Scarlet joins The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D for a candid Part 1 on what happens when swinging collides with polyamory. From jealousy breakthroughs to therapy insights and parenting in open relationships, this episode brings real talk and practical takeaways you won’t hear anywhere else.
Series: This is Part 1 of 2. Don’t miss the conclusion in S3E18, airing October 7.
Paid promotion / affiliate links. We may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Sponsor mentions are separate from editorial content.
Find episodes, resources, and event info at DownDirtyPodcast.com.
New episodes every Tuesday.
The Professor and Chuck D face off on public play “points”: does joining the Mile High Club really score higher, or is two-woman in-seat action riskier (and hotter)? From movie theater tactics to afterparty burnout, orgy suite debates, and the line between soft and full swap — this 16-minute micro pulls no punches.
Paid promotion / affiliate links. We may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Sponsor mentions are separate from editorial content.
Find more episodes and event info at DownDirtyPodcast.com. Listener questions or want to be a guest? Email info@downanddirtyproductions.com. New episodes every Tuesday.
🎧 From Phone Store Confessions to the White Party Takeover
The Professor, The Dean, and Chuck D return with laughs, stories, and big event teasers to kick off the swing season. From a wild phone store confession that turned into an unexpected lifestyle recruit, to why September is the real start of “swing season,” this episode has it all. And of course, the crew dives deep into what’s coming up next — including one of the year’s hottest hotel takeovers.
💬 In This Episode:
🎟️ Upcoming Events:
🛎️ Full event details + bookings at: CouplesNextDoor.com
❤️ Sponsored by:
GlixbyJax – Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nights
PassionScapes Photography – Official event photographer + mini boudoir shoots
Playcations by Stacey – Curating your next lifestyle getaway
Lovense – Interactive toys for couples & solo play, shop with our referral link
CouplesNextDoor.com – Studio sponsor & lifestyle community network
CND New Member Promo Code: Use code DDPOD when signing up to support the show
📬 Listener Questions? Want to be a guest?
Email: info@downanddirtypodcast.com
🎙️ The Down & Dirty Podcast
Hosted by: The Professor, The Dean (Regular Guest Host) & Chuck D
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions Company
Music by: Victoria
Weekly episodes streaming on all major podcast platforms.
From Indecent Proposal to Eyes Wide Shut to the short-lived series Swingtown, the crew debates how Hollywood portrays swinging — and why it never matches the real thing. Along the way, they unpack ENM terms like “nesting partner,” joke about how quickly kids pick up on adult dynamics, and close with a brutally honest Would You Rather that only Chuck D would deliver.
This mini-episode keeps it fast, funny, and real: what TV gets wrong, what real life looks like, and how language, family, and boundaries actually play out in the lifestyle. If you’ve ever yelled at your screen during a “swinger” storyline, this one’s for you.
👉 Join the conversation at CouplesNextDoor.com
Sponsor: https://couplesnextdoor.com
Partners: https://glixbyjax.com | https://passionscapesphotography.com | https://playcationsbystacey.com
Special Offer: Join CouplesNextDoor with promo code DIRTY25
Remote Play: Lovense Toys — referral link: https://www.lovense.com/r/eoxx1c
Credits
Event Tie-In: Labor Day Pool Party — Aug 30, 2025 (planned live recording)
🎧 Part 2 of the Spit Cup Series – Featuring Mike
If you thought Part 1 was messy… buckle up. In this follow-up, Mike (founder of CouplesNextDoor) returns with the crew to talk post-play dynamics, missteps in communication, and what happens when emotions get involved in swapping.
