If you’ve ever found yourself performing your pleasure instead of fully feeling it, this episode is your wake-up call. Today, I’m inviting you into a deeply honest conversation about orgasmic equality and the truth of women’s pleasure.  Drawing inspiration from Dr. Laurie Mintz’s groundbreaking book Becoming Cliterate, we’ll explore why the “orgasm gap” isn’t a personal problem, it’s a cultural conditioning that teaches women to perform pleasure instead of embodying it. Join me as I unpack how understanding your own arousal system, anatomy, and nervous system can completely transform your relationship with your body and your experience of intimacy and connection. You’ll learn how orgasm equality is not just about pleasure, it’s the very foundation of personal, creative, emotional, and even economic empowerment. So if you’re ready to stop faking it, in bed and in life, and start living from your most embodied, turned-on truth, pour yourself a cup of tea, and get comfortable and let's get to it!        === LINKS: === •Anatomy Of Pleasure Masterclass: https://www.vilates.com/waitlist2025  •Website: vilates.com •Rebirth 1:1 coaching: https://www.vilates.com/the-rebirth-intimate-coaching •FREE Breast Massage Meditation: www.vilates.com/free-breast-massage-meditation •Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vilates_/ •Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3fs2KlkHNzICKAg2crZSMB •Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ecology-of-intimacy-podcast/id1772602980     === . . . . Disclaimer This podcast is presented solely for educational and entertainment purposes. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, medical practitioner, professional coach, psychotherapist, or any other qualified professional. We shall in no event be held liable to any party for any reason arising directly or indirectly for the use or interpretation of the information presented in this podcast. Copyright 2025 © Vilates, Pty. Ltd - All rights reserved.