SOS! I'm struggling

September has been a journey of twists and turns but a particular moment stood out. Find out how I was able to change a rejection mail into a win by taking full responsibility for my shortcomings. I'll be honest to wait that I still think of the whole process as a miracle. I know it's a miracle and I hope it inspires you too be kinder to yourself.

It's one thing to boldly advocate for kindness it's an entirely different experience to be kind especially when it's inconvenient and you're in "the right." In this episode, I share a personal experience that taught me all over the importance of responding and not reacting to situations. Being kind takes conscious effort. It's about being deliberate, and intentionally choosing certain actions over others. It's being empathetic. It's not insisting on your right.

Hello Friend. it's a great feeling to know that you always come back with each episode. This episode around, I've dropped a couple of tricks to help you have an amazing August, an August to remember if you will. I understand how easily you must have fallen into your routines but I'm not one to let go especially when I see the makings of greatness. Consider it an act of kindness from me to you, and I hope that by implementing these really simple tricks, the quality of your life will improve a lot better. The only thing I ask of you, is that you extend this kindness to other people around you in your community tht way, we get to change the world, one kind act at a time.

Breathe.

Time is an illusion yet we are already six months into 2024. How do you feel about this? I ask because feelings matter more than we give them credit for, so I thought to give you something to hold unto.

It becomes easy to not do the things we promised ourselves that we would do, when we let fear, disappointments, anxiety and uncertainty define who we.

How's your year looking so far?

I woke up to the most beautifully written note ever yesterday. It's the kindest compliment that I have had the honor of receiving and it inspired me to become intentional with kindness.

This guy called his misogyny out on twitter and I was impressed. It's not everyday you meet people who are self aware and also self-regulate.

The best thing I've had the pleasure of hearing this year is from Vusi Thembekwayo; "Your reality is your reality, you're not imagining that you're poor" Ever since then, I've been working twice as hard to get over the feelings of the challenges that life keeps throwing and embrace systems that'll yield results instead. As you listen to this episode, I hope it inspires you first to believe in what's possible and then to take action now, and every single day of your life. Suave.

Start doing the things you said you'll do You don't need an accountability partner, You need discipline. Hard core discipline.

I know how difficult life can get sometimes. You run so far and for a while it may seem great till you experience a rough bump that shakes up your entire system. You're not alone. God is here. God is in this story.

The journey of a thousand mile begins with a step.

You've probably been in a situation where you thought someone was going to do something for you without you asking them because you assumed they should have figured it out. And I can bet you were probably disappointed when they didn't and for most people, they'll internalise this hurt and sometimes become even resentful. If you want to learn how to get over the hurts and disappointments from umet expectations, then listen to the end of this podcast. Each sentence serves as a step to the next lifting you to a valuable ending. Enjoy!

I'm not sure what's currently going on but it'll make sense in time

Yesterday was father's day and it was important I shared with you the experiences that have shaped my life as a confident woman. My father played and still plays a critical role and I was compelled to honour his efforts. I'm not sure what your life looks like or what kind of relationship you have with your Dad at this point but I'm 100% confident that you can have the best relationship with your future kids only if you take a decision to be kind today.

The struggles behind most success stories are only shared much later after the people involved have overcome their struggles. However, hearing from someone who is passing through the same situation as you or something similar share their motivation is one of the most powerful source of motivation you could ever come across. I do not know what you're currently passing through but I wanted you to know that God is in this story.

Last year, I had an experience where a foreigner called me black. I wrote down that encounter on paper, then sent it to my friend because I knew it was important to process that feeling. Find out how that single experience has shaped my perspective on kindness.

Earlier today, I felt a bit down and spent over 5 hours trying to find the "light". Join me as I share what I discovered from this "down time experience"