💬 Topics include:
• Post-hookup clarity and awkward confessions
• Why who sits where still matters at the afterparty
• Chuck D’s commentary on cross-couple chemistry
📢 Advertisers:
• GlixbyJax – https://glixbyjax.com
• PassionScapes Photography – https://passionscapesphotography.com
• Playcations by Stacey – https://playcationsbystacey.com
🎙 Studio Partner:
• CouplesNextDoor – https://couplesnextdoor.com
🎙 The Down & Dirty Podcast
Hosted by: The Professor, Mrs. Doll & Chuck D
Featuring: The Dean (semi-regular guest)
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions Company – https://downdirtyproductions.com
Music by: Victoria
🎧 TEASER: The Ice House Incident – Chuck D’s Worst Sex Story (And It’s Not What You Think)
Some sex stories you forget — others get told on a podcast for the world to hear. Chuck D shares what went down (literally) in a rocking “ice house” during a wild farm party. Camper mattresses, misunderstandings, and a dude with his hands up… yeah, it’s as awkward as it sounds.
🎯 You’ll never look at an ice house the same again.
Follow now — full episode drops August 12 and you don’t want to miss what’s coming.
🎙️ The Down & Dirty Podcast
Real stories. Wild confessions. Sex-positive community.
📦 Support the show:
👕 Get Down & Dirty Shirts at GlitzbyJax.com
📸 PassionScapes Photography – Sensual. Professional. Unapologetically you.
✈️ Playcations by Stacey – Lifestyle travel done right
🍑 Shop Lovense Toys – Remote-control vibes, long-distance fun, and tip-enabled toys
👫 Join CouplesNextDoor – The #1 ethically non-monogamous community
🎧 Visit DownDirtyPodcast.com – Submit your stories, questions, or episode ideas
🎧 Special Guest: Jenny — Lifestyle Unicorn, Dating Pro, and CND Favorite
In this juicy sit-down, Jenny — a single female who's been part of the Down & Dirty circle for years — shares what it's really like dating in and out of the lifestyle. From first-date disclosures to navigating clingy couples, she's got tips, warnings, and hilarious stories from both sides of the swinger scene.
💬 In This Episode:
🎟️ Upcoming CND Events:
🛎️ All event details + room bookings on: CouplesNextDoor.com
❤️ Sponsored by:
Bondesque – Kink, leather, lingerie & luxury for all your after-dark desires
GlixbyJax – Custom kink jewelry & conversation-starters
PassionScapes Photography – Look good. Get seen. Get booked.
Playcations by Stacey – Your next lifestyle adventure planner
CouplesNextDoor.com – Studio sponsor & lifestyle network
📬 Listener Questions? Want to be a guest?
Email: info@downanddirtypodcast.com
🎙️ The Down & Dirty Podcast
Real stories. Wild confessions. Sex-positive community.
Hosted by: The Professor, Mrs. Doll & Chuck D
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions Company
Music by: Victoria
Bi-Weekly episodes streaming on all major podcast platforms.
🎧 TEASER: Chuck D’s Bedroom Lights Out by 10 — Why Vets Skip the Orgy Suite
When was the last time Chuck D was up (and getting down) past midnight? The crew calls him out in this no-filter conversation about after parties, group play, and why experienced swingers often ghost the orgy suites entirely.
💤 “If you’re looking for Chuck D at 11pm... he’s in bed.”
This teaser leads into our next full episode dropping July 29 — where we’ll recap July's wildest lifestyle events and preview what’s heating up in August. Follow now and don’t miss it!
🎙️ The Down & Dirty Podcast
Real stories. Wild confessions. Sex-positive community.
📦 Support the show:
🖤 Shop Bondesque – Fetish fashion, leather, and gear
👕 Get Down & Dirty Shirts at GlitzbyJax.com
🍑 Shop Lovense Toys – Remote-control vibes, long-distance fun, and tip-enabled toys
👫 Join CouplesNextDoor – The #1 ethically non-monogamous community
🎧 Visit DownDirtyPodcast.com – Submit your stories, questions, or episode ideas
🎧 From Spit Cups to Takeovers: The Story Behind CouplesNextDoor
Before CouplesNextDoor.com was a powerhouse for lifestyle events and connection, it was just an idea born from exclusion—and a country bar full of tobacco spit cups. In this hilarious and revealing episode, The Professor, The Dean, and their co-founder Mike share how being told “no” became the launchpad for one of the Midwest’s largest swinger communities.
