical relationship advice for navigating differences — from tech habits to emotional responses.
Perfect for:
Couples with different preferences or communication styles
Listeners interested in relationship podcasts, marriage communication tips, and emotional intelligence in partnerships
Anyone who wants to build a more connected, respectful, and lasting relationship
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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2024.
"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/
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