From early parties that started as safe spaces for interracial couples to being kicked off a platform for growing too fast, this episode is full of origin stories, hotel takeover lessons, and moments that almost shut it all down.
💬 In This Episode:
🧲 Featured Sponsors
🚨 Special Offers & Links:
🛎️ Reach out to us at DownDirtyPodcast.com
🎙️ Credits:
💬 Like what you heard? Leave a review, follow the show, and share with your people.
🎧 TEASER: Chuck D's PornHub Confession – Auditions, XHamster, and the Daily Routine
Ever wonder what goes on behind closed tabs? Chuck D holds nothing back in this hilarious and unfiltered dive into his daily porn habits — from “casting couch” favorites to why mismatched panties and rent-money desperation make it hotter. This one gets real explicit… and real relatable.
💦 Listener discretion (18+) strongly advised.
New full episodes drop every other Tuesday. Follow now so you don’t miss a beat!
🎙️ The Down & Dirty Podcast
Real stories. Wild confessions. Sex-positive community.
📦 Support the show:
🖤 Shop Bondesque – Fetish fashion, leather, and gear
🎟️ Proud sponsor of Rubber Ball USA – America’s kinkiest weekend event
👕 Get Down & Dirty Shirts at GlitzbyJax.com
🍑 Shop Lovense Toys – Remote-control vibes, long-distance fun, and tip-enabled toys (yes, that kind)
👫 Join CouplesNextDoor – The #1 ethically non-monogamous community
🎧 Visit DownDirtyPodcast.com – Submit your stories, questions, or episode ideas
🎧 Cruise Hookups, Glow Party Drama & Sticky Floors: Summer in the Lifestyle
Summer’s heating up, and so are the stories. In this episode, The Professor and Mrs. Doll dish on an unexpected swinger encounter aboard a vanilla cruise—yes, while surrounded by family. Then it's on to Glow Too, the Midwest's hottest glow party, where mansion meetups, paint-streaked bodies, and questionable floor conditions await.
It’s wild. It’s sweaty. It’s a lifestyle summer survival guide straight from the party hosts themselves.
💬 In This Episode:
🌈 Event Highlights & Planning:
🧲 Featured Sponsors:
🚨 Special Offers & Links:
📬 Reach out to us at DownDirtyPodcast.com
🎙️ Credits:
💬 Like what you heard? Leave a review, follow the show, and tag a friend who needs a lifestyle glow-up.
🎧 TEASER: Highway 169, Hazards On — Let’s Go
Chuckie D answers The Professor’s question with zero hesitation — and way too much detail. In this clip, he tells the story of getting hot and heavy on the side of the highway near Minnesota’s biggest candy store. Yes, really. Hazards on. Ditch side. Just another day in the lifestyle.
It’s messy, real, and exactly the kind of moment that makes The Down & Dirty Podcast what it is.
🎧 Browse the full show archive at DownDirtyPodcast.com
In one of our most honest episodes yet, The Down & Dirty crew sits down with Lindsay, a licensed therapist and lifestyle-aware mental health coach, for a raw conversation about what really happens beneath the surface of swinging, play parties, and non-monogamous relationships. We talk emotional triggers, communication breakdowns, burnout, and the real mental weight that can come with "the fun."
💬 In This Episode:To learn more about Lindsay’s lifestyle-aware coaching services, visit PleasureAlchemy.lifestyle
🚨 Special Offers & Links:💬 Like what you heard? Leave a review, follow the show, and share with someone who needs to hear it.
🎧 TEASER: Pandora’s Box Doesn’t Stay Closed in This World
When you’re in the lifestyle, things come up faster—emotionally, mentally, relationally. In this teaser, Lindsay, a licensed therapist, joins Mrs. Doll to unpack how non-monogamy doesn’t just allow for deeper conversations... it forces them.
From buried insecurities to emotional overload, this short clip offers a glimpse into next week’s powerful episode on mental health in ethically non-monogamous relationships.
📅 Full episode drops Tuesday, June 11 on The Down & Dirty Podcast.
Planning your next big lifestyle event? Check out RubberBallUSA.com — an epic celebration of kink, connection, and play happening this July. Details and tickets on the site!
🎧 Catch the full archive and subscribe at DownDirtyPodcast.com
🎧 Swing Season Closes, Summer Vibes Begin
It’s the post-party wind-down you didn’t know you needed. In this episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, the crew recaps the Little Black Dress Hotel Takeover and the energy rolling out of spring and into summer. From lap dances and lingerie trades to emotional moments and etiquette reminders, this one brings it all.
💬 In This Episode:
🚨 Special Offers & Links:
💰 Sponsors & Promo Codes:
🎙️ Credits:
💬 Like what you heard? Leave a review, follow the show, and tell a friend in the lifestyle.
🔥 Building Your Crew, Breaking the Clique 🔥
In this episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D, and special guests dig into one of the most common lifestyle struggles: how to find your people—without getting stuck in a clique.
If you’ve ever felt like an outsider at events, unsure how to meet people, or stuck in a small circle that limits your experience, this episode is for you. From hilarious party fails to real talk about navigating personalities, it’s a crash course in how to create connection, community, and chemistry without drama.
👀 What’s Inside This Episode:
🚨 Special Offers & Exclusive Links:
💰 Sponsors & Promo Codes:
🎙️ Credits & More:
Ever notice who gets approached at lifestyle events — and who doesn't? Chuck D shares a candid perspective on how interracial couples are often treated at parties and why it matters. It’s short, powerful, and worth thinking about before your next night out.
🎙️ Full episode airs Tuesday, May 27 on The Down & Dirty Podcast
💬 Got thoughts or a similar story? Visit <a href="https://downdirtypodcast.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">DownDirtyPodcast.com</a> and let us know.
🎧 TEASER: Cliques Happen — Even in the Lifestyle
People talk about “lifestyle cliques” like it’s a bad thing... but are they really?
In this teaser, The Professor and Chuck D drop some real talk about how cliques form everywhere — at work, with family, and yes, even in the lifestyle. But they also explain why one of those six people standing around at every party wants you to come say hello (and probably more than just hello). 👀
🎙️ Full episode drops Tuesday, May 27 — and yes, we’re going there: cliques, connection, and race in the lifestyle.
🔗 Links & Credits:
🎙️ Episode 4: Pushing Limits – Safety, Power & Edge Play in BDSM
From funny mishaps to powerful insights, this episode dives into the intersection of BDSM and the lifestyle. The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D are joined by special guest Sleepy, a seasoned practitioner in the BDSM community, who brings raw, insightful, and sometimes hilarious stories to the table.
Topics include:
Whether you're kink-curious or deep into the lifestyle, this one’s for you.
Sponsors & Mentions:
Got questions for the crew? Visit DownDirtyPodcast.com to drop your message or suggest a future episode.
💬 Leave a review and let us know what you think — it helps others find the show!
If this episode brought up strong emotions or you're navigating trauma related to kink, consent, or past experiences, you're not alone. Here are some trusted resources:
Please take care of yourself. Mental health matters, and support is always available.
🎧 Hosted by: The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D
🎬 Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions
🎵 Music by: Victoria
📧 Contact: info@downanddirtyproductions.com
🎧 Teaser: BDSM – From Bedroom Kinks to Full-Time Power Play
Ever wonder where kink ends and lifestyle begins?
This clip gives you a taste of our upcoming episode dropping May 6, where we dive into BDSM as both a kink and a lived identity. From choking and teasing to collaring and control, it’s a raw, honest look at what happens when play turns into power exchange—and how different that looks for everyone in the lifestyle.
💬 Got questions or stories of your own? Visit DownDirtyPodcast.com and share them with us.
📅 Full episode drops Tuesday, May 6.
